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 simplman

Joined: 1/24/2005
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What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/30/2008 9:10:55 PM
I understand that it is different for everyone but i want the girls to answer this honestly! What is it if you scrape away all the lights and cars and seemingly meaningless material things . What would you need to be completely honestly happy.
I mean deeply honestly soul shining happy and content what would it take...either with a SO or without?
 Kelley-1989

Joined: 11/20/2008
Msg: 2
What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/30/2008 9:14:47 PM
A tall, smart, charming, intelligent, educated, athletic, good looking sexy guy near my age with a high income or high income potential. That is all I require. Sorry but you don't qualify.
 lostgirl71

Joined: 8/16/2008
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What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/30/2008 9:20:33 PM
attraction at emotional, intellectual, physical and creative levels.

Someone that holds the same core values

Someone who understands the need to communicate openly freely and honestly

and trust
 simplman

Joined: 1/24/2005
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What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/30/2008 9:22:34 PM
sweet,funny,outgoing,friendly and easy to talk to????? you sure your frinds were talking about you?
 Bellydanza

Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 5
What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/30/2008 9:23:12 PM
An agent who would sell my manuscripts to the highest bidder. And enough money to travel to all the countries I dream about seeing.

Oh and The perfect man for me.
 Kixxie

Joined: 12/4/2008
Msg: 6
What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/30/2008 9:41:01 PM
lol simplman......those were the voices in her head, which are probably the only friends she has!. I've seen her other posts to you. Some people arent happy unless they can make someone else miserable.
 simplman

Joined: 1/24/2005
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What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/30/2008 9:49:12 PM
i suppose its better than being miserable making other people happy
 WackMC

Joined: 4/23/2008
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What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/30/2008 9:53:32 PM
Peanut butter and jelly
Video games
Sci-fi movies with exploding spaceships
A sketchpad to draw cartoons and cute chicks
Cute chicks
Saturdays to sleep in late
A trip overseas every year - Chinawood, Dubai, Giza, Angor Wat
 Kelley-1989

Joined: 11/20/2008
Msg: 9
What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/30/2008 9:54:36 PM
Simplman, I probably need to learn to hold my tongue and not state the obvious.
 Gatineau_Gal

Joined: 11/24/2008
Msg: 10
What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/30/2008 9:58:33 PM
I believe happiness comes form within and not from a person or thing.
 ~LilBitCountry~

Joined: 10/26/2008
Msg: 11
What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/30/2008 9:59:00 PM
After lookin through a few of the forums .. I almost wanna sing out Simpl and Kelley sittin in a tree..K.I.S.S.I.N.G...

To honestly be happy, I need to find someone to put up with my bitchy ass, accept me and everything I believe in. Who has the same morals and beliefs that I do. Someone honest, reliable. Not someone who lies everytime he opens his mouth!!
 Kixxie

Joined: 12/4/2008
Msg: 12
What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/30/2008 10:00:29 PM
First comes love......then comes marriage........then Kelley's beatin Simpl with a baby carriage
 Ms.Extreme

Joined: 7/11/2007
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What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/30/2008 10:03:41 PM
*snarfles down some popcorn and swigs some Guinness at the intermission break*

I swear you guys are like the best top notch entertainers ever!
 raxarsr

Joined: 7/10/2008
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What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/30/2008 10:35:07 PM
after reading kelley 1989 post on this thread and several other threads..........i honestly have to ask..............what on earth does she bring to the bargining table to warrent a guy like she "requires"?......honest.i'm baffled.............and before you snipe me kelley.....i have nooooooooooooooo intrest
 Kelley-1989

Joined: 11/20/2008
Msg: 15
What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/30/2008 10:41:10 PM
Raxarsr, I have looks, youth, and brains. That is what attracts the type of guys I'm interested in.
 oldsoul

Joined: 3/10/2007
Msg: 16
What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/30/2008 10:50:02 PM
Many things make me feel happy. But things don't make you happy. They give you temporary pleasure and they're fun for a moment.
But unless you're at peace with yourself, those things quickly lose their enjoyment.

Same with people. People (your children, your partner, your friends, etc. ) can make you feel happy...but unless you are happy and at peace with yourself, it's like a losing battle, for them and for you.

So what I honestly need to be happy is to find a way to be at peace (and happy) with myself once again...and the rest will follow naturally.

Happy new year (and peace) to all:)



JMO

 red_relaxed

Joined: 7/18/2007
Msg: 17
What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/30/2008 11:20:36 PM
I feel the day I finally realized that happiness is not a state of being, simply a byproduct of life, like other emotions, I was at peace within myself. And happy!
All the best in 2009!
 KISS MY A$$

Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 18
What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/31/2008 12:54:53 AM
Kelly...Looks, youth and brains only take you so far. Then you start talking.

OP. I've learned over the years that most people are just about as happy as they decide to be. Happiness is an inside job. The secret is to decide to be happy right where you are.
 LatentHeat

Joined: 4/22/2008
Msg: 19
What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/31/2008 3:08:29 AM
What is it if you scrape away all the lights and cars and seemingly meaningless material things .

So...are you asking what it would take for women to be happy in a post-apocalyptic world,(or post-disaster) where people have lost creature comforts and conveniences? We really have run out of topics for the forums, haven't we?
See Maslow's hierarchy of needs-



I am an azz-I know
 Mafiachixrule

Joined: 5/4/2007
Msg: 20
What do you honestly need to be happy
Posted: 12/31/2008 3:57:23 AM
How about the young~ not-so-pretty-things to stop acting like vicious, pre-gold digging oxygen/bandwidth whore bags? Hmm. Brilliant suggestion .... no?

Let's have a vote, ladies. The "real" women. Not little girls that live in fantasia.

OP~ I need a fast internet connection, a stellar laptop and a bit of patience. How about you? Hahahaha. It is, what it is. Pure subjective banter on the internet. Nexxt.
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