| | Why are all the crazy ones always the best lovers?Page 1 of 4 (1, 2, 3, 4) | | Tonight, my sister and I had been talking about which of our past sexual partners was the best in the sack. We discovered that if we were to create a list starting ranking our ex's mental stability starting from normal/sane/boring to moderately stable and to finally batshit insane, the list would mirror our best sexual partners list. Now all of this has led me to ask, why are all the crazy ones the best lovers? | |
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| Why are all the crazy ones always the best lovers?
Posted: 12/31/2008 1:11:39 AM | | Dude I totally agree with you on this one. The crazier the girl the better she is in bed. I have been preaching this for years but people still think I'm crazy when I am attracted to psycho girls. But hey, I guess being crazy isn't all that bad... | |
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| Why are all the crazy ones always the best lovers?
Posted: 12/31/2008 1:24:06 AM | ^^^^ I have atleast 6 ppl at a time dancing around in my head ... 1 dont cause she is in a strait jacket ...
OP ... Are you trying to say that if we wanna have great s*x we should find that craziest person we can ... That may not be too self-peutic
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Well, hum, wait a sec, I have to say that the craziest man I ever knew could make a rush go threw me just talking to me ...
This is kinda a scary thought ... ...
AnglFLyn
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| Why are all the crazy ones always the best lovers?
Posted: 12/31/2008 2:01:04 AM | I have also noticed this.
I think it is because the "crazy" or "clingers" get so into you while you are doing the deed. That's is what makes it so good.
The problem is usually that they crowd you the rest of the time (ie: when you are not having sex)
Give you no space, get insanely jealous over anything.
Make sense? | |
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Posted: 12/31/2008 7:29:36 AM | I think Jack has something there...and I never thought about it..I saw a guy that was terribly into me, and the sex was the best,but outside the bedroom OMG get a life!!!He was an awesome lover but who needs the cling-ons?????Happy New Year yall!!! | |
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| Why are all the crazy ones always the best lovers?
Posted: 12/31/2008 7:49:25 AM | The guy that could get me going just talking to me had a great sense of humor and he was crazy when he would joke about life and stuff ... He could make me laugh with one sentence ...
Now for the cling-ons ? ... I cant say that they are better at s*x ... I get too turned off outside of the bedroom to get turned on in the bedroom ....
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| Why are all the crazy ones always the best lovers?
Posted: 12/31/2008 7:53:53 AM | | Because they have the most hostility, and anger makes for good sex drive! I don't want to be angry all the time though, so weighing the options...lackluster sex but a sane life out of the bedroom, or wild sex and the rest of our lives absolutely insane... | |
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| Why are all the crazy ones always the best lovers?
Posted: 12/31/2008 7:56:00 AM | | Yeah, there are exceptions to that rule. Chatted with someone here who was extremely violatile, and it led to no sex (or even talk of romance) whatsoever. She merely wanted to "talk shop". | |
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Posted: 12/31/2008 7:59:42 AM | Total focus and intensity right then right there......and milking the moment of every inch of pleasure. Unfortunately many times that is their one and only talent....and what a shame too  . Some of the good rational and analyticals could stand a little of that abandon  , wonderful for the circulation. | |
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Posted: 12/31/2008 8:58:51 AM | ya know this really sucks........it's been my experience too the the phyco ****es are the best when it comes to sex but they drive you insane outside of sex. WTF!!! It sure would be nice to find a sane women who knows what to do in the bedroom too.
Happy New Year!!!! | |
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| Why are all the crazy ones always the best lovers?
Posted: 12/31/2008 8:59:50 AM | | well it might be that sane people take life and sex too seriously ..... or it might be that you mesh better with the nut cases cause you are ...well ...birds of a feather ....insanity is fun in the sack but a well rounded person can be a nut case in the sack and a sane person in the rea world | |
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Posted: 12/31/2008 9:08:00 AM | Um yeah and I gotta disagree. My 2 craziest have also been the 2 worst in bed...by far!!!!! Sadly, I married one of the idiots. *sigh* Glad that's beyond me.
No, my best in bed have not been crazy at all. Just wild and fun and imaginative in bed and love to have great sex! :)
Kaylie...skilled at finding exceptions to the rule! | |
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Posted: 12/31/2008 10:06:00 AM | Wow, something to think about here.
One was definitely crazy... damn brings back hot and steamy memories just thinking about him... did I say wet panties?
One was totally sane outside the bedroom... almost too sane... but in the bedroom, it was like you turned the switch and a new guy showed up... damn fine menories there too...
Oh shite... I guess I'm going to need to find a new guy if this keeps up... | |
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| Why are all the crazy ones always the best lovers?
Posted: 12/31/2008 10:19:17 AM |
Now all of this has led me to ask, why are all the crazy ones the best lovers?
*woot*
Now that the secrets out.. I have to agree...Men who are "tapped" coincidentally happen to be among the best lovers .. I think it's because they tend to have a uniquely wild abandon, uninhibited nature (without drugs or alcohol) ... and perhaps
most noteably...they are unpredictable....no shame, no pretense just chaos..
I dated a man who was a charming/ witty/ sharp/intelligent.. but also was a paranoid/schizophrenic, passive/aggressive complete with the occasional unpredictable psychotic episode .. yeah, never a dull moment
So, the obvious flipside is that out of bed these men are impossible to deal with long term... and the drama is too often just not worth the sexual skills they bring | |
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Posted: 12/31/2008 11:25:10 AM | One of my friends told me the other day that the nuttier, the sluttier...and I guess that may apply for women. My token wack job guys were not very good lovers. Give me a sane, courteous, attentive lover anytime. Are there any left?  | |
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| Why are all the crazy ones always the best lovers?
Posted: 1/1/2009 3:03:46 AM | We have to make up for the crazy somehow.
I kid, I kid...or do I? Nevermind, the voices in my head keep distracting me.
Maybe the crazy ones are more open to sexual experimentation. (yes, I speak from personal experience) I know I've always been more open minded about it. I'm not sure how much my bipolar brain has to do with that, but I suppose it's possible it might, a little.
If your brain is used to occasional "crazy" in your every day life, I suppose it's no surprise that it can be fun to add a little of that to the bedroom as well sometimes.
But sometimes, folks with severe mental disorders, also take more risks and that includes sexually. That's not always a good thing, because that can lead to STDs, sexual abuse, rape, etc. Being "wild" in bed, is not always a good path to follow. It can have serious consequences, especially for women if things turn ugly and they become victims of sexual violence.
I enjoy that I can get "wild" in bed sometimes, but everything needs to have safe boundaries and certain limits.
All I can say is, if she's wild in bed, but a tolerable level of cookoo, then enjoy it. But if you wake up and she's boiling bunnies on your stove, then the crazy is too deep and you need to run for it and never look back. There are degrees of crazy, after all. Not all of us are the same. Some of us, can be quite fun, and even sane enough to date on a regular basis.
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