| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 12:22:47 PM | | Ok so I need some advice on how to save my relationship with my gf. I cheated on her by sleeping with another women so can anyone on here please give me adivce on what I can do to save my relationship. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 12:27:19 PM | | People tend to not forgive and forget,ladies notice I said people.It really depends on the person you are with and how willing they are to stay with you. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 12:29:28 PM | | Dude, you cheated. It is not even up to you decide if there is a relationship left to save. You trashed it and she would a dumbazz to want to continue with you. Man up. Grow up. Move on. Sorry dude, just the way it is. | |
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Posted: 12/2/2008 12:30:16 PM | Stop thinking about how you can save your relationship.
You weren't thinking about your relationship when you were screwing around behind your girlfriend's back.
Stop thinking about saving your relationship.
Stop thinking about your own interests for a moment.
Think about her. Tell her you are sorry. Tell her goodbye.
Then stay the heck away from her out of respect.
She's been through enough already. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 12:30:32 PM | Well, you can always start with deleting your profile on Plenty of Fish...
Or at least chainging it to reflect that you are in a relationship.
Frankly, I have zero tolerance for cheating... so, there would be NOTHING you could do to mend this...
*shrugs*
But, that's just me...
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 12:31:06 PM | | Perhaps if you cut off your junk ... put it in a box and give it her. Then maybe. | |
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Posted: 12/2/2008 12:33:23 PM | Ron, I was thinking about that, but GOD! The smell would be SOMETHING AWFUL, wouldn't it? May as well send her a skunk on a bun!
Eeeeeeep! | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 12:41:13 PM | | perhaps if he just handed her a strap-on, some lube, and bent over for her? Second thought, forget the lube. | |
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Posted: 12/2/2008 12:42:02 PM | | IF she does accept you back, be prepared that there may never be 'enough time' to have past for her to 'get over it'....it may happen...one day....but you will have to prove yourself everyday.....are you ready to accept that? | |
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Posted: 12/2/2008 12:45:35 PM | I like what Ron9 said!
Cheating is not tolerable!
Why not end it first and Yeah, why are you here? | |
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Posted: 12/2/2008 12:46:57 PM | Here is the deal. You apologise. You tell her everything that she asks to know. Then you hope for the best. Bt i would not hold my breath.
Now of course you could play her. If your interested then it is possible. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 12:47:24 PM | As far as I'm concerned, its over and done with as once the trust has gone, its  . Try to be more discerning as to where you put it in the future as you could lose a good thing.  | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 12:48:10 PM | Well first of all...you could start by getting the hell off a dating site... | |
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Posted: 12/2/2008 12:53:12 PM | | Maybe she saw the light instead of trading her life for the darkness, per your profile request. I hate to ask, but now who is in the dark? Lesson number 1 = don't screw people over. The chances of saving the relationship are very small. You're young, regard it as a life lesson, move on and don't do it again. | |
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Posted: 12/2/2008 12:55:46 PM | Promise her that you will never cheat again.
Allow her to show you how much it hurts (as often as she needs) and "get it".
Be prepared to live with transparency until she learns to trust you again.
Tell her you're sorry and mean it.
Tell her that you love her and no one else.
There are good resources on the internet for both you and her.
Do not sweep it under the rug with "that is the past and from now on we go forward".
on edit: Just read your profile. Pfft! Forget everything I wrote. Say good-bye to her. She deserves better. | |
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Posted: 12/2/2008 12:57:03 PM | Well Mr. Hyde (pfft...ehh) ask yourself, how would you feel and what would you do if your GF cheated on you?
Think long and hard about that before you even tell her about it and ask/beg/plead for her to forgive you. (may want to wear a cup......)  | |
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Posted: 12/2/2008 12:59:41 PM | Obviously you know know how for the next one, it's very simple, relationships have lines that if crossed they're gone. If you want to keep one, color inside the lines
confucious says "if you have the winning lottery ticket, don't use it for toilet paper | |
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Posted: 12/2/2008 1:00:49 PM | | What is to say you are not going to do it again? I am with Ron here. | |
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Posted: 12/2/2008 1:04:08 PM | OP: Ask her if you can save the relationship. There is NOTHING we can suggest that will guarantee her forgiving you.
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Posted: 12/2/2008 1:05:34 PM | | Cheating is not something that deserves forgiveness in my book. Once a cheater always a cheater. You "chose" to have sex with this other women knowing full well you were going to hurt your girlfriend. You deserved the dumping you got. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 1:13:33 PM |
Ok so I need some advice on how to save my relationship with my gf. I cheated on her by sleeping with another women so can anyone on here please give me adivce on what I can do to save my relationship.
Zip! Zero! Nada! Zilch!
It's up to her weather or not to forgive you. Sit back, and deal with the consequences. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 1:14:13 PM | | Don't tell her. | |
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| I cheated
Posted: 12/2/2008 1:14:53 PM | Here is some advice: you shouldn't have cheated.
Hindsight is wonderful, isn't it? | |
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Posted: 12/2/2008 1:26:27 PM | Ah screw it. Play her! Tell her that you were being emotionally unfullfilled in the relationship. You felt all alone and left out. Tell her that she was emotionally distant.
Tell her that you just needed to feel loved and that you felt shut out from her. you were scared and alone.
use the term 'I felt' alot. Frame it so that it seems like she was somehow not there for you. Don't be angry or agrumentative. Don't make it out to be her fault. Act like your pleading.Make it seem like if she were more giving you would not have had to seek affection somewhere else.
She will cave.
I'm going to hell for this one. | |
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