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Hosting a Event? Things you need to Know
Posted: 7/30/2005 6:32:32 PM


Who Can Put An Event On?



POF itself does not host events, but You, the members of POF can host an event for other POF members - read on.

Rules, Tips and Suggestions


For additional Help, Request and/or Inquiries - Contact your Event Moderator HERE


Before Hosting an Event, be sure to familiarize yourself with the following rules, as failure to comply with the Event Hosting policies could result in the deletion of your Event, and if you continually attempt to post Events that do not meet the policies, your POF account could also be removed. If you have any questions that are not answered here,
Please Contact the

Event Moderator
Click The Above Link

or the owner
ADMIN



POF Event Particulars



  • Events are open to ALL POF members and their guests, no targeting of any one specific group of people. Where the above rule has some flexibility is only in age range. A suggested "Age Range" can be denoted if you wish in the appropriate provided box in the Event thread. This does not mean however, that you can disallow any members who do not fall into that age range


  • All Events are to be posted by the Host. Any listed co-Host(s) must be current forum privilege holding members.


  • Members of POF, who use the Events to further, or promote their own personal business or a relative's/friend's/business for profit in any way shape or form, will be removed from the forums or the site completely as this is SPAM. See the Acceptable Use & Posting Rules with respect to SPAM


  • Event sign-up is NOT mandatory, hence POF members and/or their guests, shall not be penalized in any manner for non sign-up. Any POF members breaking this rule shall have their forum rights removed.


  • You cannot divide the events of one evening into seperate Event Posts. This is excessive and unnecessary. Users that do so deliberately to occupy the inbox space will have their events deleted.


  • You cannot advertise a party if you are a "professional" PARTY/EVENT organizer Hosting the Event. "Professional" does not mean you must have some formal accreditation.

    We simply want members who Host Events to be committed to making users have a good time.


  • Events from other sites or venues are not allowed to be promoted here. POF is not to be treated as "free" advertising space for other venues to profit by. If you're Hosting a bonafide POF Event as per the rules laid out here - then of course it's fine.


  • All Events will be exclusive to POF and not advertised on any other competitive dating sites.


  • Do not post Events at a venue that has been previously removed, or for a member that has lost their forum rights as this will result in you losing your account as well.


  • Only TWO Events PER month - Period - where you are the Host.


  • NO 50/50 Draws, raffles, or any money collecting schemes are to be conducted by any POF member or venue staff whereby a Host/co-Host or any POF individual stands to profit in any way shape or form.


  • As an extension to the no profit by any POF member policy, this includes any scheme such as bracelets, necklaces, or any sort of trinket that there is going to be a charge for. If the venue is going to give it away for free - fine.

    If it's not free - then it's not permissible. There should not be any monetary conditions imposed on any members whereby a small charge is levied in exchange for some sort of break on anything. Your patronage should be sufficient to bargain for discounts - period. This also applies to prizes given out by the Venue, they cannot charge towards the cost of those prizes nor ask for "donations". (Rule Clarification Sept 2008)


  • Normal Cover Charges by the Venue are covered under Exceptions further down


  • NO CHARITY EVENTS ALLOWED - PERIOD - Although there are many worthy causes - legalities prevent this site’s legal name, from being associated with such Events. Consequently no events advertising any charity drives will be permitted to be posted or discussed in the forums.


  • You cannot advertise a Events that are "adult" in nature. Example: swinger parties, nudie bars, fetish parties, etc.


  • You cannot advertise for an Event in which there are minimum requirements by the venue (for example: 300 guests needed to be able to Host the Event at that venue) We do not want Hosts putting up any upfront funds and then incurring losses.


  • No private Events are permitted - in other words, if you cannot hold it open to all members without disclosing the location publicly, then don't hold it at all. If you want to hold a private Event, do so via email. We don't want to continually hear of people being told the Event is full and not being given the venue location simply because they were thought not to "fit in".


IMPORTANT



  • POF is not a free advertisement forum for venues that cannot pay for their own advertisements elsewhere. Hence, Do not simply post an FYI to an external Event such as; a bar that has a band playing or a night club with details of admission.


  • You must set up the Event as per the full rules in this thread, if not, it will be deleted as spam along with yourself.


  • Post any non Event related ads and you will be banned - period. Repeat offenders will not be notified.


  • Contact your Event Moderator for any exclusions - DO NOT post first, and then contact your Event Moderator


  • Spam: Posts that include website URLs advertising your business(or that of a friend's), fall under the definition of "Spam". This includes "shill" posts. See the Acceptable Use & Posting Rules with respect to SPAM



FEES - EXCEPTIONS TO THE RULES



  • Small cover charges to a venue are acceptable if they are charged by the venue as a normal course of operations.


