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 Eye Of The Tigger
Joined: 9/23/2008
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I can't remember ever seeing this question....

Has anyone been able to, or heard of anyone being able to, give themselves an orgasm from stimulating their own G-spot?

I've heard plenty of discussions here about guys helping us out with that, but does anyone do it to themselves, manually or with one of those special vibrators?
 ForumFilly
Joined: 5/14/2008
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Posted: 11/7/2008 2:01:59 PM
It's very easy for me to achieve orgasm by manually stimulating my G-spot. G-spot orgasms, for me, also cause female ejaculation. Since I am currently not in a relationship, I find self-pleasuring very satisfying and helpful in maintaining mood stability and calmness.
 namrael
Joined: 8/10/2008
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Posted: 11/7/2008 2:13:39 PM
I can never get the right angle on my own, even with toys.
 Eye Of The Tigger
Joined: 9/23/2008
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Posted: 11/7/2008 2:15:54 PM
I gotta give props to that Dave guy who's always helping us with info on the G-spot...I never knew that whole world was there until reading his posts!!

So NOW I'm wondering, along with the original question, is which one would most of you out there choose if you could - regular clitoral one, or G-spot one?

I'm likin' this smorgasbord, personally.
 OneMoreTimeWithFeeling
Joined: 9/8/2008
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Posted: 11/7/2008 2:22:57 PM
There are toys specifically curved so you can reach your g-spot. I'm sure if you search any site like adamandevedotcom or babeland you can find several.

I could never do it myself without a toy, maybe my fingers aren't long enough?
 ~JustSimplyMe~
Joined: 8/18/2006
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Posted: 11/7/2008 3:09:50 PM
I've only ever been able to give myself one. Never had a partner induce one...I find it's all about what position you are in....
 DAVE632
Joined: 6/17/2006
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Posted: 11/7/2008 4:18:05 PM
Hey, Spidey. Thanks. I hope some of my ramblings have helped a few discover this.

Somebody up there mentioned smorgasbord. THAT is EXACTLY what this is. Love/sex is just that. Many have their favorites and stick to that when they go to the buffet tables. Some try new things and like them. Some try new things and use the wrong sauce and DON'T like them and never try them again. My SUGGESTIONS as far as techniques and ideas go is just a recommendation on what can, for some, be a REALLY REALLY tasty dish. From feedback I know MOST women love it and when men discover what they can do FOR their lover it makes us feel 12 feet tall too.

Many women report that they have no problems giving themselves G-Gasms. What they can NOT do is continue very long. They are massive and extremely exhausting. A partner can slap a rocket belt on and drive you to NIRVANA. By yourself the G-gasms are massive and a bit of an epiphany if you do discover them for the first time yourself but I challenge ANY woman to give herself 30 or 40 or 100 of those by herself. Machines like the PANABRATOR with the G attachment does NOT count. You could DIE and that puppy would keep giving you G-Gasms.

My thread on Lit specifically focuses on DIGITAL stimulation. Intercourse is, of course, wonderful but to properly explore and stimulate the G and A SPOT areas fingers / thumbs and toys are best. There are some positions, if you know the feel of GSpot stimulation that will trigger G-Gasms during regular intercourse but generally most erections slide right on past the GSpot and certainly do NOT bump into it with the required force to trigger it properly. Special positions are needed. Pushing the heel of your hand into your lovers lower belly can push the GSPOT area into the line of fire so to speak of his erection so if he insists on trying to do this with his di¬Ęk alone make sure the area right above your pubic bone is pushed in far enough that you can feel his erection. That way the GSPOT is caught between the two. It still may not work all that well but it might.

SMORGASBORD. You're ALL different. Try this dish. You may already know it. If you don't it's worth a nibble or three. If it works for you and your partner (or just you) then spread the word.



http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892

Dave
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 11/7/2008 4:21:08 PM
Rant one day about people being way too focused on women's orgasms....
questioning how to have achieve one the next day....

Try a Gspot vibrator......and see for yourself how many you are able to achieve.
 d.i.m.e.26
Joined: 7/30/2007
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Posted: 11/7/2008 5:19:44 PM
sooo true man i could tell u a story but its all about position!!
 tiffanympm
Joined: 9/5/2008
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Posted: 11/7/2008 7:31:18 PM
I have.... I was really young too.

It took about 20 minutes. Trial and error.

And yes... toys help.
 canuck-in-oregon
Joined: 11/6/2007
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Posted: 11/7/2008 8:16:06 PM
Try a toothbrush, one with the rubber inset bristles and an angled handle. Easy to maneuver to just the right spot. Just don't tell your dentist. ;-)
 JulietJuliet
Joined: 6/7/2007
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Posted: 11/8/2008 3:02:40 AM
Sure have......and I thought this was my little secret. No man and no vibrator, and no hands necessary. Ok So it only lasts a second, but it sure feels good! So good that I like to endulge every morning.
 DAVE632
Joined: 6/17/2006
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Posted: 11/8/2008 10:15:41 AM
Trust me. There are 7 and a half BILLION people here. If YOU think you're the only one doing something you musta bin born on a raft and just recently drifted ashore. Welcome home!



