| Why does this Happen because I prefer Asian men?
Posted: 1/6/2009 12:24:55 AM | NonAsian men will instant message me or contact me. I will give good guys a chance to get to know me regardless of ethnicity or religion... Im not a racist I just prefer Asian men. When I tell NonAsian guys I am into Asian men as a preference they always resort to racist and belitting insults towards Asians.
Right away they start talking about Penis size and eatting domesticated animals.
Firstly I don't think Penis size matters. For me it is the size of a person's heart that counts. If a man has a big heart he is sure to please you in more ways than just sexually.
Why are these NonAsian men alledgedly heterosexual men so worried about what is in another guys pants? | |
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| Why does this Happen because I prefer Asian men?
Posted: 1/6/2009 12:37:18 AM |
Why are these NonAsian men alledgedly heterosexual men so worried about what is in another guys pants?
Because they want you and can't have you, and in their small minds they think by putting others down they elevate themselves.
Best wishes
OFMM | |
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| Why does this Happen because I prefer Asian men?
Posted: 1/6/2009 12:57:35 AM | A lot has to do with the stereotypes of Asian men portrayed in the media.
Other than that, the world is full of racist and ignorant individuals.
Ignore those losers. So what if you have a preference for Asian men? I have a preference for taller men, he has a preference for blond women, she has a preference for shorter guys.
Whomever is making racist and bigoted remarks, because of your choice for Asian men, should not be allowed to even speak to you. You are a woman of intelligence and integrity, obviously what these losers are lacking.
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| Why does this Happen because I prefer Asian men?
Posted: 1/6/2009 2:51:42 AM | Non-Asian men approach you for the very same reason you let some of them actually get to know you: there's a small chance they might win your affections. Why do guys that you turn down begin making fun of the guys you're interested in? Because you're not interested in them and they take it personally. It has little to do with your interest in Asian men and more to do with you not being interested in them and they want something they can't have.
It's an ego thing. It's a challenge, I suppose. It's the reaction of sore losers. | |
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| Why does this Happen because I prefer Asian men?
Posted: 1/6/2009 3:07:28 AM | It's a defense mechanism.
Guys always put up walls like this. "Oh, she doesn't like me. She prefers asian dudes?"
Then they try to think of reasons to not just put asian men down, but to try and turn you off to them. And then you tell them about this thing you have called a heart, and they freak out. | |
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| Why does this Happen because I prefer Asian men?
Posted: 1/6/2009 3:54:37 AM | | Case closed . You never have to tell a person who you like. All you nee to tell a person you are about to dump is the information they need to hear. At the same time I would hope your preference for Asian men would mean that you are careful not to send the wrong signal to non Asian men . No sense in leading a guy on if you have no desire to commit. | |
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| Why does this Happen because I prefer Asian men?
Posted: 1/6/2009 7:10:30 AM | | Well, "don't tell them" could be modified to "don't blow your horn about it all day." Many of us have so-called preferences about what kind of people we would like to date. But if who we are dating does not possess this special thing or quality, then their is little sense rubbing their noses in it by bringing it up. | |
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| Why does this Happen because I prefer Asian men?
Posted: 1/6/2009 7:18:26 AM | OP:
I think you're confusing 2 totally seperate issues.
Im not a racist I just prefer Asian men. Weeeeeeeeell, If it's to the exclusion of any other possibilities... then yes you are, a bit.
When I tell NonAsian guys I am into Asian men as a preference they always resort to racist and belitting insults towards Asians. For some reason, there are a lot of people who will put (insert whatever discirimintory term here) people down in order to make themselves look better. Happens in both genders, in many different situations. I believe the subconcious thought is that if they look bad, then the only other choice, them, will look good. Silly, isn't it?
Why are these NonAsian men alledgedly heterosexual men so worried about what is in another guys pants?
See above! Another way of cutting someone down. In thier mind, size = prowess = value to the female of the speicies. So if thier's is bigger, they are of more value. It's insane, but it's the way a lot of guys have been brought up. | |
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| Why does this Happen because I prefer Asian men?
Posted: 1/6/2009 9:17:03 AM |
No sense in leading a guy on if you have no desire to commit.
Yeah, that's the part of OP's post that is confusing the heck out of me. She prefers Asians. Yet, since she isn't a racist, she will entertain the thought of dating non-Asians. When it doesn't work out for whatever reason, she cites the fact it's because she prefers Asians? HUH?! WTH?
I mean, OP has her preference stated on her profile. Why date non-Asians, when they aren't your preference? Or, why give the reason of it not working out to a non-Asian man that you agreed to go out with knowing he wasn't Asian, then telling him your preference for Asians after the fact?
As far as why those guys say the things they do when you burst their respective bubbles, OP....there has been plenty of good reasons offered already. One more thought though, is they might feel a little played or deceived by you not being upfront with your preference in the beginning. Doesn't excuse what they say, but may explain why they say it. Just a thought.
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| Why does this Happen because I prefer Asian men?
Posted: 1/6/2009 10:05:39 AM | | The OP's preference is no different than a guy preferring to date blond women or thin women. She's not a racist. The reason why she's getting these kind of responses is because these guys have small egos so they put up a defense mechanism which is quite childish. | |
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| Why does this Happen because I prefer Asian men?
Posted: 1/6/2009 10:11:31 AM |
The OP's preference is no different than a guy preferring to date blond women or thin women.
Right! So, I am imagining a guy who prefers thin blondes posting a thread about why women he goes out with who are heavy brunettes, always getting snippy when he tells them after the date, "sorry, I prefer thin women with blonde hair."
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| Why does this Happen because I prefer Asian men?
Posted: 1/6/2009 10:30:41 AM | Hmm, comprehension then? Didn't see anywhere where it was to exclusion in the OP (in fact she stated she still talks to others), so it wouldn't apply, now would it? (Yeesh!) Just a warning/eye opener. 
So, racism (and ultimately it's misunderstood definitions) being the touchy subject, we'll NOT address it futher here (limited post forum), agreed?
The OP is really having issues with how certain people react violently to something she states. Ultimately, the block button is about all anyone can do here. It's just sad that people feel the need to immeciately jump all over others in "compitition" when they feel they are "loosing". | |
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| Why does this Happen because I prefer Asian men?
Posted: 1/6/2009 12:04:38 PM | Choosing to date a certain ethnicity, or not, has NOTHING to do with racism. Racism is the belief that some race is superior to the rest. If you find one race more attractive than another, that does NOT imply that you are racist. You have a right to associate with, hang out or date whoever strikes your fancy. As long as you don't condemn or hate on non-asian races, you aren't being racist.
The guys calling you racist are just immature and feeling rejected, so they want to get back at you and hurt you.
Regarding pen0r size, I was under the impression that everyone has a one-incher like mine? Is that not true? I swear my ex said it was ok, and it's what is on the inside that counts, but she broke up with me right after  | |
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