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 Careingfriend

Joined: 7/31/2004
Msg: 1
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Posted: 10/3/2004 8:49:22 PM
Just felt like expressing some anger out here.

About 5 weeks ago, I met this girl online, she was alittle over weight but I didnt judge her for that or anything that had happened in her life. She and I went to the movies and to a sports bar. It went very good, and this relationship was very strong. The third week I met with her at Walmart, helped her with her shopping and drove her to her new liveing place. There we stayed, cuddled, watch TV, ate pizza. We got very very close to each other expressed our feelings and talked about our future. Soon of all things I got turned on, and she noticed. It led to the bed room.
Right after we did it (with protection). We washed up and when I went to cuddle and kiss her, she seemed distant. It was not her first time doing this, she told me that, but it was my first time. I spent 4 weeks leaving messages, emails, offline messages, went to her work and her place. Nothing... All she wanted was sex, that was it. Left me behind, no word, nothing. That was the worst feeling I have ever had in my life, makeing love and then nothing.

-Jared
 mollysue

Joined: 9/22/2004
Msg: 2
Used and tired.
Posted: 10/4/2004 10:40:00 AM
Wow, she sounds heartless!!!!!!!!!! Don,t blame yourself over this, some people are just users, and others are afraid of commitment. My advice to you is to move on, theres plenty of nice girls out there.,don,t waste your time on this one. ,and good luck to you, Sincerely, Mollysue
 Careingfriend

Joined: 7/31/2004
Msg: 3
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Posted: 10/4/2004 1:16:12 PM
Thanks Mollysue,

I hope everything turns out for you in your delima.

Good luck to you as well, and thanks again for the posting.

-Jared
 oneofthefew

Joined: 2/21/2004
Msg: 4
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Posted: 10/4/2004 2:53:35 PM
It happens, it's sad to say. It's probably why I've all but written off sex as a bad idea altogether.

But hey, to all the users out there, keep up the good work, and stay the hell away from nice people.
 brundle

Joined: 6/28/2004
Msg: 5
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Posted: 10/4/2004 5:26:40 PM
Dude your lucky things got figured out so quickly-it could have taken years to figure out she wasn't right for you. Its her loss. Besides now you've been laid. Don't look a gift horse in the mouth. It happened to me before and all I can do is laugh about it.
 Tom Orrow

Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 6
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Posted: 10/4/2004 6:11:40 PM
Nah, I cann't laugh.
It happened to me once.
It was very nasty indeed.
Still think it's nasty.
Well, feeling the way I do, surely I will never do that to any girl.

Wich reminds me of a joke:

Last night I prevented a rape!
There was this beautyfull gal walking.......and I stayed in my car.


Tom
 Careingfriend

Joined: 7/31/2004
Msg: 7
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Posted: 10/5/2004 2:36:05 AM
I can't laugh about it eather, maybe in 5 years or I can laugh about how we did it.
Well, maybe I can laugh about it for a minute... You see, we couldnt find a condom so we grabbed a Walmart shopping bag. IT WORKED !

BTW, No Comment about that joke :P kinda scares me.
 Karrarose43

Joined: 7/30/2004
Msg: 8
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Posted: 10/5/2004 4:40:34 AM
meouuuuuuuuuuu tom


Not a good joke mate....

scratchhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

rape is not a joke (from one friend to another)

 Tom Orrow

Joined: 8/26/2004
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Posted: 10/5/2004 6:38:33 AM
Oh boy, if I get scratches for every sick joke, I'd better watch my tongue to save my skin.

Well, I think it's good to be corrected from time to time.
That's one of the things friends are for.

Sorry Careingfriend
Sorry dear Karrarose

Tom
 PakanaHerruus

Joined: 2/28/2004
Msg: 10
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Posted: 10/5/2004 7:57:08 AM
d*mn...where can i get a women to use me like that.. get laid then never see her again.. lol j/k
 duffy81

Joined: 10/5/2004
Msg: 11
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Posted: 10/6/2004 10:32:36 PM
I wanna be used
 MSTJedi

Joined: 8/22/2004
Msg: 12
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Posted: 10/6/2004 10:46:37 PM
Dude, a Wal-Mart bag for a condom? I can't say that's exactly fool proof, but better than nothing . . . I suppose. Weird . . .

For some reason the words "You might be a redneck if . . ." come to mind.

