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 palmer f
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Well A Co - worker of Mine Caught her Bf "Wrestling" with her Mom. She said is that normal for guys to do that sort of thing and I said that as a guy, I have never "wrestled" with my Gf's Mom. But hey I'm maybe not the normal guy after all. LOL.

But enough about me and what I do and don't do. Here's how the story goes as it was told to me by her.

It was the weekend and her, the bf and her mom were all going to the beach for the day. So they began packing up all the things that they were going to take with them. Anyways she said that she needed his help loading the cooler or something into the car and she called for him, but he didn't answer. So she called for he again and still didn't answer. Needing his help loading the cooler, she stops and goes looking for him in the house. She said she called him some more and still no anwser. Then she said that she headed to her Mom's room to ask her if she has seen him. As she was approaching the roor, she notice that the door was about closed, but it still had a small crack remaining. She heard some voices in the room and one she that was her Bf. So being being curious, she pushed the door open and found her bf "wrestling" with her mom in the mom's bed. She said that they both looked shocked. The mom said that they were just having some fun and for her to "lighten up." Then her bf said that they were just playing and that he was in the room with the mom because he was looking for her. LOL. Then he told her that all guys have wrestled with their gf's mom once in their life.
Oh she said that the Mom was wearing a Bikini Top and a Bikini Bottom with a wrap and the bf was wearing his shorts and was shirtless.

Anyways she said that she is confused and is feeling guilty for being worried that it didn't seem right for them to be doing that. Even if they were just playing.

I say she she should be worried that her mom and her bf have no boundaries and that IMO always leads to trouble. Well I'm curious as to whatever one on here think about this situation and how would you react to it. Should she really be worried?
 Geneseo
Joined: 3/5/2008
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Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 10:59:22 AM
Yeah that's all fine and dandy, but what about answering the most natural question that now pops up!!

Who WON the wrestling match??




 *~Krysteene~*
Joined: 1/31/2008
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Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 11:02:20 AM

I say she she should be worried that her mom and her bf have no boundaries and that IMO always leads to trouble. Well I'm curious as to whatever one on here think about this situation and how would you react to it. Should she really be worried?


Yes, I think she should be worried and she should be totally ticked off that neither the b/f nor the mother are even considering her feelings about this. The comment to "lighten up" really bothers me.

How would the mom feel if she walked in on her daughter "wrestling" with her new b/f?
Or how would the b/f feel if he walked in on his dad "wrestling" with the g/f?

Personally, I've never wrestled with a b/f's dad, nor has a b/f ever wrestled with my mom, nor have I ever wrestled with my mom's b/f.

I think they're full of shyt and don't even have the decency to be ashamed of themselves.

Krys
 Sepia777
Joined: 2/26/2008
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Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 11:06:38 AM
LMFAOOOOOOOOOO...... sounds like a Jerry Springer episode ...
The only shocking one here is neither the so called "mom" or the "bf" but the GF for claiming to be "confused" and "feeling guilty".... DUH!!
Any sane person knows that the bf and Mom were clearly engaging in some inappropriate read nasty type behavior and the gf should have promptly
de-nutted this so called bf and wear his nuts as earings... and the Mom? ...disgusting// If the gf waited and watched for 5 mins more you can bet she would have caught the "grand slam finale"..


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Then he told her that all guys have wrestled with their gf's mom once in their life

oh really? wow learn something new everyday! I never knew that..!!
 V4Vivacious
Joined: 9/24/2007
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Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 11:07:53 AM
I'd be looking for a new boyfriend and the MOM wouldn't get an introduction!
Sounds as if this Mother has no shame
Not cool, not cool at all.
 supernovastunnah
Joined: 4/26/2008
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Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 11:11:00 AM
sounds like a porno to me.
 daynadaze
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Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 11:11:56 AM
I saw this very thing on The Maury Show and yep, the mom was doing the BF, but it was alright because the boyfriend was sorry and said it wouldn't happen again, so they went home and made 5 or 6 babies but were back because the girlfriend had no idea if the boyfriend or his brothers or his dad or the guys on the street corner, not to mention several of her cousins, could have been the babies' fathers. It was a mess, and the mother was pregnant and wanting to test the daughter's boyfriend after the baby was born, which Maury assured her they would help her with.

You know, my daughters have had several boyfriends over the years and while some have given me a nice innocent hug, none of us ever got into wrestling, or even touching while half dressed, for any reason. I'd say your friend needs to dump them both and find a better life for herself than being a potential Maury ratings booster.
 palmer f
Joined: 4/3/2008
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Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 11:14:38 AM
I guess you would say it was a draw since she interrupted it.
 Navigator6
Joined: 3/5/2008
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Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 11:16:40 AM
So, your co-worker doesn't know if she should be worried?? I find that pretty hard to believe. Further, how are WE supposed to know? I mean, we don't know what kind of family dynamics they have. Maybe the mother is just a playful person and means no harm. Maybe the mother is a vindictive, jealous, b*tch who wants to boff her daughter's BF. Maybe the BF came on to the Mom. Maybe your co-worker fabricated the whole screwy story.

Who knows? Regardless, just so I'm clear - based on the responses you get here, YOU'RE going to tell your co-worker whether or not she should be worried?? There are sooo many things wrong with whole this picture...

