| | Libido after 50Page 1 of 14 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14) | | Is it common for someone 57 years old to want sex almost every day or sometimes twice a day?? I am not complaining, that my bf has the libido of a teenager, but I do find it a little odd. My last relationship before this one, it was once a week like clock work. | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 9/22/2008 7:00:32 PM | | When I was in my early fifties my just over 40 year old girlfriend and I used to have sex three times on many Saturdays...but certainly not every day. Just twice on Sunday, usually only once a day on other days. I was with her from age 52-56. So, OP, your guy could just be that way! | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 9/22/2008 7:07:16 PM | It may be uncommon, but CERTAINLY possible. All I have to say is... ENJOY 
Maybe you just do 'it' for him! :) | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 9/22/2008 7:27:35 PM | | She was very athletic, a track star whose HS records stood 25 years. Pretty masculine, I guess. I had heard more masculine (higher testosterone) women like sex more and more often than more feminine women. I am almost always attracted to very feminine women and getting them to have sex often is usually a hassle so I usually try to keep two or three available. The track star woman had unbelievable energy of all kinds. | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 9/22/2008 7:29:23 PM | Daisey,
I was just starting menopause but didn't realize it. My boyfriend at the time was almost 60 and I was 51. I missed a period and decided to go into Planned Parenthood to have myself checked out.
Talk about embarrassing. The questionairre was very, very indepth. Everyone in the waiting room was easily late teens early twenties.
When the nurse called me into the back....ALL of the staff were lined up and smiling! I'm sure they read it out loud.
He was very virile.
Yeah...just enjoy.
oh...I wasn't pregnant! | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 9/22/2008 7:31:35 PM | | Sex drive (libido) at any age is a very individual thing. That's the short answer to your question! | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 9/22/2008 8:11:25 PM | | I think it relates to how long the relationship has been going. At first it's going to be every day, but that won't last. We always think it will, but--it doesn't. | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 9/22/2008 9:18:27 PM | | Yes, I want sex every day. Not sure where that gets you, other than that it seems perfectly normal and understandable, to me. However, if I sensed that my partner was feeling "fatigue", my overt appetite might wane considerably, but I would probably be feeling the pangs. At that age, a man may hear the his own biological clock ticking, and be tempted to "divert" his drive and attention. | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 9/22/2008 10:56:14 PM | | I like a man with a high sex drive, i think the worst mistake a couple can make is to wait for the end of the day when everyone is tired, but early morning is also good! | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 9/22/2008 11:14:33 PM | | its quite simple. if ones got the six inches between the ears going for them...then enjoy the six inches between the legs... | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 9/23/2008 2:39:09 AM | Don't worry....BE HAPPY .... especially if you're enjoying what he's giving !  | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 9/23/2008 9:52:39 AM | Yeah It's all good, just surprising. I thought by now our sex life would slow down some since we have been together awhile , but there doesn't seem to be any sign of it slowing down yet. | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 9/23/2008 2:32:05 PM | it is not the norm, but seems you have a problem a lot of us would like to have, in a relationship or not | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 9/23/2008 5:57:47 PM | | It's a sign of good health. I'm a little younger but hopefully will be just as virile when I'm a few years older. Only problem is most women don't want lots of sex every day. | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 9/23/2008 6:05:16 PM | | I always ask how her libido is - it's one of those ESSENTIAL questions for me and her. They have got to match up. | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 9/23/2008 6:37:35 PM | | It's not uncommon at all. As far as I'm concerned, all the talk about not wanting sex as much when you get older is a bunch of crap. I believe it has everything to do with letting the fire die in the relationship. More than twice a day isn't out of the question either. | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 10/5/2008 12:19:48 AM | | I think it's wonderful for a person at any age to have a high libido ... now all I have to do is find my match ... not just libido wise ... you're very lucky ... wish I had your problem! I'd be on cloud 69 every day! | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 10/5/2008 3:02:11 AM | | Everybody is different. Be thankful that you turn him on | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 10/5/2008 8:40:51 AM |
Is it common for someone 57 years old to want sex almost every day or sometimes twice a day?? I am not complaining, that my bf has the libido of a teenager, but I do find it a little odd. My last relationship before this one, it was once a week like clock work.
Just don't know what to do with this one. Heck. Does he have a brother? I'm from Portland but don't want to move back to Oregon...maybe he has a brother who wants to move to Austria?  | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 10/5/2008 11:23:26 AM | | Yes it's common for a 57 year old to have the libido of a teenager. Enjoy! | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 10/5/2008 11:36:17 AM | Is it common for someone 57 years old to want sex almost every day or sometimes twice a day??
...I don't know, I've never been that lucky.
...maeflowers | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 10/7/2008 10:11:53 AM | Looks like our luck's floatin' in the same boat Mae.... . . | |
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| Libido after 50 Posted: 10/7/2008 1:52:24 PM | Why do people call you OP?
I have been a member 8 days.
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