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 jrb_nite_owl

Joined: 12/9/2007
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how do i keep a woman's attention??
Posted: 11/21/2008 6:40:37 PM
I get very, very little correspondance from women from this site. I can count them on two or three fingers to be exact. anyway... i have found that the emails sent back and forth don't go on for a very long time. I'm wondering if i'm doing something wrong or if I'm boring or whatever. I know not everyone checks their computer every day like i do. Some people may have forgotten they signed up for this site or it's not on their priority lists. I can understand in this world of everyone being in a rush that they just don't have the time for emailing someone they know very little about. I'm busy too... especially this time of year. Just not sure if there is something about my plain jane, common life that's a turn off.
 jrb_nite_owl

Joined: 12/9/2007
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how do i keep a woman's attention??
Posted: 11/21/2008 7:14:48 PM
not looking for pity as someone thought. Just trying to get a conversation going
 UrsulaMajor

Joined: 6/21/2008
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how do i keep a woman's attention??
Posted: 11/21/2008 7:43:31 PM
I'd go to the Profile Review forum for some feedback. But what I noticed right off is that you tend to describe yourself in very negative ways, "plain jane, normal, run of the mill, if I'm boring or whatever, it used to be because i was so shy, I know i can be childish, People always tell me I have too much time on my hands."

Your headline, "using my spare time til it's filled," also implies you're bored or just looking for distraction until it's time to go to work.

Taken altogether, it paints a picture of a sad sack, slightly-depressed person who might not be very fun.

Your pics aren't great either. Time for an overhaul.
 jrb_nite_owl

Joined: 12/9/2007
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how do i keep a woman's attention??
Posted: 11/21/2008 8:09:26 PM
wow you make me look like I make myself look like a horrible person. Maybe I should try to put something different on the profile.. see what happens. What kind of a picture would be better?? Maybe I need a stylist or something....thanks
 sisz

Joined: 3/18/2008
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how do i keep a woman's attention??
Posted: 1/3/2009 10:11:15 PM
I wonder if he did the over haul yet; doesn't appear so!

One of your hobbies is wasting time! Hmm????
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