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Posted: 11/13/2008 9:20:24 PM | | Why is he cheating on me? When we had the best relashionship ever and then one day it changed, I don't understand! He says that he loves me; he won't let me go; but he still is seeing the other woman, he says he is using her but what should I believe! If he loves me and wants to be with me then why won't he let the other woman go? He gets jelous when I look or talk to another man or if I go anywhere for too long he gets mad! WHY? I am so confused and don't know what to do! We have been together for six years and never has this happened! Why now? What happened? Don't know rether to wait or leave, don't know what to do! I need to know what to do ! | |
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Posted: 11/18/2008 9:31:21 AM | You are doing what you are doing because you love him, and you have for a long time.
Sometimes familiarity can bring comfort.
But, I think you know what you have to do.
You need to let go of him and gain your self respect back.
I do not know the kind of man he is but he seems to have an idea of the kind of woman you are.
A very kind hearted one. Please learn to love yourself more than you do anyone else.
You need to take care of your heart right now. Do not let him put you in limbo.
You will hurt BIG right now, but it will fade and you will feel so free and healthy once you
release these feelings you have for him right now.
I speak from experience and the best thing I started doing for myself was to become a realist.
I wish you well. | |
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Posted: 12/9/2008 7:23:08 AM | | I agree with Principerro. She is one wise woman. Heed those words. | |
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Posted: 12/12/2008 3:43:54 PM | I'll bet you are a great lady! You need to drop him like a bad habit. There are "plenty of fish" in the sea and most men would be lucky to have such a woman!
Fight the hurt by staying busy, and keep him out of your comfort zone! | |
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Posted: 12/14/2008 4:06:04 PM | | For whatever reasons he is doing what he is doing........I'd say it's time to let go and move on. | |
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Posted: 12/21/2008 7:31:53 AM | I know exactully how you feel. My ex did that for years, Said he loved me and wanted to be with me jealous all the hell when another man so much as looked at me. If we went out and I dressed up to impress him he thought I was doing it for other men. 3 years of him cheating and being and saying the other woman didn't mean a thing.
Hunny what I got from my experience is, 1. He did it for the thrill, and knew he had enough hold over me so he could do it. 2. He will always say he loves you and doesn't want to lose you. 3. eventually it will turn abusive. 4. he knows you don't have the confidence, or self respect so he will do it anywyas. 5. Leave him before he makes you lose everything that you are.
This kind of relationship can take a very long time to get over. It is a form of abuse since all the of the emotional pain he will put you through.
Please find your self and find your confidence. It took me a while well a year to be exact to find mine and leave and it was hard since we had a child togther, and I wanted to keep it a family for her sake. If you have kids please notice what your kids are going through and see the stress they are under. That kind of situation is never good for them.
I wish you luck and realize that women are great creatures. and we deserve the best. And when he steps out you not the one for him since well he is finding comfort in another womans arms. Very common among high school sweet hearts. They feel like they haven't experienced enough so they want to go out and play.
Good luck | |
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