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 Sefra
Joined: 9/8/2006
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Honestly didn't even think it was possible....but a friend of a friend told me that her 50 year old lover was constantly erect but never able to ejaculate... anyone relate?

They would have sex constantly and for very long periods of time.... and at first this was exciting for her....but ultimately...it began to creep her out... because it is not normal for a man to not be able to explode.

I'm simply repeating what I heard.
 Maculon
Joined: 8/24/2008
Msg: 2
Why do men lose the ability to ejaculate as they get older?
Posted: 12/12/2008 2:18:37 AM
Picky women isn't she? I think most women may just put that little issue aside in favor of the endurance thing - oh decisions decisions.
 Sefra
Joined: 9/8/2006
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Posted: 12/12/2008 2:40:28 AM
To be honest, my friend started blaming herself.... and I would try to comfort her by saying.."there..there..don't worry about it.." After awhile, however, I didn't know what to say...so i came here.
 SingleGuy4912
Joined: 7/25/2006
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Why do men lose the ability to ejaculate as they get older?
Posted: 12/12/2008 3:11:31 AM
How old is she and how long have they been together? Could it just be better control? Can he ejaculate from oral sex or masturbation? Shouldn't she be asking a doctor if she's concerned?

I say hook him up with a 25 yr old and see if the problem still exists. See...a real doctor wouldn't give that advice.



 poshrat
Joined: 7/3/2005
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Posted: 12/12/2008 4:30:38 AM
I'd suggest his 'ten minute teenage trigger' has worn off !

Seriously though, if he is capable of maintaining an erection for considerable lengths of time, he has probably reached the mind set where his concern is more in pleasing his partner than his own release, and ejaculation is a secondary factor to him

Biologically, his replenishment time is longer, so Nature has rewarded him with staying power..unless he's using the little blue 'wonder pill', which can have the same effect, and cause problems like that, that they don't bother warning you about!

I would point out to her that she is far more fortunate in having a Lover who can out distance her, rather than have one of the 'normal' males who rolls over and is asleep within minutes, having 'spent all his energies in the first round' and left her alone in the ring...so to speak.

Some women just can't be satisfied can they?..and they'd love a man like that....LOL!
 kahakuloa60
Joined: 11/30/2008
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Posted: 12/12/2008 4:47:28 AM
"he has probably reached the mind set where his concern is more in pleasing his partner than his own release, and ejaculation is a secondary factor to him"

No, OP said he NEVER reaches his end. That's not normal. If he's physically incapable of ejaculating, he should see a doctor. This could be a symptom of diabetes, or the result of prostate surgery, or antidepressant drugs, or lots of other nasty stuff.
 CEO of Hoagie Inc.
Joined: 7/30/2007
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Posted: 12/12/2008 5:00:58 AM
His balls must be more blue than a Smurfs. Seriously I agree with a previous post that women are the hardest animal to satisfy. I would figure his ability to go at for prolonged periods of time would make her happy. Then again I can understand how she could end up feeling insecure like she is not doing her part. To that all I can say is maybe she needs to have him talk to a doctor.
 Sefra
Joined: 9/8/2006
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Posted: 12/12/2008 5:34:00 AM
single guy......

my friend is very attractive and he is constantly erect....so the fact that she is 38 and not 25 is irrelevant....

apparently there is nothing 'wrong'... he had been checked out.... but obviously THERE IS SOMETHING wrong...

he can't come!!
 Sefra
Joined: 9/8/2006
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Posted: 12/12/2008 5:37:36 AM
ED, or erectile dysfunction, includes the inability to ejaculate... I had never heard about it until my friend mustered enough courage to tell me about her experience...

I just wondered if anyone had faced a similar issue on POF???

I know that women cant orgasm usually due to 'mental blocks'.....wondered if men suffered from the same nightmare...


 Maculon
Joined: 8/24/2008
Msg: 10
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Posted: 12/12/2008 5:50:38 AM
Uh...not in her anyway...
 poshrat
Joined: 7/3/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 12/12/2008 5:51:08 AM


he can't come!!


So maybe it is time one of them went?...sorry couldn't resist that!