I thought this was my little secret. No man and no vibrator, and no hands necessary. Ok So it only lasts a second, but it sure feels good! So good that I like to endulge every morning.


So ... considering this is a forum for SHARING maybe you'd like to do that. If there are, apparently NO MOVING PARTS necessary for your morning sessions, would you like to SHARE with us how you do it??? Gspots normally take a LOT of stimulation to trigger and the resulting orgasm(s) usually last MUCH longer than clitoral orgasms and can peak almost indefinitely. If you've discovered some "secret" way to make it go BANG with none of the otherwise necessary stimuli WE would LOVE to know HOW.

Also how do you make it last ONLY a second ... in other words do you know WTF you're talking about or more to the point, what WE'RE talking about here?? Are we talking about a WHOLE NEW DISCOVERY here or a post that belongs in another thread?

BTW, Bed posts / chair legs etc etc do NOT count as "no accessories," OK?



*******

The discovery of her GSPOT and the results of PROPER stimulation just MAY have changed her mind about the relative importance some have placed on the almighty orgasm.




Rant one day about people being way too focused on women's orgasms....
questioning how to have achieve one the next day....


Besides, she's FEMALE and ain'tchuguys allowed to change your minds without prior notice or warning? I believe THAT is spelled out in THE RULES.

*******


WOW Toothbrush even


I would suggest LEARNING what it feels like PRIOR to using ANY toys - even a toothbrush. The area is pretty sensitive and requires certain types of stimulation. You do NOT want to be pokin around in there with a machine that could perforate a membrane if you're not careful. Until you know the right feel use fingers or have a partner use a thumb. That way there are TWO sets of nerve endings working for your protection.
 SITH_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
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Posted: 11/8/2008 10:19:05 AM
Just, Wow. Toothbrush even.
 Leeanne
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Posted: 11/8/2008 12:31:38 PM
OP did you suddenly discover orgasms? The other day you were ranting and terribly angry with women who say they can achieve orgasm easily! So don't be a hater if I answer honestly - what my experience is!
I for one have never had a problem having an orgasm in any manner! No matter how I achieve an orgasm I am happy! I have no preference for either! I have discovered my G-spot is quite low - hence making orgasm easy and female ejaculation part of my everyday experience!
 Eye Of The Tigger
Joined: 9/23/2008
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Posted: 11/8/2008 1:35:39 PM
Leeanne...no I didn't just suddenly discover orgasms. I'm 43.

What I was trying to convey in my other posts is that I am sick of BRAGGING and LYING that people do in real life and on the forums, about their sexual prowess. I'm not the only one who has stated such.

Not only does bragging and exaggerating get old (especially when it appears in every post some people post), but it contributes to misunderstanding for men who read it here and who hear it from other women they encounter in the 3D world - it contributes to them having higher expectations from women who can't orgasm as easily and quickly as some women - all who, curiously enough, seem to be on the Plenty of Fish website (as in, I smell BS).

And why bring up my other posts in this thread? Why not just message me?

This thread pertains to my questions about giving oneself a G-spot orgasm.
 Tim61
Joined: 3/2/2007
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Posted: 11/8/2008 2:25:58 PM
Doesn't a G-Spot Orgasm lead to squirting ?

I wish i could bring my girl to orgasm with out her using the vibe, I bought her, even that does not work !!! on rare occasions

Tim
 Leeanne
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Posted: 11/8/2008 3:27:27 PM
OP how in the world would you ever know what other people experience?!?

If someone says they have experienced something you have not - what gives you the right to say that is not truly part of what they live everyday! There are plenty of women who are healthy and very in touch with their bodies - with no hang ups and no barriers to having a very sexual - very orgasmic relationship with their partners.
What proof do you have that these people are bragging - lying or exaggerating?!?!

We are very lucky to live in an age where forums exist for people to speak freely of their expriences. With hopes of educating and allowing others to see what can and does exist!! When a question is asked - people answer! If you do not like the answers it is not for you to call them liars - braggers or someone that exaggerates!!

Give men credit!! Not all of them expect each woman to be the same - not all men are stupid enough to think thier women will react like a porn star!! Most men are kind and loving partners - willing to help you find your sexual niche!

Biggest lesson you can learn is to chillout and learn to take what others say and perhaps learn - instead of getting angry that there are others lucky enough to be totally and ultimately sexually fulfilled!

