| how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 12/28/2008 4:37:47 PM | Hey guys. Question from a male perspective..I have this guy I like. We had a history once. F or reason I rather not say, we don't chat, but just once I have to have the last hooray! No what I mean.How do I do this? How can I persuade him...Come on you are men and women of many talents let me in on some of your secrets..
It is hard to get him to come over as he don't talk and he has a girlfriend but not serious they have only been dating 2 months. I know it sounds bad, but we just split 2 months ago, so again trying to get the last hooray...What can I do..This one should be interesting.
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| how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 12/28/2008 4:42:59 PM | | Are you playing head games with this man? Is this an ego trip? Did he dump you and you want him back so you can do the same to him? Do you want what you can't have because he's seeing another woman? Or do you really care for him? What do you mean by the "last hooray"? | |
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| how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 12/28/2008 4:46:23 PM | | You do realize that your forum postings show up in your profile, don't you? Good luck getting any man to take you seriously after reading this thread. | |
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| how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 12/28/2008 4:49:28 PM | ^^^^^ She wants one last 'horizontal mambo' because now she can't get it from him that he's seeing someone else.
I voted to not delete this thread because I'd like others to see what you're all about. That's just sad, lady. Why don't you go down to the local adult toy shoppe and get yourself a little sumpin'sumpin', or just find someone else to date/boink? Leave the man alone. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2008 4:52:53 PM | Hello,
What exactly do you mean by "the last hooray"?
What should you do? Let him be. If he is interested in pursuing anything with you he will contact you. If he is not into you - and you are made aware of this because he "ignores" you, I would suggest you put your efforts into looking for someone else. Look for a person who will reciprocate your feelings, not someone who is involved.
Respectfully,
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| how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 12/28/2008 4:56:10 PM |
I voted to not delete this thread because I'd like others to see what you're all about. That's just sad, lady. Why don't you go down to the local adult toy shoppe and get yourself a little sumpin'sumpin', or just find someone else to date/boink? Leave the man alone.
I too voted to not delete for the same reason.
OP...you're just WRONG on so many levels.
You and he BROKE UP. That means it's OVER. DONE. FINISHED. You even went as far to say that he has already moved on...are you so blind that you can't see that all you're doing is asking people to help him CHEAT on his new girlfriend to satisfy YOUR selfishness?!
Reality check...aisle one...STAT! 
And who cares that his new romance is just 2 months old...it's with someone that is NOT you. What does the time frame have to do with anything?! So it's okay to ask the forum to help you and him cheat on his new girlfriend just because it's only been two months?! Get a clue!
How would you feel if you had a new boyfriend and there was someone out there trying to do EXACTLY what you're attempting, and getting your new boyfriend to CHEAT on YOU with an ex? How would YOU feel about that?
Oh but wait...it'd be okay as long as he cheated on you within the first two months, right?
You're unreal... | |
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| how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 12/28/2008 5:01:15 PM | | The best way to make him want you back is to move several thousand miles away and marry another man, have at least six kids and take in another six foster children. Then send him one of those picture Christmas cards with yourself posed in the middle of your big family. He'll be on the next plane, rushing to beg you to give him one more chance. | |
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| how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 12/28/2008 5:02:02 PM | You can't have him at your whim, so you want him. *shrug*
He's moved on and wants nothing to do with you obviously which is driving you nuts. You need to deal with this issue and get your own house in order, and then move on.
F'ing with his life is NOT a mature solution - drop it. | |
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| how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 12/28/2008 5:11:28 PM | Blueeyedreamer, I looked at your profile to see how old you are, thinking you to be about 19, maybe 20. You are 38!?
What you are asking is the epitome of game playing. And you said you're looking for a guy who doesn't play games!?
How else can you describe what you're asking?
Sorry to say but since you are here asking for advice, I think you need to grow up. And I hope you take these peoples' advice and let go of him...
Good luck. | |
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| how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 12/28/2008 5:14:59 PM | | Ummmm, OP you are 38 years old. You can't be serious. You are angry right now, take some time to get over him before you do something you'll regret. It will NOT make you feel better, all you'll accomplish is looking like a fool. You should know this by now. Good grief. | |
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| how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 12/28/2008 5:17:22 PM |
It is hard to get him to come over as he don't talk and he has a girlfriend
^^^^ OMG did I just read that ???? ^^^^ What a world we have now. (Shaking Head) | |
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Posted: 12/28/2008 5:17:22 PM | In the past, my girlfriends who have gone after the "Last Hooray" are trying to get a little revenge by going the extra mile the last time around to let him know what he could have had if only he had come around to her way of thinking. It is just another way of using sex as a weapon to try to sabotage his current relationship and making him sorry. And not necessarily a way of trying to win him back, but usually.