Okay..been there myself. IF they are having sex on such a regular basis as to passed his point of replenishment..the slang term in UK is 'coming dust', he is at the point where an ejaculation becomes an internal thing..much like that of a woman

When one lass did that to me after a night of passion I'll never forget..the result , for me, was like being plugged into a light socket, and someone turning the power on

On the one hand it was the most mind blowing experience I had ever encountered..and I wanted it to continue, whilst on the other..it was the most excruciating agony my groin had ever known...and I eventually passed out for about 5 minutes

When I came round to a smiling face stating..'Now you know what an orgasm is like for me', I could only manage a gasping 'How in blazes can you climax more than once a night?"

If he has been that far..I can understand his reluctance to go that distance again..which might account for his reluctance to reach ejaculation... more a psychological than a physical problem.

Maybe this helps?
 philrook
Joined: 1/20/2005
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Posted: 12/12/2008 7:51:48 AM
ejaculation at an older age is definitely mental. There have been women in my past that I wasn't able to cum for. And then there are those women in my past that have brought me to orgasm many times in a night.

The difference is the former is just passing the time and the latter is a wish cum true ... LOL
 ProcolHarem
Joined: 8/29/2008
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Posted: 12/12/2008 8:32:22 AM
I'm 51 and have no problem with either.

Geeez....come too soon, someone writes a thread
Don't come, someone writes a thread.

Maybe she's too....um....loose???
 I am searching
Joined: 5/16/2008
Msg: 14
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Posted: 12/12/2008 9:45:44 AM
You better believe it is possible. For four years, I had a nightmare relationship. First, he could not get it up. We tried pills, contraptions, shots, you name it. No real success. Then a year ago he broke up and when and had a surgery (pump) which gave him an erection "on demand." Hate to tell him this, and wouldn't, but it still didn't do much for me. Now (I think) he is busy screwing anybody who is available and calling it love. The tubes that run through seem to be too short. Definitely "It" seems too short. He says it is. Well, now he has an erection, but he still gets no satisfaction from it. Gets close, but then the feeling goes away. He has to "do it himself." Wonder if this enforces the saying "Use it or lose it."
 Ron9
Joined: 8/10/2004
Msg: 15
Why do men lose the ability to ejaculate as they get older?
Posted: 12/12/2008 10:29:44 AM
"Why do men lose the ability to ejaculate as they get older?"

SOME MEN when they get older - and SOME MEN in certain situations regardless of age.

I am older than dirt ....... yucko yet another birthday YESTERDAY lol.

My junk still works ok ....... and - never been in the same room with a pill (a puff it up pill).

OP it is not his 50 years old. I was still in my teens (as far as bOinking goes) when I was 50 years old. Still in the ...... umm swing of things years and years after that.

It is not his age - it may be in his nOOdle (no not THAT noodle).

Situational plumbing problems do happen. When I was 21 and wanted to "do" my new gf .......... so bad - when she said "ok" ..... nothing worked the first time lol.

It happened again between my first two marriages and - the first time with a gal.

He has something situational going on - something mental that is causing it - I would guess.
 karma9800
Joined: 6/21/2007
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Posted: 12/12/2008 10:49:49 AM
sperm is very very very very tiny and you only get so much of it like brain cells

therefore you only ever have a maximum X amount of ejaculations in your lifetime

now there is lots and lots and lots of it to keep most of us going into our old age

but if you run out of ejaculations at 50 it means youve been a dirty naughty naughty naughty boy !!!!

its natures way of limiting the speed of the population by keeping a check on the number of ejaculations you are allowed to have

 raxarsr
Joined: 7/10/2008
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Posted: 12/12/2008 12:00:14 PM
it would be interesting to know if this gentleman has prostrate problems....of perhaps is being treated for kidney stones.......because some medicationns for those conditions greatly decrease the amount of semen.............sometimes to the point that a man who's had a vasectomy has no ejaculate........just another possibility
 Pair O Docs
Joined: 10/20/2008
Msg: 18
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Posted: 12/12/2008 2:30:36 PM
Is is possible he's been taking Cialis or Viagra?? Those things will keep a man erect for a long time without ejaculation.

I'm just curious why this sort of thing would 'freak you women out'. You never question your BOB about it's lack of ability to ejaculate..... and it seems to do the trick for most of ya.....
 jones boy
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 19
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Posted: 12/12/2008 3:01:06 PM
I noticed when i had my vacectory the amount i ejaculated was much less than pre-0p. That was 25 years ago, now as I'm getting older (57) i do notice less fluid ejaculated although the intensity is still wonderful
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