| | the little blue pillPage 1 of 2 (1, 2) | hey ladies and gents
I'm about to go medication that will pretty much bum me out sexually for a month. Probably will be harder to get and maintain erections and last a bit less.
Now my girl is a little crazy and wants it super hard and fast all the time and normally with all my self control I can last maybe 15-35 minutes. So you see the problem: crazy hot gf+ my boner weakening meds= boring sex life for a month.
So to remedy the issue, I got 10 Viagra pills from my buddy and planning on taking a half dose this weekend to test it out.
Question being, has any one else experienced Viagra when they don't really have a problem? Sort of like a party drug almost? Ladies your input is also welcome | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/24/2008 11:20:28 PM | Dude, bless your buddy for being willing to part with some of those "little blue pills", but I'm thinking perhaps your doctor who prescribed your "boner weakening meds" should know about this before you mix the two.
Seriously.
And although you might be "bummed" out sexually for a month with the meds your doctor prescribed for you, there are other things that you and your SO can do regardless of the state of your "boner".
First: Be safe. Second? Have loads of alternate fun.
 | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/24/2008 11:49:47 PM | ASK YOUR DOCTOR before mixing medicines. For chrissakes.
Then buy her a vibrator. Use it on her. | |
|
| |
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 12:26:13 AM | You don't know for certain that the medication will "bum you out sexually for a month". Just because that's a possible side effect don't mean that YOU will have that side effect.
Secondly, if your girlfriend can't deal with this possibility for a month, I feel sorry for her. There are so many other ways that two people can be intimate than just sticking tab a into slot b.
To the poster who asked if he was trying to get attention. Hello pot. | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 12:27:49 AM | how exactly am I looking to get attention? By advertising the fact that I'll have a weak boner for a month? Oh yah I'm a real stud. I'm simply asking what reaction, expeiemces and issues people have had with sex drugs when taken with out having a real need for them.
Ok I need to clarify some issues... One, although my buddy gave me these, I can just as easily buy em in the black market so it's not a huge deal. Secondly, I know the drugs I'm going to be taking will not be bad if mixed with Viagra, further more I don't do drugs , I don't smoke and very very rarely do I drink so I'm in decent shape medically. | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 12:33:20 AM | | gonebatty, thanks for your post :) sadly that particular side effect is an almost %100 type of deal. And I don't know if my gf will have a problem with it, my guess is no, but if I can't perform in bed it will affect my self esteem ( trust me I know myself) and bum me out in general. And couple that with the fact that I only get to be intimate with her once a week or so, and you sort of make a do or die situation ( ok it's not that bad but I like sex) | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 12:41:37 AM | Regardless of the fact that you can buy these blue pills on the black market, you really should be totally certain that they aren't going to interact/interfere with the physician prescribed medication.
Just be careful, that's my only concern.
And talk with your SO, let her know about the possible side effects, see how she feels the two of you should handle it.
Who knows? This might be the perfect opportunity to experience some other sexual activities for you both, together. You don't always have to hit a home run, you know.
 | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 12:50:51 AM | ok, see you just brought up the second issue. We are a new couple so we do like our fun. Howeve fun to her is mostly straight intercourse, where as I love oral sex, I would love to go down on her but she says she is too shy ( I can convince her otherwise just will take time :p) and love recurving it too, intact no matter how bad the pills affect me, I know some bj will make me rock hard, sadly she hates giving oral and ever since she told me I never pressed the issue because I don't want her to do anything she doesn't like. So that leaves me pretty much with straight sex.
Although I will be picking up a viberator for her this weekend :) | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 12:51:58 AM | I would hope that your gf wouldn't have a problem with it. When someone cares for another person they are supportive. I know it can have an affect on your self esteem if you can't perform the way you think you should, but speaking from experience, if she cares, she will understand. My ex had a stoke while we were married. It effected him sexually for awhile which caused him a lot of frustration. All I could do was support him and cry inside because it broke my heart to see the man I cared so much for feeling like less of a man because he couldn't "get it up". As another poster said, the time you are taking the medication would be a great time to explore other methods of pleasing one another. Good luck to you.  | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 1:44:21 AM | | Regardless of the fact that you can buy these blue pills on the black market, they can cost some serious green, and you could wind up in the red. As far as mixing, that's a bit of a grey area. If you're not in the pink, I could see why you'd feel blue. No one can say you're yellow for talking about your situation openly. There it is, in black and white. | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 3:08:11 AM | Is your 'buddy' a doctor?!?! If not why are you taking prescription drugs from him to take!?! BE VERY CAREFUL! Mixing medications may not be a good thing - they may have adverse reactions if taken together. Go back to your Doctor and ask him for your own prescription and make sure they are ok to take together!! You could experience heart attack or death if taken incorrectly!!! NEVER TAKE MEDICATION THAT IS NOT PRESCRIBED TO YOU!