All that I can say is that I've never wrestled with any of my GF's mothers.
 carolann0308
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Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 11:20:07 AM
Maybe he fell on her Mother and can't get up?
 palmer f
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Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 11:20:23 AM
Well I think she should dum him as well. But she's "like" so in love with him and all that crap. I just told her to be prepared when something hapens. All the warining signs are there. But she is still feeling guilty about thinking bad thoughts about them"wrestling".

She said that he wasn't doing anything wrong and that she has the issues with trusting him. Her mom told her that the bf's right and that she is the one with the trust issues.

WTF?
Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 11:20:50 AM
Depends ... Did she have his head in a thigh lock?
 ChocolateNutt
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Posted: 9/23/2008 11:27:52 AM
I'm 35 years old and have never before heard of a guy wrestling with his girlfriend's mom so I can't imagine that being a normal circumstance--particularly in a bed with the door shut and both scantily clad.

She should ditch them both.

Nutt
 ***blue***
Joined: 4/21/2008
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Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 11:30:30 AM
Wow I feel very badly for her.
No its not normal for a bf to wrestle with mom. I have known some people that excepted thier inlaws into thier families like they have always been there, and nothing like that EVER happend.

I do hope that you let her read these responces and that they can give her some help.
There is absolutely no reason for her to feel guilty about anything.
 *~Krysteene~*
Joined: 1/31/2008
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Posted: 9/23/2008 11:30:35 AM

She said that he wasn't doing anything wrong and that she has the issues with trusting him. Her mom told her that the bf's right and that she is the one with the trust issues.


Can't imagine where those trust issues are coming from.

Krys
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
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Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 11:33:44 AM
That's not love, that's desperate and lonely and clingy and needy as hell...both the mother and the daughter -- and the boyfriend, well he's getting it where ever with whomever he can. She should be worried about her own self-esteem and why she would allow such chit in her life and call it love. Then, look at the trashy mother, the role model, and let me guess, no father in the picture. Your Friend needs to set some boundaries and work on her insecurity and realize that so far she doesn't have a clue about love or what's normal dynamics in a family. Seriously, she needs help or she really will live a life like a character on the Maury/Springer shows.
 sheilarodri
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Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 11:38:49 AM
I agree this has Jerry Springer all over it.
I have wrestled with my bf but for him to wrestle with my mom-WTF dont think so.
Would i wrestle with my childrens SO- NO thats just so wrong sounding.
And to top it off they were wrestling in their swim suites yeah right.
It diffently sounds like MOM is wishing she was young again and BF is just looking to score with all the women in that family.
 girlwillbegirl
Joined: 4/25/2007
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Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 12:15:59 PM
This ain't arm wrestling, honey. Wrestling in the bed???? Gimme a break, what you think is going on???? And what's going to come after the wrestling match. Mama is way out of bounds.
 Chet B
Joined: 8/11/2008
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Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 12:26:50 PM
Time to hide a teddy bear cam and post some video on the internet!
 ~Angel-Eyes~
Joined: 6/1/2008
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Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 12:39:54 PM
Seriously, I voted this is a troll post. Whole thing sounds pretty made up to me. And IF it were real, why the hell would anyone believe that story of "wrestling". Boyfriends cheating on girls with their moms, ewwwww...........
 StrangerInTheHouse
Joined: 2/9/2008
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Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 12:49:38 PM
I'm sure it's happened before. Someone shouldn't automatically suspect her b/f and mother of cheating, but she'd be dumb to ever trust them alone together after that... I also know what some cultures are like. People can be way different than we think, many times.
 V4Vivacious
Joined: 9/24/2007
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Posted: 9/23/2008 12:54:42 PM
Carolann, you crack me up!!!!
 V4Vivacious
Joined: 9/24/2007
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Posted: 9/23/2008 12:58:50 PM
Angle eyes, I agree..ewww on bf's cheating with Mom's but I do know that it happens. I used to go to school with a gal who dated a guy for a nearly a year...until she found out that he was also doing her Mom.

They were the talk of the town~
 ***blue***
Joined: 4/21/2008
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Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 1:05:51 PM
We have a patient that comes into my work. He had a daughter from a previous marrige who was about 15 at the time he got remarried. His daughter had been seeing her BF for about 9 months ( a long time at that age), and I'm not sure if she or her dad walked in on it or caught them another way, but the stepmom and 15 yearold BF were having an affair.

Op your co worker sounds like she is very young still or like she has had some really damaging relationships. She needs help to find out what healthy relationships are and what they are not. Tell her to dump the guy, cut off mom (she really doesn't sound like much of one), and get some counseling.
 KISS MY A$$
Joined: 9/6/2008
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Co - Worker Caught BF Wrestling With her Mom. Should she be worried about more?
Posted: 9/23/2008 1:08:16 PM
This story just ugly!! Some one needs a prescription for pschotropic medications.
Mommy, BF, Co-worker, they all need a committe and a staff of Doctors. Why your engaging in it and getting worked up to the point of having to write a post about it?
I would not want to hear a story like that more than once, never mind try to help her "fix" that problem. You need a PHD to help this girl. Throw the yellow pages at her and tell her to go get some counceling. OP, Why you even want to hear it? Never mind repeat it?

Sometimes the best thing you can do for a friend in a crisis is NOT get involved and just give them the repsect that it is a personal issue that they need help with beyond what you have to offer.
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