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 pharmacogirl

Joined: 8/23/2008
Msg: 1
Is there soemthing about me that says I am only looking for sex?????
Posted: 1/4/2009 3:32:38 PM
Please folks! I have been on a few dates from this site and another well known site (a paid one) and I don't feel that my profile or my pics scream, "I want to have sex with you right away and please do stick your hand down myshirt in Sbux!"

Am I doing soemthing wrong? I am accomplished educated, and well spoken. I don't dress "hootchy." What is it?

Will you all look at my profile and tell me if there is some egregious error I am making ? Or is everyone else having the same experience?

I am about ready to give up, grow old and be one of those ladies that lives alone with a million cats!

 zinza

Joined: 5/30/2004
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Is there soemthing about me that says I am only looking for sex?????
Posted: 1/4/2009 3:36:39 PM
I don't see anything on your profile that would suggest that. Maybe your profile pic looks provocative to some of these weirdos.
 mhinon

Joined: 8/23/2008
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Posted: 1/4/2009 3:41:59 PM
Neither your photos or essays suggest you are on the hunt. Being a Canadian, I don't know the names of all American cities, however, the one you list as your hometown might stir some imaginations.
 dont need one

Joined: 9/15/2008
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Posted: 1/4/2009 3:42:55 PM
looked at ur profile ( no, Im not gay!).. but ur post got me curious!!

with all the criteria u have I can't believe anyone would get a message to u let alone the sex predators......... and the line u used

it's ok if you eat meat...jsut don't ask me to
pretty much says it all ........

then again maybe its ur hometown of "CUMMING" which gives the wrong impression........ sounds like ur pretty constant there

and in case no one got this... was done in humour........ not trying to offend lol

cheers from down under from one who likes meat!!!!

edit: awwww darn it someone beat me to the hometown pun.... hit the nail on the head tho that post proved it.. must be a man thing
 mhinon

Joined: 8/23/2008
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Is there soemthing about me that says I am only looking for sex?????
Posted: 1/4/2009 3:45:46 PM
We were only a minute apart, sorry!
 dont need one

Joined: 9/15/2008
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Posted: 1/4/2009 3:47:34 PM

We were only a minute apart, sorry!


hmmm a bit preamature on ur part then mhinon , just couldnt wait huh

you dont reside in cumming too by chance do u???
 mhinon

Joined: 8/23/2008
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Posted: 1/4/2009 3:50:11 PM
Don't want to hijack, Wants. Nice come back though, but I meant a minute apart in posting time (minute and five seconds according to the time stamp). No, I don't reside there ha ha, but lotsa white around here, couple feet deep!
 pinlynch10

Joined: 12/16/2008
Msg: 8
Is there soemthing about me that says I am only looking for sex?????
Posted: 1/4/2009 3:52:30 PM
Helo there. Usually threads like these are posted on Profile Reviews, but, I'm game. After reading your profile, I'd say you and I have the same problem: lots of viewers, but not many real interested people.

You have no issues from what I can tell.

Danz
 jennyrose41

Joined: 1/5/2008
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Posted: 1/4/2009 3:54:53 PM
Cumming is about 5 miles north of me. I have lived here 2 1/2 years and I still giggle when I see the freeway signs....

But seriously, OP: Just stick to what you want to do and meet in a public place. And don't fall for the "come sit in my car and talk" request. I promise you that all the guys are not as you described. My friend is on the same kind of roll as you are--they seem to cycle through!

Good luck!

Jennyrose
 Incuubus2113

Joined: 12/8/2008
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Posted: 1/4/2009 3:59:25 PM
I didn't read anything that suggests that that is what you're looking for.

Perhaps a post script, "If you're a freak who's looking to get to first base before your Caramel Machiato gets here, then keep moving!"

I think that should do it.
 Write Time

Joined: 12/29/2008
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Posted: 1/4/2009 4:10:49 PM
No red flags. You come right out and say exactly what you're *not* looking for, and there's certainly nothing suggestive about your photos. I'd say you've just had some bad luck with ... well, bottom feeders is probably a good term!

Hang in there -- you'll find someone who's right for you!
 LonestarStar

Joined: 12/14/2008
Msg: 12
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Posted: 1/4/2009 4:11:14 PM
You have a vagina.
With a little imagination, men can turn anything into anything.
 superberb1972

Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 13
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Posted: 1/4/2009 4:15:41 PM

You have a vagina.
With a little imagination, men can turn anything into anything.


