| What to do when a woman says she needs space and time
Posted: 11/6/2008 11:31:11 AM | I met a Woman on here that I really like. after 4 weeks together of having fun we had a disagreement on a topic. I feared that an arguement was about to happen so I left without saying anything to her. She told me that I was immature. And said she needs time and space to figure out if she wants to be with me cause I made a bad judgement call. What do I do...I miss being with her alot..
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| What to do when a woman says she needs space and time
Posted: 11/6/2008 11:38:23 AM | Just walk away...
If she's willing to let it go,she'll let you know.
I just wouldn't sit around waiting for very long though.
You might want to consider giving a disclaimer prior to just leaving without saying anything. Agreeing to disagree is always a goal to strive for,but if the issue at hand is so important that you can't let it go,well,that's not a very solid base to start a relationship from.
Had it been me,you'd never hear from me again.
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| What to do when a woman says she needs space and time
Posted: 11/6/2008 11:45:41 AM |
I feared that an arguement was about to happen so I left without saying anything to her. She told me that I was immature. And said she needs time and space to figure out if she wants to be with me cause I made a bad judgement call. What do I do...I miss being with her alot..
So, instead of discussing the issue with her (doesn't have to be an argument) you left w/o a word? Yes, that is childish. Telling her that you were upset and needed to leave to cool off, but would be back later to discuss the issue, would have been a much better way to handle it.
So is this the reason she doesn't want to be with you or the original issue that brought this about?
What do you do? You talk to her and discuss it with her and you find other ways to deal with difficult issues besides avoidance and the silent treatment.
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| What to do when a woman says she needs space and time
Posted: 11/6/2008 12:52:19 PM | | If you really want to work thru this then I would let her know I am ready to discuss it when she is ready. Apoligize for walking away without a word but explain why you did. Give her the space and time she requested and if she is truly interested in you then you will hear from her. However I wouldn't wait around too long because usually space and time means they are moving on. | |
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| What to do when a woman says she needs space and time
Posted: 11/6/2008 2:00:57 PM |
She told me that I was immature. And said she needs time and space to figure out if she wants to be with me cause I made a bad judgement call.
She doesn't sound too mature either.
You shouldn't back down from disagreements/arguments. It will just make you seem either passive or dismissive, neither of which is good. Disagreements/ arguments can be bond forming as well .... come on, after four weeks, you're gonna piss each other of a little bit at least.
Let the fur fly.
All she was doing was venting. And you ended the vent "prematurely", leaving her unsatisfied. So now, she is going to "make you pay", somehow, satisfaction shall be hers.
Call her up or meet or whatever, re-engage the disagreement/argument, or argue about something at least. Push her a little, let her get it out of her system.
Start your conversation of with "Now look Woman!". That should get the ball rolling, quite nicely.
It's not that hard. Say something, then stop listening and go to your happy place. After a while, there will be a sudden silence, when she takes a break to replenish her oxygen stores, to avoid passing out. At that point, say something else, like "the space you need might be between your ears", then quickly return to your happy place. But I always recommend you keep at least one eye on her right hand, never have the sun in your eyes and stay downwind.
Yeah, anyway, I seen that on some documentary one time. It wasn't about human females, but rather moose in mating season. Seemed close enough.
Hey, it's not so bad. The show then followed up with a spider that consumes the male after mating. So ... it could be worse ... could be worse. | |
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| What to do when a woman says she needs space and time
Posted: 2/17/2009 5:43:36 PM | | If you reallylike this woman, swallow your pride and grab some roses and go get her!!! I wish you all the luck in the world, because a good connection between 2 people don`t come along everyday! I know, I have been alone for 5 long and miserable years.. It`s lonley and no fun at all.. | |
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| What to do when a woman says she needs space and time
Posted: 9/8/2009 2:53:00 AM | Focus on something else in your life. Tell her you'll call her in a few weeks. Than, you can do just that.
Or better yet, here's the MAN'S MAN of all decisions on what to do.
Tell her you respect her need for space. And hopefully that's true.
Then remind her that she's got your number, and if she wants to do something sometime, to call you.
THen let that be that.
Getting hung up over anyone, is sad. Kinda shows an uneven balance in one's life, to seek after someone too much.
No offense, bro. Just saying what's on my mind. | |
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if she really liked you, wow, she gave up very easily. maybe she was waiting for something like this to happen to have an excuse to not see you? let us know!!!
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