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 raja98ji

Joined: 9/27/2004
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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 10/1/2004 1:09:31 PM
There are some skills that you cannot master just because you have been on the dating circuit or have been married. Practical sex education is missing in our society primarily because sex has been criminalized by the Judeo Christian Islamic moral codes of conduct.

What skills do you all think a woman really needs to master. Do you think it is important for a woman to be able to give an excellent hand-job? So good, that a man who has not had a hand-job for a few weeks, asks you for one. Today all i want is a hand-job....can u even imagine how good your hand-job will have to be for that...??
 lrsshadow

Joined: 9/11/2004
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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 10/1/2004 1:33:08 PM
none

passionate compatability is only one part of the whole picture. Passionate love allows a man and a woman to get together long enough to discover a deeper companionate love that can grow into a life long relationship. So it is a matter of compatability more than one facite of a sexual experiance. In my opinion.
 teddah

Joined: 6/7/2004
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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 10/1/2004 1:58:07 PM
i think learn how to give good head....BUT MOST IMPORTANT find out what keeps him satisfied and do it....
 harryarse

Joined: 9/15/2004
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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 10/1/2004 6:18:20 PM
HAND JOB,(WILL THAT EFFECT MY UNEMPLOYMENT CHECKS?)BORING,ASK WHAT THEY LIKE,AND DO IT ,IF THEY DONT GET ALL THIER NEEDS MET,THEY WILL MOVE ON REGUARDLESS OF WHATS GOING ON IN THIER LIFE,SOOOOOOOO,COMMUNATION IS THE KEY,
 yna6

Joined: 5/2/2004
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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 10/1/2004 8:32:36 PM
Jeeze...just get a copy of the Kama Sutra, and try some of the things out.....explore a bit....br open to new things, and you should get along fine!
 raja98ji

Joined: 9/27/2004
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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 10/2/2004 2:41:36 PM
Like some of you are saying finding out what he wants is of course important, and so are good communications skills, but I specifically raised the question about sexual skills. Are you guys saying that a woman who is a sexual novice will do just ok as long as she finds out what he wants and does that to the best of her ability (however poor that might be), or do you want her to have abilities in several sexual techniques, like
1. Giving an excellent hand-job,
2. an excellent blow-job including deep throating,
3. an excellent titty-job,
4. have the ability to milk the last drop of cum with her vaginal muscles when he cums inside her, and also
5. the ability to give a butt-job so good that if you experience it once in your life you can die a happy man.

Those of you who were complaining about a hand-job have obviously never had a hand-job from a professional hand-jobber.
 silken

Joined: 8/19/2004
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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 10/4/2004 1:33:29 PM
No wonder the only people in this thread so far (until now) are men...

Raja, your messages make me feel like you see women as some kind of sexual servants that need to cater to every possible sexual whim the man has. Have you been reading the Kama Sutra too where they talk about beating women about various parts of their bodies until they sound like certain kinds of birds???

silken
 raja98ji

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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 10/4/2004 9:47:34 PM
Silken,

No i'm not reading the Kama Sutra, and I do not think of women as sexual servants, but as the Goddesses incharge of keeping the world going. I am a practicing tantrik, please look up tantra on the search engines.

Thank you for being the first woman in this thread. My next question is going to be to the men, how do you think a woman with such excellence will stay with you unless you can match her skill for skill or surrender to her completely?

What do you think of that?

Raja
 nb_native

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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 10/4/2004 11:20:15 PM
I guess I am NOT trying to be a keeper lol.. I am looking for a keeper lmfao....
 Ticketoride

Joined: 6/3/2004
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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 10/5/2004 12:57:21 AM
Irrelevant, as long as she is not turned off or disinterested in sex.
No pervs either.
 silken

Joined: 8/19/2004
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Posted: 10/5/2004 5:10:21 AM
I already know about tantric sex Raja.

silken
 stuntman98

Joined: 10/1/2004
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 stuntman98

Joined: 10/1/2004
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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 10/5/2004 5:20:19 AM
to become a keeper a women must first know her man, she most know what will get him stiff instantaniously, what will keep him up and running after him drops his load, most men who just have sex for the heck of will go limp after the first one because the women aint keeping him going, don't just lie on your back ready to receive you gotta convience him that you are the queen of Karma Sutra
 nb_native

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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 10/5/2004 10:22:42 AM
LOL... I was just kind of kidding Stunt. I am not looking to be just a keeper of a guy.. I want a man who can be a keeper to me. I am 37 yrs old.. and have gotten to know who I am as a person. This has made me confident in who I am and what I do. When I am with a man, I know what he likes or I get to know what he likes. I expect the same from him. I haven't had many bad experiences sexually, although I have had a few. It isn't really hard to find someone sexually compatible with u, it is hard to find someone who is compatible with u in all the other ways that makes sex even better. Friendship, humour, active outside the bedroom, and all the other things that make 2 people compatible. Does that answer ur question?
 silken

Joined: 8/19/2004
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Posted: 10/5/2004 10:40:34 AM
Well NB I have had a very hard time finding someone sexually compatible...

silken
 stuntman98

Joined: 10/1/2004
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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 10/5/2004 10:49:11 AM
the trick is to not expect greatness works for me sometimes, i get eith a women i expect her to be the worst in bed, just laying there catatonic and she hit the a full speed,......BAM you've got you time worth
 nb_native

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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 10/5/2004 11:07:25 AM
Sorry silken.... that is too bad. Wish u found some better men. I know u seem to be outspoken,from what I have seen of u in other forums. So I am sure u r telling them what u want. I am sure u will find someone worth ur time :)
 silken

Joined: 8/19/2004
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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 10/5/2004 11:46:24 AM
Hey girl, well I just find our sexual natures haven't been very compatible so far and when I meet a man who I think is *very* compatible in that area, he usually is only looking for sex and I don't want that... therein lies the 'rub'... ;)

silken
 live2love2live

Joined: 10/4/2004
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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 10/5/2004 4:24:56 PM
Why not ask what sexual skills does your partner prefer, save on night stands, work from there, men are different some like suck and ***k, some like to watch you masterbate, all depends on the man and the woman, if a part of your body really turns him on work with that, like long blonde hair....use it, long silky legs...ride on, it all depends. Your not a servant and the more you have sex with one person the more you get to know what turns them on.
 nb_native

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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 10/5/2004 4:43:41 PM
True that BillyJo... d*mn straight. As for u silken... I so understand. I have so many good sex partners... but want more then that now also. But... I use to be one of those men... where all I wanted was sex from them lol. I was in a 15 yr relationship.. from 17 to 32. No other sex but him... so I had to experiment... now that I have,.... I want the compatible guy. It is so so hard to find. Come on men... work with us. U won't ever regret it lol...
 raja98ji

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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 10/11/2004 10:23:43 PM
So how many of you women know how to give an excellent hand-job??? Anyone? What is your technique? Could you please go into it in detail?

Raja
 silken

Joined: 8/19/2004
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 hdayejr

Joined: 9/17/2004
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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 10/13/2004 5:07:28 AM
If she knows the BJ and how to ****, then she isn't going anywhere!
 tiffi78

Joined: 4/23/2005
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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men?
Posted: 7/26/2005 9:45:36 PM
? so i'm bored and digging up old threads.....
 dreamswords

Joined: 6/24/2005
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