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Posted: 9/28/2008 7:26:04 PM | So I am out for drinks with this attractive young woman last weekend and everything is going wonderfully. We have a lot in common, things like tastes in food, movies, and outdoor activities. Over the course of the evening it becomes painfully obvious to the both of us that the chemistry we had on the phone is everything we had both hoped it would be.
Now standard practice for me normally on a first date, is to spend some time together over drinks or coffee and over the course of our conversation simply see if we like each other enough to spend more time together. I am always up front about this, and we always mutally agree to be honest with each other about how we feel once our time together is nearing an end. If things are going wonderfully we plan another activity or another date, and if not we shake hands and part as friends. Seems simple enough and it normally works out well.
Well this go round something rather odd happened. When it got to the time to decide if we wanted to spend more time together my date had a rather odd request. First she asked what kind of underwear I wore. I answered boxer briefs, and her eyes excitedly lighted up. Then she asked if she could have the ones I was wearing. When I asked why she said she needed to sleep in them before she decided if it was worth planning another outing together. She literally needed to sleep on it, or in them as the case may be.
Now has anything like this ever happened to anyone else? Have you ever gotten any odd dating requests like this? I was just grateful I was wearing some, because normally when I am wearing just jeans I prefer to go commando. Naturally out of curiosity I gave them to her. Now she did call back during the week, but I have been kinda hesitant to call her back because quite frankly the whole thing seemed kinda weird to me.
Just figured I would put this out there and see if anyone else has ever had something like this happen before.
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Posted: 9/28/2008 7:30:11 PM |
I have been kinda hesitant to call her back because quite frankly the whole thing seemed kinda weird to me.
Ya think?? | |
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Posted: 9/28/2008 7:34:09 PM | You're the second guy that I have heard of that doesn't wear undies with jeans. I find that strange for some reason because jeans are rather a rough material.
As far as strange requests, I've had guys ask me if I wearing any undies. I'm not easily offended, so it didn't bother me. In fact, I went to the ladies room and said, well not anymore. LOL
I've had many strange requests. One guy asked me to put my hands down my pants and then wanted to sniff my finger. I also had one guy ask me how much to make sure I went home with him that night. To which I responded, let's see what you got and I will tell you. Basically, nothing shocks me. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2008 7:34:15 PM | I can't say anything too strange has ever happened to me.
My take on your situation:
You are the same size as her boyfriend and his birthday is coming up.
Next date she may want your clothes...Christmas is just around the corner.
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Posted: 9/28/2008 7:34:17 PM | Seems perfectly normal to me, Brian. You should definitely call her back to find out if she was getting those "Good Vibrations" from your boxers.
Did you ask for her panties to see how you felt in them? Seems only fair, really. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2008 7:35:56 PM | Yes very weird!!!!!
I don't think you should call her back. You don't know what "weird" thing she will ask for next. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2008 7:36:01 PM | I think that woman is extremely strange and none the less very bold.
She is probably just a tease.
My word of advise move on. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2008 7:38:01 PM | Never heard of anything just like that but a lot of girls like to keep a boyfriend or SO tee shirt when he goes away to keep his smell close to them and often like to sleep in it. But that is someone that they are in a relationship with that involved more than just the first date. My ex boyfriend liked to get my panties that I had worn and take them home with him and especially when he had to go over seas to work for several months. I could not understand his thinking on it and it sort of freaked me out, but he would sneak them out with him when he left my house. When he was gone for several months he would call and ask me to send him some more recently worn ones. I never did and asked him to please stop stealing my underwear and return some of them to me. It amazes me what turns some people on. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2008 7:40:20 PM |
quite frankly the whole thing seemed kinda weird to me.
Quite frankly, I'm not sure which is more weird; the fact that she asked or the fact that you actually gave them to her.
Hmmmm, I dunno.
Lemme sleep on it and get back to you later in the week.
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Posted: 9/28/2008 7:44:45 PM |
Now she did call back during the week, but I have been kinda hesitant to call her back because quite frankly the whole thing seemed kinda weird to me.
Hmmmmm.... I don't really find that weird at all.
Weird would have been her requesting that YOU wear HER underwear, bra included, for a couple of days.
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Posted: 9/28/2008 7:53:02 PM | Are you for real.....................??
Coz i think its weirder that you actually gave them to her.
I wouldnt have taken it seriously----would've been too busy laughing !! | |
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Posted: 9/28/2008 8:02:15 PM | | Pretty weird, guy. You should stash a pair of guy thongs in a pocket and take her out again, then whip them out and hand them to her post date and watch her reaction. Then come back here and tell us how it went. | |
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iris43
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Joined: 4/20/2007
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Posted: 9/28/2008 8:15:41 PM | You have a wild one on your hands you best reign her in.....
I can't honestly say wha I think...never done nor would I having never met the lady only you know for sure.
Call her and see where it goes...no harm no fowl on your wedding day you will have a funny story to tell. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2008 8:27:32 PM | | Of course, you should call her back! If only to get those undies returned....tell her she needs to wash them first, 'cause you need to know about her laundering techniques. All good relationships are based on that very principle. (I'm kidding!!) | |
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Posted: 9/28/2008 8:45:37 PM | This is definitely one of the stranger requests I've ever heard.
Makes me wonder if she has some weird collection of men's underwear all over the walls of her house.
If you're not *too* weirded out, go ahead and call her back. She might turn out to be a great catch.
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ils99
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Joined: 5/30/2008
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Posted: 9/28/2008 10:37:57 PM | | lol she either has a very strange sense of humour....or she is generally nuts. If they were a precious pair of boxers then you could call her and ask for them back... | |
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Posted: 9/28/2008 10:42:25 PM |
Then she asked if she could have the ones I was wearing. When I asked why she said she needed to sleep in them before she decided if it was worth planning another outing together. She literally needed to sleep on it, or in them as the case may be.
Why didn't you just tell her you'd just leave them at her place when you got dressed after a roll in the sack? | |
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Posted: 9/28/2008 10:49:40 PM | | wow....oooookkkk...now borrowing a shirt from a guy or his robe is ok when you are with him so you can feel he is near..but there undies???ya...thats out there...and the fact that it was a first date?!?!!oookk...run...do not walk away from this chick..she is totally mental...if a guy asked me for my panties on a first date it definately would of been my last date w the dude...i'd call n ask for my undies back lol...mwah atcha! | |
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Posted: 9/28/2008 10:50:30 PM | | Maybe she was on a treasure hunt and needed some snapper heads boxers to win the grand prize. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2008 10:51:15 PM | | Wow, that's kind of nasty if you ask me, I mean does she wash them first before she sleeps in them? Is she like sniffing them? I guess you would never really know I would say......that would creep me out and no I would not call the person back. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2008 12:33:50 AM | LOL! I love the forums.
Have you been to her place yet? She probably has a wall of her apartment covered in mens underwear.
Cowboy | |
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