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 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 1
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On here when ever a "dirty talk" question comes
up it is answered with...."**** me harder, thats
feels good on my **** or****, etc .

Thats good because you are vocalising your thoughts and
feelings, and it helps to let you go, excites you and your
partner.

I feel erotic talk goes a bit deeper into the mind...when
two people click so well, and are so at ease, secure in their
sexuality...

That they can share fantasies, simulate them on each other...

Even though they would have only a one on one relation and
not share themselves with others....

Like simulating Dp for her, using a dildo and yourself...whispering
to her....while doing her, all the things both men are doing
to her...and she is doing to them..

Or creating an imaginary person...making it your slave..whispering
to each other all the things the slave is doing to the both
of you, while you do each other.

To me, that is the world of erotic talk...exploring each
others mind.

Have you ever been at ease enough with someone to go there?
 Vixen524
Joined: 10/1/2008
Msg: 2
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Posted: 1/1/2009 5:24:36 AM
Dirty talk isn't much of a turn on for most and is usually done in the heat of the moment.

Erotic talk stimulates not only the body but the mind as well which in my opinion is a big turn on.
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
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Posted: 1/1/2009 6:34:55 AM
There has to be a level of trust with a partner to be at ease with including dirty/erotic talk into your routine - mostly due to the fact that you have to look them in the eye after! I mean you want to feel comfortable 'after' as well!
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 4
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Posted: 1/1/2009 6:43:15 AM
me and my wife love dirty talk ...she loves it when call her my little fvck bvtch while we are having sex ...and she can talk the dirt with anybody ...but we have no problem separating the bedroom talk from the living room talk ...I know she is a lady every where except the bedroom and I would have it no other way ...and she knows how i feel she is proud to be my whore in the bed ...but knows I would never think of her as anything but a lady in another setting
 sweet lady Lori
Joined: 3/19/2008
Msg: 5
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Posted: 1/1/2009 7:12:22 AM
There is a fine line between dirty talk and erotic talk...
...some of us just know when, and how to switch
 blonde chickie
Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 6
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Posted: 1/1/2009 9:15:13 AM
I think dirty talk is very sexy. When I get intimate with a guy, and we get into. It's so ****ing hot !!
 KTDID78
Joined: 1/27/2007
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Posted: 1/3/2009 7:49:42 PM

Erotic has a little more thought put into it. Plus, more colors on the palette. (red, green, yellow, blue)

Dirty talk is just one color : sh*t brown.


Couldn't have said this better if I tried!
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 1/3/2009 7:58:55 PM

Like simulating Dp for her, using a dildo and yourself...whispering
to her....while doing her, all the things both men are doing
to her...and she is doing to them..

Or creating an imaginary person...making it your slave..whispering
to each other all the things the slave is doing to the both
of you, while you do each other.


That worked fine until the one guy always made it about him... and he did it all the time. Then it got boring and I found it intruded on my thought process... was more distracting than arousing.


Erotic has a little more thought put into it. Plus, more colors on the palette. (red, green, yellow, blue)

Dirty talk is just one color : sh*t brown.


Hadn't really thought about it like that.. but yeah... I think that works for me too.
 Kindredspirit07
Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 1/3/2009 8:01:30 PM
What matters is what turns you on and works for your partner. If they want you to talk dirty, do it. If they prefer erotic then switch it up a little. Personally, I like erotic talk but that's just my preference. If he speaks a different language, even better. Erotic and dirty in a native tongue does the trick. Oooooooh lala!
 MelloDLyn
Joined: 10/25/2004
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Posted: 1/3/2009 9:18:17 PM
I like both! When I am comfortable with my boyfriend I love when we both talk like this. It makes it more intense!
 tarotdream
Joined: 10/12/2008
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Posted: 1/3/2009 11:46:58 PM
1) They are not separate but rather different positions on a sliding scale.

2) Talking dirty too often takes a bad rap, IMHO. Like erotic talk, a lot of the excitement is in the delivery, the command and creativity of the language.

3) Dirty talk, I believe, has vivid colors, not just brown, but more slashing more urgent, dramatic than erotic talk, more the effect of flinging a bucket of paint against the wall rather than carefully detailing a poetic air. The shock of the color slamming against the wall is part of the stimulus.

4) For some, dirty talk is an effective method of loosening up.

5) Erotic talk is a picnic with a little bit of every treat. Dirty talk is a food fight where you eat what hits you and then throw the rest back.


Sad-Bad News: Researchers, measuring sexual stimulation by blood flow into the pelvis, discovered that no matter how raunchy, nasty, degrading, depraved, disgusting it is, pornography always sexually stimulates us. Sigh
 nickolysseus
Joined: 5/25/2008
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Posted: 1/4/2009 12:19:29 AM
Re the Opost

IMO, "dirty talk" is the "puritanical" alter lingo for "erotic talk".
 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 13
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Posted: 1/5/2009 7:30:34 AM
Well no1bby...who said it was all for me...those were just two examples...the dp was her pleasure...the slave for both....with an imagination..the possibilties are endless...

Baggage is not a pretty thing...leave it at the door..
 Incuubus2113
Joined: 12/8/2008
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Posted: 1/5/2009 7:45:08 AM
I like em both, personally.

Dirty talk is much better, in my opinion, for when having sex. I am assuming erotic talk is kind of the same thing, perhaps, but with less "naughty" words and more story surrounding it perhaps?
 angelcream
Joined: 11/30/2008
Msg: 15
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Posted: 1/5/2009 8:17:15 AM
Myself i like the erotic first to get me all hot and bothered,and the dirty talk during to finish taking me over the edge lol
 TeresaP1020
Joined: 6/30/2008
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Posted: 1/5/2009 8:29:20 AM
Dirty talk is just that and I agree with ktdid78. However, erotic talk takes a lot of thought and usually occurs before anything happens physically. It engages the mind as well as the body.
 NavyDave
Joined: 7/7/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 1/5/2009 10:27:05 AM
I agree when it comes to talking erotic it comes from passion and what you see or how you feel about whom you are talking with,,anyone can talk dirty, but it takes more to talk erotic and make the other person feel what your saying deep down and you feel them. I know the mind is deep and you can do wonders as you talk it,,,,,,
 WhiteTigress0107
Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 18
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Posted: 1/5/2009 11:22:31 AM
Yes, the more at ease you are with someone the more comfortable it is to share those fantasies and to help eachother get off. The sharing of fantasies and turning eachother on, on the deep inner level, is more of a turn on than just the verbalizing of how you feel.

JMO

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 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 19
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Posted: 1/5/2009 12:54:45 PM
Well, angel cream I like your way of thinking...

Works for me....
 crazy train64
Joined: 3/22/2008
Msg: 20
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Posted: 1/5/2009 1:17:11 PM
eroctic talk is the most stimulating, dirty talk is something you get over the phone. i am all for eroctic talk when we are in the bedroom. it send shivers through out my body!
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