| how to get the wierd ones..
Posted: 9/22/2008 11:06:12 PM | well i have this guys at my work he's older about 42 or so...and i really like him..the thing is ..he's a square..with serious edges that are well defined..he had lived at home with his mother until just recently ..or so i heard..i can tell he notices me and i can tell he notices that i notice him..
he has the dopest bluest eyes i ever saw..i have no clue why i like him..but i do..something is pulling me towards him.. now i just have to find a way that i can talk to him. or at least say hello...at least he makes eye contact now..before he never used to...lol..
i dunno my question is..can a young'n and an older momma's boy get hooked up?
i really have to try this one out...it really interests me...where this is going i have no clue..
but we'll see...dang his eyes are dope as heck..  | |
|
| how to get the wierd ones..
Posted: 9/22/2008 11:16:24 PM | | Walk into work with a cappuccino or an ice-cream or a steak dinner, and "accidentally" spill it on his crutch. Then act very apologetic and clumsy, and start to wipe the shiiiit 'ff 'is pants in the front. If you detect no movement, or sclerosis, then forget it -- momma's boy. If he grabs you by the neck and drags you along the row of desks in the steno pool, and pins you agains the wall in his office behind closed glass doors, then don't resist or scream for help (he may get some), and please never laugh at the size of his manhood. It's horrible when that happens. Really, you should believe me, don't do that, it hurts more than a kick in the same place. I know, woman, dammit, oh, I know. | |
|
| how to get the wierd ones..
Posted: 9/23/2008 1:31:13 AM | OP: You're dealing with a guy. Stop trying to be subtle, or interpret little signs of anything. Be blunt, and I mean overwhelmingly blunt. Make sure he knows, in no uncertain terms, that you are interested/want him.
Then, ask him where he's taking you on your first date.
That should pretty much guarantee that - if he's interested at all - you'll end up with at least one date. | |
|
| how to get the wierd ones..
Posted: 9/23/2008 3:43:09 AM | | thats a nice age gap i would say go for it but 40's an jus now getting out from momma is a red flag for me... | |
|
| how to get the wierd ones..
Posted: 9/23/2008 4:52:06 AM | Can you not see the RED FLAGS?
A Mama's boy at 42?
Uhmmmm sounds as if you could possibly have a fun & full sex life (with mama in the other room).
Good luck to you, you are going to need it! | |
|
| how to get the wierd ones..
Posted: 9/23/2008 6:19:53 AM | Well at 42 his momma may be getting on up in years and a younger replacement might be an attractive option. If you really want to go thru with this, here's what you do.
Bake stuff for your lunch at work and make plenty of extras.
Just say "Hey do you want a muffin? I made too many and can't eat em all. "
Start off simple with muffins, donuts, the easy-casual to share stuff.
Makes a good icebreaker.
Later work up to more serious lunch items sandwiches, pasta, whatever.
At that point yall should be talking pretty often over lunch.
The way to get a momma's boy is with a trail of breadcrumbs.
Good Luck. | |
|
| how to get the wierd ones..
Posted: 9/23/2008 7:28:37 AM | Here's a novel idea. Why don't you just walk up and say HI!?
Why do some women have to make things sooo damn difficult?? | |
|
| how to get the wierd ones..
Posted: 9/23/2008 8:42:14 AM | | Op Nothing should stop you to just go up and introduce yourself and say Hi!! See if he responds or tuck's his tail and dives for cover... Don't be judgemental until you get a chance to find out what he's all about. You don't know him and he doesn't know you. If you don't knock on the door you'll never know if it will ever open for you... | |
|
| how to get the wierd ones..
Posted: 9/23/2008 9:06:51 AM |
OP: You're dealing with a guy. Stop trying to be subtle, or interpret little signs of anything.
Agreed. Take whatever behavior you think he "should" notice, and amplify it by 10. Rather, have a neon sign made that says, "I like you, and not just as a friend!" and wear it around your neck....blinking on and off, whenever you're around him. In addition, while he's looking at the sign, say to him, "this sign is talking about you."  | |
|
| how to get the wierd ones..
Posted: 9/23/2008 9:57:05 AM | Chances are this guy will not be confident with women.
I think YOU need to do the running. ASK HIM OUT
When he says no firsat time - which he will - he will be scared - try again.
Weird ones are not the shy lived with mum for ages.
But he may be a raving internet sex freak, you just got to find out.... | |
|
| how to get the wierd ones..
Posted: 9/23/2008 2:22:33 PM | I don't understand. If you already find some faults with him, you must realize these things will magnifies if your relationship becomes intimate. Why would you want to date a man you call "square?" Or with "dopey" anything? I hope that you are not taking the position that so many women take, which is a big mistake, that you can change him or civilises him, or mold him into something that will eventually irritate himself to become?
Next, so many people make mistakes to date someone from work. Caramba! Are people so short-sited that they cannot see what might happens if somethings go terribly wrong? Do not ever date anyone who you would not expect to run into, and become very uncomfortable and fractious where it could threaten your future employment or privacy, such as at work, at the neighborhood, the apartment building or complex. Common senses prevail. | |
|
| |
| how to get the wierd ones..
Posted: 9/23/2008 2:26:41 PM | Instead of baking for him, DON'T bake, but still ask, "You like MUFFINS, little boy?" Then sit in his lap.
I used up one post for this! | |
|
| how to get the wierd ones..
Posted: 9/23/2008 2:34:51 PM | | Never start something with someone you work with unless you are willing to give up your job if things don't work out. | |
|
| how to get the wierd ones..
Posted: 9/23/2008 2:37:02 PM | I think YOU need to do the running. ASK HIM OUT
If you want to have more with this guy, I agree. It took him a while to make eye contact. Asking you out is a pretty good leap from eye contact for a shy guy. Sure there may be some red flags, but these guys have to get out in the dating world at some point. Imagine if a woman had this sort of effect on him earlier in life. I doubt he'd be living with momma right now. I feel for these guys. They can't move ahead because they are perceived as strange. There is a fine line between sympathy and legitimate interest, but I can't help but notice how common this sort of situation is becoming. Isolated and alone, socially inept, and then ridiculed reflects poorly on us as a people. Start catching these men in their 20's before they turn into a 40 year old at home with mom. | |
|
| |
| how to get the wierd ones..
Posted: 9/23/2008 4:21:40 PM | he has the dopest bluest eyes i ever saw..
I am not that familiar with the vernacular of your region.
Does dope mean hound dog eyes or does it mean that he
looks like he's been smoking the wacky weed?
What do they call the company pier up there? | |
|
| how to get the wierd ones..
Posted: 9/23/2008 4:45:31 PM | | Hmmmm a mommas boy. Tell him to clean up his office, and then add, once this mess is cleaned up we can go out and you can try my sweet buns. | |
|
| how to get the wierd ones..
Posted: 9/23/2008 5:18:02 PM | Honestly, if he's that old and still single, he probably has issues picking up 'signals' don't beat around the bush don't be coy don't be subtle, and lord don't wait on him to move.
Be straightforward walk up to him and ask him out. Other wise this may never happen.
He may never 'man up' enough to do it or second guess himself and talk himself out of it.
It's all you now.
Good Luck!! | |
|
| how to get the wierd ones..
Posted: 9/23/2008 8:43:06 PM | I'd go with the baking muffins idea myself... I think that's your best chance, gives you more time to get to know him etc...
And I laughed hard at what Pirate said lol.
Good luck! | |
|
| how to get the wierd ones..
Posted: 9/23/2008 8:50:55 PM | | My dear, there's a reason why he's in his 40's still living with his mom. You sound like a 'fixer'. | |
|
Home
login 