That's not a slam on you, careing, just seems pretty darn funny when you think about it.
 PakanaHerruus

Joined: 2/28/2004
Msg: 13
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Posted: 10/6/2004 11:43:55 PM
that should be walmarts new promotion.. not only does it hold your groceries, but it prevents sexual transmitted disease and pregnacy
 MSTJedi

Joined: 8/22/2004
Msg: 14
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Posted: 10/6/2004 11:53:15 PM
Hey, at least it shows a bit of ingenuity there.
 guitarman100

Joined: 8/25/2004
Msg: 15
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Posted: 10/7/2004 3:31:37 AM
DUDE
THAT IS A GREAT STORY........DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY GIRLS YOU COULD PICK-UP WITH THAT ONE????...............BUT , PUT A LITTLE SPIN ON IT......SAY "I AM SOOOOO HUGE THAT I HAVE TO USE A WAL-MART SHOPPING BAG"..............THAT WILL GET YOU SO MANY DATES .......TELL ME HOW IT WORKS FOR YOU
 PakanaHerruus

Joined: 2/28/2004
Msg: 16
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Posted: 10/7/2004 3:53:49 AM
i dunno.. they might think your a cheap ****er, cause you shop at walmart rather then somewhere else that isnt known for selling cheaper merchandise...haha
 brundle

Joined: 6/28/2004
Msg: 17
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Posted: 10/7/2004 8:21:59 PM
crinkle, crinkle
LOL
??????
walmart bag????
??????
thats funny
sounds like you should have used a ziploc freezer bag.
 CaR

Joined: 8/17/2004
Msg: 18
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Posted: 10/7/2004 8:30:41 PM
dood least you had some sex , but yea it sucks it best wit love?

blah i want love but girls in toronto dont even know wat it really means
 guitarman100

Joined: 8/25/2004
Msg: 19
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Posted: 10/9/2004 12:20:12 AM
YA, BIG CITY GIRLS CAN KINDA SUCK THAT WAY..I WAS IN T.O.

THEY ALL WANT TO PORTRAY "THE HOOCHIE MAMA IN THE ROCK VIDEO"...............VERY FAR FROM REALLY LIFE.............VERY FAKE
 CaR

Joined: 8/17/2004
Msg: 20
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Posted: 10/9/2004 4:43:00 PM
dayum dood you read my mind
dat's wat im talkin bout they want to show they got tha looks and all

and just want to tease us guys who actually FUKIN SERIOUS OF LOVE

but noooooooo they want money and just LUST


and tha ones who dont are not to be found

they never are their so rare just like girls like them lookin for tha sweet tye of guy but they dont find us, so they be wit stupid JERKS



*sighs*
 iprenegade

Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 21
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Posted: 10/11/2004 3:04:56 PM
Hey Man :

Not trying to be an ***hole here but women are pretty sensitive when it comes to sex and this is a shot in the dark but "maybe" just maybe the walmart bag might of been what done it in . If I you were a women try to think of what it would feel like if some one shoved a walmart bag in your crotch . Its pretty cheap when you think about it. I am not saying you wanted her to feel like that cause you seem like a good guy but lines get crossed with men and women alot . You have to make sure (not her you !)that your both on the same page and to her at that moment the facts didnt matter . Its how she felt afterwards . You have to look at why .

You may have the opportunity to appologize for that IF it actually happened that way . I am thinking from your previous threads you maybe joking not sure .

Blair
 vodkanstars

Joined: 4/13/2004
Msg: 22
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Posted: 10/11/2004 9:57:24 PM
omg are you serious? i've had this happen to me twice now and it feels horrible! but i've never heard bout it happening to a guy. i'm so sorry, just remember she doesn't deserve you and don't need other people to make us happy, because we deserve so much better! take care & feel better!
 CaR

Joined: 8/17/2004
Msg: 23
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Posted: 10/12/2004 12:22:30 PM
I ACTUALLY WANT TO BE USED, WHY THA HELL NOW IT NOT LIKE I HAVE REALLY HAVENT BEEN BEFORE

SOME GIRLS ARE TRU THA REST LIE

UGH

I WISH I STOP RUNNIN INTO THOSE WITCHES

IM CURSED
 jennyve25

Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 24
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Used and tired.
Posted: 9/11/2005 10:38:28 PM
Wow that is the strangest story ive ever heard.
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