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Posted: 11/12/2008 8:57:19 PM | I just had my heart broken..he was threatened by my friendship with an ex but masked it by saying that he felt we were falling into the same rut as his previous relationships & he wanted to stop it before we fell into the same trap & got more hurt than we'd be right now....I've done the crying thing & am slowly moving into the wanting revenge.
So....what's the best way to get it?? | |
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Posted: 11/12/2008 9:18:44 PM | Here are some revenge quotes , Pick one that you like ....
Revenge is always the weak pleasure of a little and narrow mind.
No one rejoices more in revenge than woman.
That old law about "an eye for an eye" leaves everybody blind. The time is always right to do the right thing.
Live well. It is the greatest revenge.
A man (woman) that studieth revenge keeps his (her) own wounds green, which otherwise would heal and do well. | |
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Posted: 11/12/2008 9:20:46 PM | To accept your role in it....to stop projecting the blame and failure completely on him and understand you were 50% of the relationship. By becoming whole again, forgiving him and yourself, and moving on in your life and living it as happily and worthwhile as you can.
*Edit to add....oh my OP....just read your post history....it appears you have a knack for picking jerks and then blaming them for being jerks. Hope you figure it out for your own sake and happiness, though.
~ds | |
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Posted: 11/12/2008 9:47:52 PM | | Revenge is a dish best served cold............................in this case, live well, live large, and damned well enjoy life, we only have one so make the most of it. | |
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Posted: 11/12/2008 9:53:49 PM | Okay, since this is a double-post, I'll offer the same advice again --- get a job as a tour guide! He'll be jealous of all the people you hang out with!
...or do the tried and true method, tell him you're still in love with your EX.
OOOOOPS!!! That's why he left in the first place!
I guess HE got revenge FIRST. | |
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Posted: 11/12/2008 10:00:26 PM | | Get abs show off your new improved body. | |
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Posted: 11/12/2008 10:18:58 PM | I would have to agree with the advice, the best revenge is living well.
Not pretending to live well, but doing it. | |
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Posted: 11/12/2008 10:19:35 PM | My "ultimate revenge" is that, eventually, I forget about them. I mean, I remember the guys, but don't really have an emotional attachment to their memory any more. It's such a relief when that happens! And I feel quite smug once I realize it.
Try not too waste too much energy on blaming them for *being* jerks, instead look to yourself and try to figure out how come you always *pick* jerks. [It's not easy--I'm still trying to figure out how come I always pick really, really nice guys. Who are *completely* emotionally* unavailable*--any help here would be appreciated!] | |
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Posted: 11/12/2008 10:31:46 PM | OP ---
You are young, beautiful and well educated. Why do you want to be destructive?
Revenge is not the answer. I understand that you are mad and hurt. It will pass. Living an exemplary life is the best revenge. If your picker is busted, let someone do the picking!
Good luck,
Jim | |
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Posted: 11/12/2008 11:39:42 PM | Get a braided wire from a hardware store and crawl under his car, wrap it around every wire, hose and fitting you can see then tie it to a U joint.
Or, take the cowards way out and get a syringe from a drugstore and suck up fish oil from a sardine can and inject it into the the doors between the rubber and the windows. That will probably come back on you though as nobody else will date him after that, particularly in the summer.
That's revenge. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2008 12:06:53 AM | | Course if you have a bit more time you can always mix a quart of water with a quart of methyl hydrate and a couple pounds of sugar and then shake it up and dump it into the gas tank. As it feeds from the bottom the gas is on top with the water and methyl mixing with the sugar and hopefully providing enough burn to run rough enough to suck the sugar into the injectors and such. If you have real nerve and ability a box of die grinding compound mixed with a quart of oil into the engine will provide long term enjoyment as his engine disintegrates in front of your loving eyes over the next month or so. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2008 2:26:21 AM | | Vengeful behavior will come full circle, your a scary movie. Cool your jets psycho queen, let it go. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2008 4:00:55 AM | Move on with your life instead of wasting time thinking about how to get back to him.
Why can`t people just walk away when its done and over with. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2008 5:33:39 AM | | The best revenge to let him see you smile and doing well in life without him next time he see's you. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2008 5:37:59 AM |
Vengeful behavior will come full circle, your a scary movie. Cool your jets psycho queen, let it go.
Ditto... why would you want to waste time and energy "getting back" at someone for not being compatible with you? You tried and it didn't work out. Let it go. Hate and anger will only carry you so far. Then you're left with nothing. I know it hurts now, but you WILL get over it with time. Criminal/destructive behavior is not the answer.
To accept your role in it....to stop projecting the blame and failure completely on him and understand you were 50% of the relationship. By becoming whole again, forgiving him and yourself, and moving on in your life and living it as happily and worthwhile as you can.
Ditto on this as well. (I'm feeling like a parrot today). Dont' let him see you hurt, angry, tearful, vengeful, etc.... That shows you still care, to some extent, and that he's still affecting you in some way. You will not truly be over him, until you accept that it's over, for whatever reasons, and that it's time to move on.
Wish you the best!
Krys | |
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Posted: 11/13/2008 5:41:59 AM | | Forget revenge... it's not worth it. Write this off as a relationship that just wasn't meant to be and move on with your life. Good luck! | |
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Posted: 11/13/2008 5:46:32 AM | Why don't you grow up and act like an adult... not like a Jr. High student. Revenge???
"The best revenge is to live well"... We've all heard this. You do it.
Some women. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2008 6:58:55 AM | | The only thing hate destroys is the vessel in which it is stored. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2008 7:07:35 AM | DREW,
you are an evil man!
i think i may be in like with ya!!! | |
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Posted: 11/13/2008 7:50:21 AM | | The best revenge is a life well lived. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2008 9:37:34 AM | ^^^ ditto what he just said Live it well | |
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Posted: 11/13/2008 9:57:33 AM | | I agree with people when they say the best revenge is a happy life. Thought about the revenge thing myself briefly but never carried it out. Am glad I never, cos I think I'd be feeling really stupid now I've calmed down. Good luck x | |
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Posted: 11/13/2008 10:23:30 AM | OP: Relationships hurt some times - reality. However, if you keep "feeding" into evil and revengeful thoughts you will NEVER get over this pain any time soon. Try and focus on yourself, and getting out of this funk.
Revenge only brings involvement with people you are far better off not knowing or having anything to do with. There are nice people out there, I hope you give yourself the chance to meet some. You deserve to.
Best,
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