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 venom5150

Joined: 6/27/2007
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Alright, so check this breakup story.
Posted: 10/22/2008 6:57:03 PM
Just to give you a bit of background info, I've been with this girl for close to 3 yrs, (didn't make it) with a little 4 month time apart from each other due to some mental issues on her part. I loved the girl to death but that's not the point.

First in March, she calls me at work saying she wanted to break up. Its a shocker, as I didn't see it coming, and what she had in store was even worse. I then get to work a few weeks later, to see a few cop cars at my work, telling me never to talk to her again....screw that. In any event, we got back together in August and it's been great.

Fast forward to last week, at the car dealer getting my car worked on, and I get a call from her. Not only was it to break up permanently, but I could hear two guys in the background that she was having a threesome with!!! How's that for a breakup. Cheat and then while in the act, break up with your boyfriend.

Not that I am looking for pity or anything, but I want your opinions about this...Have any of you had this happen?


-Viper Venom
 ikat

Joined: 10/8/2008
Msg: 2
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Posted: 10/22/2008 6:59:06 PM
Err you got back with her even after she called the cops on you? Seriously, did you expect her to act like a nice, normal person?

Lay with dogs, wake up with fleas!
 pro-filer

Joined: 5/9/2008
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Posted: 10/22/2008 7:01:58 PM
Maybe I'm too sane to actually have a relationship.
Alright, so check this breakup story.
Posted: 10/22/2008 7:08:47 PM

Well, I guess that makes two of us.
 justbeeinme45

Joined: 6/8/2008
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Posted: 10/22/2008 7:09:05 PM
Sounds like you got lucky, You should be happy she is out of your life. good luck.
 venom5150

Joined: 6/27/2007
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Posted: 10/22/2008 7:09:26 PM
I wasn't sure what to expect...I thought things would turn out alright.
 Enchanted107

Joined: 12/10/2007
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Posted: 10/22/2008 7:18:54 PM
No, this has never happened to me. I have never given anyone a second chance, most esp if there was ever a mental issue. Maybe that is the reason this drama is alien to me.

What was the reason why she called the cops on you? Were you stalking her after the break up? And to call you when she was doing the deed, nevermind to actually break up with you, belongs in the looney bin. Actually, the whole episode is stranger than even soap opera.

You said she has mental issues? Well, that explains many of the weird things...
Move on! She is not worth your time.
 venom5150

Joined: 6/27/2007
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Posted: 10/22/2008 7:22:13 PM
I have moved on. I am happier now, just a little on the lonely side at times. Regardless, no BS is good.
 sally bentley

Joined: 7/9/2008
Msg: 9
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Posted: 10/22/2008 7:25:39 PM
A lot of wierd things have happened during break-ups but yes, this definitely is
wierd. I hope you are not reconsidering this relationship for the future. That is
the feeling I am getting.
 venom5150

Joined: 6/27/2007
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Posted: 10/22/2008 7:27:55 PM
She's a writeoff. No way in HELL I would ever get back with her, let alone talk to her or be anywhere near her. She used the "Let's be friends" line as well as the croc of shyt "Please, you're hurting me, I still want to be friends" lyric. Screw that...Not to be**** but I can get better.
 ladylookingagain

Joined: 8/16/2008
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Posted: 10/22/2008 7:36:29 PM
Yikes, can you say drama queen???? This girl is nuts. My ex-husband is dating someone like this and they have broken up I believe 3 times now? I lost count. He hasn't learned his lesson like you venom, I guess she's got something special he never saw before. Whatever. If you want that drama filled life then your now ex-g/f is the right one. I say count your blessings you are free from this craziness.
 meeshcake

Joined: 9/26/2007
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Posted: 10/22/2008 7:42:36 PM
Dude Seriously..... That is some major drama.

You hung in there longer than most would have. Taek a deep breath and be glad she is OUT.
 HypnoPunk

Joined: 8/13/2008
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Posted: 10/22/2008 7:43:31 PM
you lost me at cops.
 venom5150

Joined: 6/27/2007
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Posted: 10/22/2008 7:54:02 PM
Sorry about that, took the Viper out for a quick spin. Weather in this area is getting bad very fast so the car will be parked for the winter. I gotta get my last drives in! In any event, general consensus is that:

1. I stayed with her WAAAAY too long
2. She is nuts.
3. I partly am nuts as a result of point #1.
 sally bentley

Joined: 7/9/2008
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Posted: 10/22/2008 7:55:38 PM
Good, because she obviously loves chaos. You are better off alone.
 siouxzy

Joined: 12/27/2006
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Posted: 10/22/2008 8:10:55 PM
I am right with you bro.....no BS, no drama, no more lies and cheating. I do get lonely sometimes but the alternative is the PITS!!! Good luck and keep movin on with your life.....
 celebrtlife

Joined: 8/23/2008
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Posted: 10/22/2008 8:25:44 PM
Hopefully you have learned something good from all of this. Take notes and post them in all the obvious places so you don't make this mistake again.
 CaptainDad

Joined: 7/25/2008
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Posted: 10/22/2008 8:26:28 PM
you win!

Never gotten a break-up call while she was screwing someone else.. walked in on it once, but never gotten a call.

Please tell me she isn't moving to the Keys!
 OneMoreTimeWithFeeling

Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 19
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Posted: 10/22/2008 8:27:34 PM
You chose her. That is all.
 Larissan04

Joined: 4/28/2004
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Posted: 10/22/2008 8:55:21 PM
all i can say is C R A Z Y.

why do guys date crazy chics? she must have been really pretty so it was something you were willing to over look.

all i can say is... pretty wears off eventually and then all you are left with is the crazy...

find a sane woman who isn't a nut case sexual compulsive moron with no common sense... find someone who is at least capable of considering the feelings of others... i mean, this woman is such a narcissist that she couldn't care less that she called you while she was doing something like this... it was all about her... what SHE wants... and when SHE wants it... she has no self control... and merely acts on her passsions with out regard to anyone who might stand in the way of a moment of sensation...

so yeah... find a sane girl.. one who is kind... and considerate... oh yeah, and a good job with an education is probably a good idea too...

lar
 IluvChris

Joined: 5/12/2008
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Posted: 10/22/2008 9:04:43 PM
OUCH she went out with a BANG.....
 venom5150

Joined: 6/27/2007
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Posted: 10/22/2008 9:08:04 PM
Funny you say that, as (once again not to be full of myself) I don't go for looks...The fact that she weighs dare I say it, MORE THAN 175lbs sort of eclipses the pretty looks area. Her personality at first was absolutely more than stunning. She was smart, educated, no hint of insanity. Therefore, I have no clue what the hell happened, but I don't know.

-VV
 mtnbiker0755

Joined: 2/20/2007
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Posted: 10/22/2008 9:45:21 PM
What is her contact info? She sounds like a great candidate... for the mental hospital!
 daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 10/22/2008 9:53:28 PM
Nope, it's never happened to me nor have I ever done anything like that. I don't think I know anyone who has either. She does sound like someone with issues, I'd say she needs professional help more than to be a joke here.
 Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006
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Posted: 10/24/2008 8:38:16 AM
Umm...When you said "mental issues" within the first paragraph...I kinda figured the relationship was headed for "Terminal City" and fast!

Wow...Sounds like some of the psychos I had preferences for in my younger days!
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