My advice is: move on, grow up a little, and find somebody who actually likes you to have sex with (and vice versa) . I think you'll find life is a lot happier when you are not wasting it on living in the past. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2008 5:20:11 PM | | Oh please please tell me you are not really a 38 year old divorced mother. Please tell me you are a group of teens trying to play in the grown-ups forums. Because this sounds very highschool to me. You can't be serious? | |
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Posted: 12/28/2008 5:22:04 PM | OP, you're 38 years old and still playing junior high school games? just proves my theory once again that many people are emotionally frozen at about 12 or 13.....
grow up and move on. how would you like it if a guy did this to you?
just read your profile. you're 38 years old, divorced with children and still playing jr high school games? good lord, woman, get a clue! | |
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| how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 12/28/2008 5:43:44 PM | Ok, I've got a plan.
First, lose heaps of weight - I don't just mean 5lb, I mean size 2 or something. Then go to a gym or hire a personal trainer. If you train about 2-3 hours a day, you could get a body like Madonna. Wow. And then..look everyone could use some plastic surgery. Your breasts will probably be very small after all that weight loss and exercise. You may want to consider augmentation.
Personally, I would love to get my teeth whitened. Try that, it can't hurt.
Ok, hair, nails, pedicure...new clothes. You'll need new clothes - really sexy ones. And underwear.
Don't forget your mind - what's left of it after you've spent all this time and money on getting the perfect revenge. Enrol in a course. Something that will lift your self-esteem - like medicine or law or ...I don't know..astrophysics or something.
Ok. You're fricken perfect. Go get him, girl! He's going to be devastated when he realises he's been tricked into fvcking you and betraying his new girlfriend. Well, by that stage, he'll probably be married to her and have forgotten your name.
Well, it's a plan... | |
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| how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 12/28/2008 5:51:51 PM | | do nothing. you had your chance and it's over. he is with someone else and i'm sure he is the faithful one. leave well enough alone and work with the memories. if you two are meant to be he will come back to you. | |
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| how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 12/28/2008 5:54:27 PM | | If you love someone, then you want them to be happy, and if they are happy now, with someone else, you want that to continue for as long as possible. So, if you REALLY want him, then you really love him, and that means that you want him to be happy with his girlfriend, forever. So move on. | |
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| how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 12/28/2008 5:59:25 PM |
butI am a sweet,caring, sensitive girl with kinda of old fashion values.
Well I’ll be, who knew revenge was an old fashioned value?! 
I just learned something new today.
F or reason I rather not say, we don't chat,
Wondering if that “reason” has to do with boiling bunnies and/or restraining orders.
I know it sounds bad,
Oh good, now build on that last shred of decency and move on. | |
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| how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 12/28/2008 6:06:57 PM | ^^^^^^Speaking of Bunny Boiling, check out OP's other posts: http://forums.plentyoffish.com/usermessages.aspx?user_Id=1189363
They're all about this guy (her ex). Starts off saying she's writing about a friend of hers - all of a sudden - NOPE! It's her - and how she's cheesed the ex has met an older woman that apparantly treats him like gold (how she knows what's going on behind closed doors though is a bit beyond my powers of discernment...).
OP. Your profile states you work in the health care field. Here's some free advice I normally get to charge folk for. Go and get some health care of your own (ie; mental). Stay on your meds, keep up with your doc. visits, and don't date until you get permission from said doc. | |
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| how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 12/28/2008 6:10:30 PM | | If I would have to persuade someone to be with me then he is not someone I would want to be with anyway. I just have to much self respect and self esteem to beg a man for attention. If he was not interested to begin with then groveling will not work. I don't grovel for any man. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2008 6:11:58 PM | Ya know gang,I play in the forums too and I just came from the other thread on the older lady.
The OP sounded quite young so I perved her profile and saw she's old enough to know better that this crap.
I too hope any prospects read these posts and steer clear of her. | |
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| how to land a guy who ignores you.
Posted: 12/28/2008 6:17:09 PM | You cannot get the man for one last hurray, so let's just assume you are pulling our legs here. I would hate to think that you are serious. This is so wrong in every context of the word.
Perhaps you might want to focus on the positive and not delve into this negativity that you seem comfortable surrounding yourself with.
OP..... Rise above everything thing with dignity and grace. | |
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