Oh and BTW if your 'crazy' girlfriend cannot understand you may have some difficulty for awhile - then she doesn't have you in priority! I would hope someone who loves you has your best interest at heart! | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 3:10:28 AM | | there are medications for erectile dysfunction. there are also medications to improve the blood flow. many problems occur with men, ans i speak from experience of an ex, with smoking, lack of exercize, depression, needing counselling, poor eating habits. So, these little pills combined with lifestyle changes will create a healthy sex life. But if you are unwilling to do the work that is needed to make the change, then your sex life will be moderate or could die. i was with somebody so pigheaded that he wouldn't give up his vices and had too much pride to take the little pill that i dumped him. We were engaged. I wasn't going to live my life with a man that could fix something and wanted to force me to celibacy. | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 3:32:43 AM | How do you know if the side affects of the medication will affect you?? You shouldn`t take anything your Dr isn`t aware of. | |
|
Tah,
| | Joined: 11/18/2008 Msg: 15 | |
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 4:39:23 AM |
You could experience heart attack or death if taken incorrectly big misconception with viagra, it actually can cause blindness and also require you to front an emergency department because your erection dont go down, it becomes quite painful. people have had heart attacks while on viagra but that was cause they got excited and physically went places they ain't been for awhile because of the use of the drug viagra giving them the ability to have numerous strong erections.
and op you ask why others claim you might be attention seeking? your on a dating site telling everyone how randy your girlfriend is. | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 4:59:29 AM | first i would agree with others and urge you to make sure the two drugs combined are not going to kill you!!
i tried Viagra once and all i got was areally blocked nose !!! ......... that's it, no joke or pun - i spent all evening trying to blow my nose and saying i can't breathe !!!
also my dad tried it once and he said it gave him such a bad headache he thought he was dying - so he left his girlfriends house, drove home, wiped his porn tapes and then took himself to hospital !!!! a round trip of about 80 miles
be safe !! | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 5:27:32 AM | | Why not ask your doctor for the prescription for viagra? Just explain to him about your need and he should be able to give you something if not viagra...and he would also be able to tell you the side effects...rather than getting your info from a layman forum. | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 6:07:54 AM | Dude,
This is the perfect time to enhance your sexual life with your gf.
Ok, you say she doesn’t like to give oral, well you give her oral. Also, there are so many ways to be intimate besides intercourse. Your fingers make a great substitute. Use the time to bond. Explore her body with your hands, eyes, mind and vocalize how much you like what you see and feel. Learn where all of her hot spots are. Give me a sensual body massage with a great oil.
Just talk. Go to movies. Go shopping for the holidays. You get my drift.
For heavens sake, if she cannot do without your hardness during this time, you have way more pressing issues than what you seem to be concerned with.
Good Luck. | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 6:16:25 AM | So you know that taking someone else's prescription is a big no-no, right?? If you take those pills and something happens to you, your buddy's dr is on the hook. There are some serious and potentially deadly consequences to taking ED meds. Talk to your dr about it and actually listen to what he/she says.
Seriously... I like sex as much as the next person, but I'd probably dump your sorry stupid ass for taking someone else's 'sript because you felt you didn't want to disappoint me sexually. OMFG it's 30 days. If she is so selfish that she's willing to risk your life to get laid???? Man... totally not worth it.
You want my input?? I think you'd be stupid to do it. That's what I think. Viagra isn't a party drug. People have taken it as it's been prescribed by a medical dr and have had some serious side effects and you are willing to take it without notifying your dr or talking to the pharmacist and risk drug interaction and stroke. Ok. Go for it. BTW.. can I have your full name and address and birthdate.. I'd like to take out a life insurance policy on you. | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 7:16:47 AM | | i would say just one thing seriously , check with your doc first, why?? because these things CAN KILL YOU!! | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 7:30:27 AM | | Dont take them with any type of Nitroglycerin based medications or it will Kill you!!! | |
|
Tah,
| | Joined: 11/18/2008 Msg: 22 | |
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 7:30:45 AM |
tried Viagra once and all i got was areally blocked nose !!! ......... that's it, no joke or pun - i spent all evening trying to blow my nose and saying i can't breathe um you are female are you not? you have shared an experience with a drug designed for heart conditions that ended up relaxing the arteries and veins in the penis allowing proper blood flow and giving impotent MEN the ability to get sexually excited,
 | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 7:34:12 AM | first u say it is her that will be upset.....then u say u don't know if she will be upset. and that it is you that will have a self esteem problem if u can't perform to your standards. So this isn't about her.....it's about you. Not very fair to have people blaming her for your issues. I'd wonder how she'd feel about that...more than I'd worry about how hard you can get.
it's a month dude, only 4 sexual encounters since u only get once a week..... is your getting laid more important than your health? Try asking her if she thinks so. | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/25/2008 8:57:54 AM |
big misconception with viagra alvin pink - My comment was based on MIXING medications not 'just' Viagra alone!! Taking any medication that is not prescribed for you is playing Russian Roulette!! There may be underlying illnesses or conditions that will make taking any medication like swallowing a time bomb! | |
|
| the little blue pill Posted: 11/26/2008 6:21:55 PM | Ok, wow so many replies, I need to clarify things even further.
1- before taking any pill I research the help out of it for possible side effects and problems. Stuff you guys mentioned ( some get headaches, some stuffy nose, in very very rare cases vision problems) won't happen with my other drugs and obviously I'm not taking any nitro based drugs. I WILL however double check with a phamacist more when I pick up the pills.
2- alot of you seem to think she would hate me for not being hard for a month. Nothing like that. She would probably be very understanding and it's alot more a matter of my ego and insecurities than anything else.
3- why get a prescription for something and pay a huge amount per pill when I can get them for free and later pickup the underground generic version for 2 bux or so( before anyone asks, yes I can trust the source as my buddies buy from him and use the stuff he sells without issues)
4- to the couple of people saying this is for attention, it's not. Nothing much to show off here except my need to remedy my insecurities with drugs LOL. And to who ever said I was showing off cause I was saying my gf is "randy", I have no idea what the duck that means but doesn't sound good. My gf is pretty shy when it comes to anything sexual and the only time I can say she is crazy is when we have intercourse, and by crazy I mean she only likes it rough and fast, to me it's a little wierd since I like all kinds of sex but she only enjoys that kind, hence why i said she us crazy. Not trying to show off or anything since three is nothing to show off about our sex life.
Thanks again for the replies | |
|