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 Anlachok

Joined: 4/24/2005
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Never give up, fight the good fight
Posted: 6/19/2005 8:46:47 PM
This thread is for those who've given up or are about to leave the dating sites...or better yet the dating scene in general....I know that it's hard to look for that elusive love...I should know..I've been looking for 5 long yrs..and yet I am still here and fighting the good fight...Despite the setbacks and the games and other hurdles I remain true to my goal..find 'Her'...It's not easy at times and still, I am here...I've heard all the horror stories and the success stories..One coud get the same results if you were at a bar or other venues..but the end result would be success or failure....it's up to each of us to discover our strengths and limitations...ultimately you decide whether you stay or go...to love or not to love...you never know until you hope.
How can you succeed if you haven't tried.
 Nu West Guy

Joined: 5/15/2004
Msg: 2
Never give up, fight the good fight
Posted: 6/19/2005 8:57:26 PM
you might just back into her at 7 11 ,who know s .
If you don t buy a ticket how can you win the lottery.
 *BumbleBee*

Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 3
Never give up, fight the good fight
Posted: 6/19/2005 9:14:26 PM
Thanks for the advice .... a little late, though .... I've already given up.
 GreenyX

Joined: 5/4/2005
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Never give up, fight the good fight
Posted: 6/19/2005 10:00:30 PM
Mommy you have an interesting set of restrictions. For me to be able to say hello, I'd have to be a 250 year old Grey Alien looking for abductees.
 *BumbleBee*

Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 5
Never give up, fight the good fight
Posted: 6/19/2005 10:09:14 PM
No, you'd just have to be between 98 and 99 years old and looking for talk/ email.

Unless you're on my favourites list, of course.

Adding you in case you want to say hello, Greeny

 buck711

Joined: 5/15/2005
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What if the fight has already won?
Posted: 6/19/2005 10:49:43 PM
Anlachok, I've been looking for the "right one" for 25 yrs, have found several who I thought were, but was dead wrong. I have tried many of the "personal" sites, but for some reason, I am still here, looking at forums at 1:00 am, wondering how long ago did my soul mate die. You say some insperational words, but for me, all I hope to find anymore is maybe a friend or two, since the pond around here must have winter killed.

BTW....didn't your mom ever tell you not to say four letter words..... like work, snow, rain, love....ect........lol.....j/k

 womanofsubstance

Joined: 5/10/2005
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What if the fight has already won?
Posted: 6/20/2005 9:27:07 AM
try not to go for girls out of your leauge a lot of men do that they are still attracted to beautiful young girls and forget theyre old wrinkly bald and fat they critisise women there own age because they look old they must trully have no mirrors in their den.
 Nu West Guy

Joined: 5/15/2004
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Posted: 6/20/2005 12:14:49 PM
theyre old wrinkly bald and fat....
Wrinkle s where ?
Fat . i see my feet
Bald not yet
and what we desire .
....Passionate , with a hint of a good home cooked meal
 womanofsubstance

Joined: 5/10/2005
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Posted: 6/21/2005 8:03:43 AM
ok in some cases old wrinkly half bald and skinny
 tesaz

Joined: 11/17/2004
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What if the fight has already won?
Posted: 6/24/2005 8:05:04 AM
I'm with mommyof2,,,,,,ready to leave these dating sites.....
 ATPase

Joined: 3/31/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 6/24/2005 9:44:16 AM
Dating is tough, but I am picky. That is my problem. But why the hell should I lower my standards. I don't need to. I can afford to be as picky as I want. Think of it this way: even if things don't work out you hopefully learn from the experience. I 've learned tons about women I didnt' end up likign or who I got burnt by in some way. AT least the had a use... it's better than being useless.
 Nicesmileyguy

Joined: 6/10/2005
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Posted: 6/24/2005 9:46:36 AM
Good advice. Lord knows I've wanted to throw in the towel a number of times
 RitzNB

Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 13
What if the fight has already won?
Posted: 7/15/2005 9:53:31 PM
I'm with Mommy of 2. I'm pretty much ready to retire from here either temporarily or permanently. It's not the website in question. It's just the whole BS that comes with being online.
 c_deacon

Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 7/15/2005 10:04:26 PM
I go back and forth with this.....but I know that I am a better person for knowing most of you and looking for that special one.....I will pull back many times...but I have not given up hope yet.....hope you all will join me in that and know each other better...
 *BumbleBee*

Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 7/15/2005 10:04:42 PM
In between that post of mine and now, I've gone from giving up, to back in the saddle to giving up again. And ya know, I doubt that there's more than a handful of people on this site who'd even notice if I wasn't around. It's not like most people online actually care anyway. It's a front for a lot of them. My friends on here know who they are. Everyone else can go f*ck themselves as far as I'm concerned.... whether my profile stays here or not. Or maybe I'm just in a horribly bad mood tonight and my opinion will change again. Who knows? And who really gives a f*ck? Don't answer that. I don't need any more fake niceness tonight.
 c_deacon

Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 7/15/2005 10:16:34 PM
Mommy...

You of all people know that I am not fake and I know you are not...we may not connect the same way...but you are considered a friend my dear....so be in a mood....god I know how to do that....but know that you are cared for also....
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