 SandyB1957

Joined: 7/22/2007
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Posted: 1/4/2009 4:25:16 PM
I am moving to that area this year Maybe in Duluth Your profile is fine Believe me it isnt anything to do with you I have come across a few men on here that the first thing they want to chat about is sex. So its nothing to do with you Its just that some men have no manners theses days Good luck to you and keep smiling
 southernlady12

Joined: 12/29/2008
Msg: 15
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Posted: 1/4/2009 4:29:48 PM
I see nothing wrong with your profile. I am having same problems. I guess men just think the way they think. I was happy to read your comments on the bottom of your page. Don't give up..even though I feel like it. There is someone out there for you. Hold to your standards..good going.
 pharmacogirl

Joined: 8/23/2008
Msg: 16
Is there soemthing about me that says I am only looking for sex?????
Posted: 1/4/2009 4:42:11 PM
Thank you everyone so far for the responses!

When I moved (relocated because of job) here and found out the name of my hometown, my heart sank! I knew my kids would have a feild day with it! And right down the road there is a huge water tower that says "Seimens" on it....When my son was 14 he used to crack up each time we drove past it.
 Roving_Adventurer

Joined: 8/28/2007
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Posted: 1/4/2009 4:42:18 PM
try taking this line out: What do I look for in a man? Must have a sense of humor, open mind and ultimately, the same level of passion as me!
 Incuubus2113

Joined: 12/8/2008
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Posted: 1/4/2009 4:45:05 PM

try taking this line out: What do I look for in a man? Must have a sense of humor, open mind and ultimately, the same level of passion as me!


She's looking for a long term relationship, though. It's not a long term sexless relationship, is it?
 pharmacogirl

Joined: 8/23/2008
Msg: 19
Is there soemthing about me that says I am only looking for sex?????
Posted: 1/4/2009 4:45:06 PM
You're right! I will edit that line. Thank you!
 sdbysassygal

Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 20
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Posted: 1/4/2009 4:46:43 PM
OP I'm sorry to tell you...it's because you aren't hideous. I gave up on trying to find a decent man here... if you aren't hideous? You're not much more than a blow-up doll to most men.. Please don't freak out..I said MOST....
 notwow

Joined: 6/9/2008
Msg: 21
Is there soemthing about me that says I am only looking for sex?????
Posted: 1/4/2009 5:25:46 PM
OP, your an attractive lady, and as someone else said, you have a vagina, hence men get thoughts.

That does not excuse them being pigs at all! That is just rude and crude, and I have had many women complain to me how prevalent it is.

I can't believe that a man at our age would still act like in high school. I have no idea what they think they are getting, because I know the vast majority of women can't stand that approach.

That being said, I AM surprised how many women I have met bring up sexuality up very early in the conversation. Me, I go with the flow, and either talk about it or not. I am still surprised about the one who told me within 1/2 hour of meeting about her favorite vibrator and why it was her favorite!

Go figure! I didn't really need to know that so soon!!!!
 Leeanne

Joined: 10/14/2005
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Posted: 1/4/2009 5:48:31 PM
Come on - it's the off the shoulder strap in your pic!! Way too sexy!!
Hey men just have to look at an attractive lady and boing!!!!
Don't worry 'decent' men are on here - I found one!!
 MsMicki

Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 1/4/2009 6:11:47 PM
I had the same thought as Leeanne!!
It's that off the shoulder strap....

Don't give up......there are good ones out there!
 flcntrygirl80

Joined: 4/22/2008
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Posted: 1/4/2009 6:15:48 PM
OP, I get the same thing and I KNOW my profile and pics aren't screaming that I just want to get laid. When you figure it out, please please please let me know.... lol
 MY OH MY

Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 25
Is there soemthing about me that says I am only looking for sex?????
Posted: 1/4/2009 6:19:54 PM
I am glad to say that Blue Ball is close to Intercourse, PA. We don't have a Cumming in PA. We do have a Bird in Hand though. Yeah, let them take care of their birds themselves. I have been to Hellem, but like Bethlehem a bit better and they are also neighbors. Town names can be such fun.

You are new on here, it will calm down.

Get a profile review if you haven't already.

Use the block function if they are out of line.

Have fun
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