| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 10:45:48 AM | | Can you believe this? After making love for the first time with a new partner I was told I was dumped as I didnt cum!!! I dont come very often but surely that's not a reason to be dumped? The first time with a new partner is never the best and as you get to know each other you know what works for each other and it gets better and better. He made me feel humiliated and like it was my fault. Have any other women come across this? If so have we all been out with the same guy? lol | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 10:49:42 AM | Omg.... what an idiot he was! Probably has only been with women who fake orgasms and 1) didn't know how to react when a woman was honest about it and 2) probably felt like he's the king when it comes to being a lover and didn't like his ego slighted!
Sucks to be him, eh? Some people just don't realize that it's more about the journey than it is the destination. Be glad you're rid of such a close minded person.
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 10:50:00 AM | | Oh be glad to be rid of him. I would flipped the script on his ass so fast, he wouldn't of known what hit him. You should of told him the reason you didn't cum was because he wasn't man enough to take you there. | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 10:59:32 AM | | You have nothing to be humiliated about. Perhaps it's best to look at this as a gift. | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 11:04:40 AM | The man's an idiot.
If anything it reflects badly on his own sexual performance.
Be pleased you'll have to spend no more time with him,
And you'll enjoy someone less of a twat and less arrogant and less sexually unreasonable. | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 11:09:46 AM | | you should have said gee i never had that happen with anybody else ...but you are small ...guess i just need a man to get me there | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 11:19:14 AM | | Seriously???? I rarely orgasm with a new partner the first time. That man was a fool.. | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 11:30:48 AM | | He found the situation to be a refelction of his own inablities - so he blames you! Sad little man ain't he!?! You are best to have him out of your life - don't give him a second thought!! | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 11:32:32 AM | i wouldnt let it bother you, he was probibly comparing you to a previous lover...
-to put two strangers together for the first time and expect them to write a symphony.  | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 11:57:25 AM | The man just didn't see the challenge!
I would have had to breakout with the crazy tongue and fingers. (oh no, not the crazy tongue and fingers)
Started back at square one and tried again and again and again until the earth moved for ya! | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 12:00:02 PM | I'm not surprised a guy would do this.....
This whole pressure to come thing....I'm freaking sick of it. Sick of the big deal guys make of it, sick of the bragging they do about their exes who could come if they just looked at them (yah right), sick of the bragging some guys do on these forums about what experts they are (making us sound like machines with dials and buttons instead of feeling, real human beings), and then how some women on these forums will chime in bragging how easily THEY come every single time (yah right).......ARGH SICK of it.
I'm sorry this happened to you OP!
OH forgot to answer your question OP: Yes I have come across this. A few months ago I dated someone who actually would get angry at me for having some difficulty arriving with him; he'd actually get mad and stomp off, leaving me laying there feeling like a piece of tossed garbage, crying.....needless to say, the experiences with him have messed with my head pretty badly. | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 12:04:12 PM | | wow ,, never heard of that excuse used ..... hard to believe thats the only reason ..... but o well , be happy , sounds like you got away from a real loser ! | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 12:06:32 PM | This whole pressure to come thing....I'm freaking sick of it. Sick of the big deal guys make of it, sick of the bragging they do about their exes who could come if they just looked at them (yah right), sick of the bragging some guys do on these forums about what experts they are (making us sound like machines with dials and buttons instead of feeling, real human beings), and then how some women on these forums will chime in bragging how easily THEY come every single time (yah right).......ARGH SICK of it.
Someone needs to cum... Relieve all that hate and anger... 
Maybe you should learn to make better choices! Rather then hating everyone else for what one person did! | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 12:12:17 PM | The dude got what he wanted. He got his jollies and that is all he was worried about no doubt. It sounds like he dad decided to make a one night stand out of it before he ever got the chance to rock the buggy with you. He hung around long enough to get that wanted piece of ass from you and hit the high road. You not cumming was just the excuse he gave you.
On the other hand how do you women feel about a man that has problems popping off? I have had that problem but in a few weeks it came back around and the popping off started again. I even went to the Dr. about it. He laughed and told me not to worry that it was a normal process and would come back around. He was right and it did. How do you all feel about that problem with a man. | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 12:26:15 PM | Rock man, glad you find my experience funny, and are having so much fun making fun of it and me.
It was an extremely painful thing I went thru...I'm still dealing with it.
I don't understand people like you who find pleasure in other people's pain. | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 12:40:06 PM |
Rock man, glad you find my experience funny, and are having so much fun making fun of it and me.
It was an extremely painful thing I went thru...I'm still dealing with it.
I don't understand people like you who find pleasure in other people's pain.
I know you made that clear in those nasty childish e-mails you sent then blocked me!
Try this: Why would you stay with someone that treated you in such a way? The first time you are a victim. After that you are a willing participant!
At least the op is mature enough not to group all men in with the ONE that treated her poorly! I bet she learned her lesson the first time too! | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 12:48:36 PM | | It just amazes me how guys can give guys a bad name! That is one lame excuse! You definitely have nothing to be ashamed of nor feel inadequate. Sounds to me it would have been a challenge and I would have been tapping on you...I mean your door the next day! | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 12:52:09 PM | I'd ignore Rock man if I were you.
It is terrible what that man did that to you.
Good riddance to him.
Please tell me he's not in Canada.
Maybe you secretly want to tell us ladies who he is so we don't go out with him.
I've never come across that before but it doesn't surprise me.
Be well rid of him, feel good about yourself.
He's an a hole who doesn't deserve your brain time.
Good luck to you. | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 12:55:37 PM | | Lol that is funny! If u didn't cum it is not your fault it would be his fault or his lack of skills! I can get off with my clothes totally on just by touch alone. So I find it funny since u didn't cum he blames u. Maybe he just wasn't doin it for u. He could of took a little more time to accomplish this and been proud and felt good about himself. | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 12:58:22 PM | Whoa! You deflated that ego of his, as he felt he did not "satisfy" you. Little does he know about intimacy......................
Good riddance! | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 1:00:43 PM | I going to make a joke about it but I've reconsidered but I wonder why you're hung up about it. Obviously he wasn't great in bed or you'd have had the big O. You didn't and are better off without the drama of the egotistical, bad in bed, spoiled brat.
I've never heard of a bigger Red Flag in my life. Run forrest run. | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 1:14:15 PM |
Obviously he wasn't great in bed or you'd have had the big O.
Actually, that is not necessarily true. Not all women orgasm every single time... especially if they are with a new partner.
I still agree that he was a doofus for dumping her because of it. In the words of Bugs Bunny, "What a maroon!"
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 1:20:00 PM | | Thanks everyone - I feel much better now. One of you asked what if it was the guy. It has happened to me actually - the first with a new guy and he couldnt get hard. Didnt matter - we had fun anyway doing other things and he was fine the next time. Also had a guy that hardly ever came due to some medical problem but he didnt bother about it and it was great for me as he was able to go on for longer. :-) | |
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| Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/3/2008 1:59:02 PM | Cherry Coke, I'm gonna!
hahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Bleerrghghhhh the usual frowsy homely pathetic losers forum regulars have all added their $.02 to this.....
God bless 'em....what would they do all day otherwise?
I wish they'd just all go find something to "do", such as each other perhaps.
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