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 Author Thread: Erotica or Porn?
 NiceGuyGoodKisser

Joined: 6/1/2004
Msg: 1
Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 6/3/2004 11:12:38 PM
I would like to know who here prefers porn to erotic literature. I am an English teacher, and I am immersed in books and writing, and I love erotica. Being able to imagine every image, every scent, every touch is far more arousing to me than either watching porn movies or seeing pictures or whatever. I write some erotica now and then, and it is a HUGE turn-on for me to get it all out on paper: eloquent, explicit, and descriptive. What are YOUR thoughts on the issue?

Incidentally, here is where I have posted my latest writings: www.geocities.com/denverguy111.
 dudewmycar

Joined: 2/26/2004
Msg: 2
Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 6/3/2004 11:41:54 PM
I love Porn. I got some Mag under my bed lol
 lost in illinois

Joined: 3/29/2004
Msg: 3
Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 6/4/2004 3:13:38 PM
Reading a sexy story now and then is let's say uplifting. lol
 alura2

Joined: 3/18/2004
Msg: 4
Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 6/4/2004 3:22:39 PM
hmm iwent into a sex shop.. i was considering bying soem nice sexy things...

i used to watch porn movies.....it got things steamy with my ex and i... but most are sooo cheessy that we just laughed..
 TARVEL

Joined: 2/25/2004
Msg: 5
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Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 6/4/2004 9:23:34 PM
awwwwwwwwwwwwww thats no fair, they're both so great!!!!

i do love porn, however it really doesn't have the same effect on me as erotic literature does...

if i had to choose, i'd go with the literature.
 NiceGuyGoodKisser

Joined: 6/1/2004
Msg: 6
Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 6/4/2004 9:39:33 PM
That's a good choice. *winks*
 rjn40

Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 7
Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 6/5/2004 12:26:32 AM
Erotica is #1... Porn is something you watch on a video, erotica is something you do with someone and it can be alot more fun than watching TV......
 MISSIE1819

Joined: 12/18/2003
Msg: 8
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Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 6/5/2004 2:25:36 AM
I WOULD HAVE TO SAY EROTICA LITERATURE. HANDS DOWN. THERE IS NOTHIN LIKE READIN IT AND USIN YOUR IMGINATION. YOU CAN PUT YOURSELF IN THE PLACE AND TIME, AND IT IS SUCH A TURN ON. THAT IS ONE OF MY FAV THINGS. NOT TO SAY THAT I DONT LIKE A PORN EVERY NOW AND THEN TOO THOUGH.
 Cartman4sp

Joined: 8/23/2003
Msg: 9
Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 6/10/2004 1:59:25 AM
I can see how erotica is more indepth cause nothing can compair with your imagination but if your just trying to shot the old gun off its just easier to pop in a tape then try to read something while you trying to do something else.
 Astrid224

Joined: 5/3/2004
Msg: 10
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Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 6/10/2004 3:02:23 AM
I'd have to say that I would chose erotic literture. You can put self in the story and let you imagination carry you away...sometimes the acting is so bad in the porn that I just can't watch it....I mean I bet a lot of the women on this site could fake an orgasm better than they do.



 montanaman

Joined: 5/21/2004
Msg: 11
Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 6/10/2004 6:47:21 AM
Porn is for people who have no imaginations. Erotic literture gives your mind, which should be your most important sexual organ, a chance to explore, improvise and imagine. But, porn does have value.
 Excalibur

Joined: 3/24/2004
Msg: 12
Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 6/10/2004 1:53:43 PM
Erotic Literature for me here as well..... I love to be really descriptive when I talk like that..right down to minute details...it pleases me to know that I can turn a woman on just by words, it gives them a lot to look forward to when we actually meet. Some of the ladies in the chat know what I'm talking about...remember the foreplay comversation about a week or so ago??? hehehe I love it
 Zee

Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 13
Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 7/24/2004 2:33:13 PM
Porn is something you watch, but much more you can get out of it if you explore your own thoughts. I love writing erotica. It gives way to many things, it opens the mind of those who are inhibited and it challenges those who are daring. One of the most enjoyable things about writing is having someone tell me that it put them right in the story.

Porn cant do that for me, it can be redundent and phoney and you can always expect the same things.

Erotic talk is open, you never know where it will go, the idea of hearing someone whisper in your ear what they want to do to you, and you are at a meeting where you can barely crack a smile because people think you arent being serious.

Thats so cool.
 Ticketoride

Joined: 6/3/2004
Msg: 14
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Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 7/24/2004 7:14:32 PM
Imagination is still second rate to make it happen in real life.
 Zee

Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 15
Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 7/24/2004 7:19:15 PM
This is true, but it spices things up - even in real life.
 Ticketoride

Joined: 6/3/2004
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Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 7/24/2004 7:39:50 PM
Up to a point.
Done too long, to the exclusitivity of Real Life, you can sink too far into your head. When you walk out that front door and no longer see the trees in front of you, its time for the real thing.
 Zee

Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 17
Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 7/24/2004 7:48:52 PM
If its done too long then there is no point to it, I mean why talk when you can do - its not suppose to be done too long, its just to spice things up, its almost like those who like their toys, I prefer word of mouth, I prefer the idea behind the imagination, and then with the right person, I prefer to act upon it, slow, and depending on what, I enjoy all the things that come with an imagination, I like to try new things, and explore those things that are whispered in the night.
 Ticketoride

Joined: 6/3/2004
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Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 7/24/2004 7:50:05 PM
Cool-omundo.
 Zee

Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 19
Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 7/24/2004 7:57:58 PM
Cool-omundo ? lol ok
 Madelaina

Joined: 5/23/2004
Msg: 20
Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 7/24/2004 8:00:04 PM
I do not like porn....I don't need or want it
 Ticketoride

Joined: 6/3/2004
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Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 7/24/2004 8:02:24 PM
Same here.
 Madelaina

Joined: 5/23/2004
Msg: 22
Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 7/24/2004 8:03:16 PM
now that's a first
 Ticketoride

Joined: 6/3/2004
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Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 7/24/2004 8:04:09 PM
Why?
 Zee

Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 24
Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 7/24/2004 8:04:44 PM
what a guy not liking porn i know lots of guys who dont like

 Ticketoride

Joined: 6/3/2004
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Re: Erotica or Porn?
Posted: 7/24/2004 8:08:30 PM
Porn = Boring
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