The G-sopt orgasm may be illusive to some - simply by virtue of how they view their own sexuality!
 Eye Of The Tigger
Joined: 9/23/2008
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Posted: 11/8/2008 3:54:13 PM
If you all are so happy with yourselves and your lives.....

WHY the need to follow me around and continue trying to get me to qualify my statements and opinions? That in itself is suspicious.

If things are so great for all of you....go enjoy it and leave me alone!

As I said, I created this thread to ask people if they are able to give themselves G-spot orgasms.

If you want to discuss something else with me, MESSAGE me.

In my opinion, those who feel the need to continually defend themselves, and/or pursue people to try to convince them how happy they are about whatever statements I've personally questioned, may perhaps be in doubt themselves.
 64 Classic
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Posted: 11/8/2008 3:54:20 PM
I've never been lucky enough to experience one of these either with or without a partner. However, after reading many of Dave's posts I'm not giving up hope that when I find my special someone I may finally get it figured out.
Due to problems with my hands and arms I don't have the strength to find it on my own and as I have no clue where mine is located or if it even exists I've never had luck locating it with toys either. Ahhhhhhhh, but it gives me something to dream about.

 faith,hope,love
Joined: 9/26/2008
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Posted: 11/8/2008 4:13:09 PM

My thread on Lit

Yay, Lit!

I'd recommend a Rabbit vibrator. Stimulates both spots at once. However, you might not ever leave the house again...
 MsMicki
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Posted: 11/8/2008 4:43:44 PM
Great Post Leeanne

Spidersrule...
We aren't following anyone around......we are posting in an open forum.....just like everyone else.
You went and had yourself quite the explosive tangent....accusing alot of us of being liars and braggarts....and you honestly don't expect us to point out the complete hypocrisy of this thread compared to your rant?

as Leeanne stated.....maybe if you'd chill out and realize we aren't bragging....we are being factful.....with the intent of teaching others that our bodies are capable of more pleasure than some are recieving. And quite possibly, learning something ourselves.

If you don't want backlash from your statements.....kindly refrain from telling us what our bodies are capable of and leave the accusations in the back of your mind where they belong.

The reason we are capable of multiple and highly intense orgasms....is we know our bodies...(and so do our men)....and G Spot stimulation is one of the easiest ways to achieve multiples and what seems like everlasting orgasms. Yes, I can reach mine...thankfully it isn't as deep as some women's.....it is a trial and error activity....but once you find it......you'll get to brag too!
 DAVE632
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Posted: 11/8/2008 6:38:11 PM
Exactly ...



we are being factual .....with the intent of teaching others that their bodies are capable of more pleasure than some are receiving.


(pardon the editing)

A few idiots think my HOW TO thread is all about bragging. ITZNOT. It's all about sharing and each and every one of the nice testimonials gives the whole concept more credibility. None of them are bragging and I don't believe for a second that women who claim to be able to have 100 or more orgasms in a G session are lying or even bragging. If anything they are giving many other women and couples the inspiration they need and the information required to allow them to join the fun.

The thread started off on a GSpot masturbation theme but has built into a general GSpot discussion. It is advisable for women to discover this for themselves so they can TEACH their partners how to do this (and
with the Technique, how to do it for a long time) every time they make love. It is also an absolute BLAST to introduce this to a woman who has never experienced it before and never knew she was even capable of orgasming over and over and over again.

OK ... that said ... can ... we .... all .... just ... get along.

GSPOT discussions are TOO DAMN IMPORTANT to get hijacked and have others lose interest because the naysayers are sniping and the experienced posters withdraw in anger and frustration.


OH .. and BATTY, never give up hope and exploring. My collection of emails and IMs are FULL of couples who tried the Technique or a variation and it didn't work for them. They were sad, disappointed and frustrated and I told them to keep trying. MONTHS later (typically) I get what I call a EUREEKA note from them saying they kept trying and ** EUREEEKA** it finally WORKED And damned if it wasn't worth every second of trying too.

Good luck.
 Wilf Huckitt
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Posted: 11/8/2008 6:59:49 PM
"""From feedback I know MOST women love it and when men discover what they can do FOR their lover it makes us feel 12 feet tall too. """

Yup Dave nuthin like the feeling you get when watching a l'ill darlin when her cumer gets stuck!!

HERE HERE DAVE!!!!!!!

Yesm Spidey I've heard of this from a charming young friend awhile back! And it was done digitaly, though I'm not sure if she can go several times, she can easily achive a Gspot orgasm on her own.
 64 Classic
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Posted: 11/8/2008 7:01:36 PM

OH .. and BATTY, never give up hope and exploring.


Oh, I'm not giving up hope, believe me. I'm just cursing the fact that I found this info when I'm without a partner. Ahhh, but when I finally do have a partner I feel sorry for him cuz there's gonna be a whole lot of exploring to be done.
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