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Posted: 10/6/2008 8:06:20 PM | a woman to approach you? Would you like a woman to approach you?
Sometimes I hear men say they want that and then I hear the same men say they prefer a subtle approach. Can you even approach someone while being subtle about it?
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Posted: 10/6/2008 8:16:17 PM | I'd be great if women took initiative and approached me. The subtle approach can be, well too subtle. Many women like to flirt and if the guy is shy (like me) it can be very confusing. Men can also be pretty dense too  | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 8:22:59 PM | How would I like a woman to approach me?
With a smile. Saying hello, a quick shake or similar hello. Thats always good. Combined with her already having a drink and not asking me to buy one off the bat. I will buy a drink for you if you run out and are interesting enough for my time.
Would I like a woman to approach me?
Yes. Every 2 hours for the rest of my life.
Subtle Approach technique.
Women have a language meant only for the feminine gender to understand. From looks, movements, breaths, and actual words, sometimes theres more there than we men can even comprehend. So being subtle may not always be a good approach, we men respect intent and conviction. Being to slow to the punch may cause us to either lose interest or get confused by your female super mind numbing powers of destruction.
Just say wassup and show some interest. Dont drop too many hints, but show your intentions instead. And smell good. Naturally. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 8:29:31 PM | I think most men would feel special having a nice woman approach them...its flattering to men as well
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Posted: 10/6/2008 8:35:55 PM | I would wager most men would prefer to be in some kind of interaction with a woman who he finds physically attractive and treats him well and is compatible with him across major values, regardless of who initiates it.
Your question seems to ask about what "most men" would do. When you probably don't want to really date "most men" You probably want to date certain select men you find attractive and desirable. Well other women out there probably want that same guy too. The things you find desirable in him, I'm sure they are probably universally desirable traits that most women want.
I'm sure most men appreciate being pursued by a woman. Just realize you aren't the only one who is going to do it. Being aggressive is better than not being aggressive. But being pretty to the guy is going to mean more than being aggressive.
My view is this - What do you have to lose by trying? Nothing really so I say go for it. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 8:41:31 PM | Im looking for chicks in barnes and noble, they arent generally gold digging call my mom in the middle of the night and complain i didnt buy her shoes whores.
Girls in B&N read. Thats a step up from the bar wench heckling the Nazi drunkards on a tuesday nite in a dive bar. Alcohol turns women into animals too.
I agree with all said in this thread. Right on dudes. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 8:42:32 PM | Try to catch a guy when he's not full of his own ego. Luckily there is a simple test.
If his butt is not wiggling even ever so slightly, you know he is in the proper relaxed state of mind. Be careful, some butts have been known to vibrate from the ferocity of the ego at such speeds that are imperceptible to the naked eye.
Other than that, don't start off with a tired old joke. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 8:48:13 PM | | someone to slowly approach and have a real genuine interest, strike something up. i could feel the enthusiasum from a mile away if i knew it was there. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 8:55:40 PM | Women may not do the approaching but they do give the signs. Most men don't' pick up on it unless it's blatantly obvious :P.
I prefer to be welcomed with open body language and taking it from there. :o.
When a woman approaches me, it's always one that i didn't' find attractive in the first place or never even looked towards and I'm caught off gaurd.
If your gunna approach a guy and he's a stranger, make sure to get a decent signal from him. A guy is interested if you catch him checking you out more than once.. 3 checkouts is a charm. :) If ur unsuccessful he's a loser. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 9:03:08 PM |
How would you like....
a woman to approach you?
As long as she doesn't have a maniacle glaze in her eyes,
and isn't holding a chainsaw or knife...
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Posted: 10/6/2008 9:07:58 PM | Actually OP.What I have found is that men liked to be approached the same as we do. Like people, I am sorry I could cheerfully strangle all the self-help authors out there that has the dating world so bloody confused.
I have found that you can look for the man's body language and his eyes and tell if he is approachable. Ask yourself the next time around "What do you have to loose."
I mean think how you want to be approached and do it that way.
Good luck out there | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 9:17:30 PM | | Is it the younger girls who expect a drink when out??? I don't really go to bars, so I ask. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 9:19:25 PM | no. ive dated up to the late 30's and found that being approached when im suited up is more common and 99% ask for a drink right off the bat. Heres an example.
"Hey cutie, wanna buy me a drink" Younger version
"Hey handsome, wanna buy me a drink" Older version.
It gets old fast. And just because im dressed nice, many women have gotten real pissed at me. Why, because they are retarded. But hey, that jus tmy experience. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 9:28:54 PM | I approach...I don't care...if they say no...they say no...whatever...they're loss...I use those TERRIBLE old pick up lines....I've used the "Are you from Tennessee? Cause I've been lookin around...and you're the only ten-I-see"...I've used the "Are those astronaut pant's you're wearing? because your *** is out of this world!!!" I don't know...life is about having fun too...not just snagging a great guy....try not to lose sight of that... so, I'm kind of out there...I know that is not everybody's style...but at least I know right away if we ever even stand a chance...I've never been snubbed... good luck whatever you do! | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 9:33:59 PM | | I love it when a woman approaches me. It tells me she has confidence and good taste. | |
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Posted: 10/7/2008 4:46:22 AM | Thatguynick, I gotta laugh....what about women in their 40s??? LOL!
That's where I'm at. And if I frequented bars, I would not be hanging around expecting guys to buy me drinks. I'd buy my own....and perhaps even offer the guy a drink if we were deep into conversation. | |
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Posted: 10/7/2008 5:19:51 AM | i think there is nothing nicer than a confidant women !
For me all it would take it a nice smile good eye contact and a hello, but then that jsut dont happen very often ! ;ets be honest when it comes to dating and picking up its a womans world !
sure that a comment on me not women lol | |
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Posted: 10/7/2008 6:51:11 AM | Maybe it is all about choice and in the end I guess that does end up in the woman's lap. Not an easy task, I wish someone could choose for me next time as I am tired of trying.
Thanks everyone! | |
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