  • Any venue with a cover charge of $7 or more MUST BE pre-approved by Event Moderator prior to posting. In London UK, and New York this limit is $15.00


  • If approved by Plentyoffish , a fee can be charged if it is charged ONLY to cover certain expenses


  • Contact your Event Moderator for any exclusions - DO NOT post first, and then contact your Event Moderator


  • While these rules cover most common situations, they cannot anticipate everything. Consequently we reserve the right to take any actions we deem appropriate to ensure Events are carried out in good faith and in the spirit of the intent in which they were written. They are written in the broadest possible terms with enough examples that what cannot be posted is fairly obvious and why.


THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND



As some local areas are limited in venues and membership, pick a date unique to your Event if there is already an Event scheduled in that area, so members don't have to choose between Events and friends.

Exceptions will be made for special holiday seasons on a case by case examination under Event Moderator approval.

For larger metropolitan areas this shouldn't apply, however be reasonable and try not to make it a competition, for if this is abused, expect one of the Events to be pulled or asked to have it moved.

This rule doesn't apply if the Events are dramatically different, e.g. One is a bonfire/camping and the other is a nightclub, but again – be reasonable, and talk to the other Host

Do Not SPAM Your Event All Over The Forums



HOW TO CREATE AND POST an Event



Interest Thread (Optional)

If you are unsure of the possible success and interest of your Event idea, simply post an interest type thread with a valid subject line and see how the members react to it. If you receive a good reception to your idea, move on to creating the actual Event thread.

You may use the thread survey function to poll users for Event ideas or feedback - this is the only usage permitted for the thread polling/survey feature.

Actual Event Thread

Create your "Event Thread" in your local forum's (your Province/State) Singles Events sub forum, paying attention to the following:

  • The Subject Line

    City, Date, Venue Name, and any small description you wish

    e.g. Toronto - July 1st 2007 8:00pm - The Unicorn Pub – POF Dart Tournament


  • Body of the Event Thread Must Include:

    WHAT: A brief description on what the plans for the evening are
    WHERE: Venue name and address
    WHEN: Date/Time
    WHO: Hosts/Co Hosts if available.


Provide as specific as possible, any directions to the venue as not all will know where it may be, especially for larger urban centers, lodging or any other special considerations.

The body of the thread (not the subject line) can be written in different font sizes, colours, bolding and underlining. It may also include any images of the venue or map diagrams.

Your First Event Thread – New to Hosting
  • Your thread will simply appear in your local forum awaiting approval.

  • Please contact the Event Moderator or Admin for approval.

  • If approved, your Event thread will be moved to (your Province/State) Singles Events sub forum.

  • Don’t forget to Include the thread URL of the Event in your note to the Event Moderator

  • The thread URL appear in the address bar of your browser when you view the Event thread.


You Are a Repeat Host
  • As you post more Events, you will not need to contact the Event Moderator, as when you create your Event thread in (your Province/State) Singles Events sub forum, it will be automatically approved.

  • Be aware though, that your Events will still be under scrutiny, so ensure you follow the rules – if you have any questions as to the validity of your Event, contact the Event Moderator for approval.


When The Thread Has Been Moved to the Event Sub Forum

  • A "Sign-Up" button will appear for users to simply click on that will add their intent to join the Event.,

  • A Mass Email link also appear. Use this when your Event gets closer to the date. An email will be sent to all the member in the surrounding area of the postal/zip code you enter in your thread.


  • As the Host of the Event you will have the capability to edit the main post in case the venue changes or other important details need to be communicated.


  • Entry boxes will also appear for you to enter any co-Host member names.


  • If you cannot locate your Event thread, Click on your My Forums link, (or HERE) in the upper right of the forum page.


  • IMPORTANT: Go back to your thread’s first post (yours) and at the bottom of the thread will be entry boxes for you to provide the Date, Age Range and Postal Code. If you do not enter this information, the thread will not be scheduled and appear in the green links above your Inbox area.



How to Make Your Party Successful



  • REMOVE your mail settings that would block potential guests from being able to email you questions about your Event. If you are adverse to this idea, simply post in the thread that all questions should be asked in the thread.

  • Consider using nametags at your Event as an icebreaker and help in identifying members.


  • Be specific and tell people in your thread about what you plan on doing as a Host, such as greeting them, where you will be located in the venue etc..


  • Make sure you give everyone plenty of time to schedule around your Event.
    Take lots of photos so you can share the success of your party with everyone on POF.


  • IMPORTANT NOTES:



    One thread per Event - do not Spam your Event anywhere else in the forums, by way of another thread or links in other threads, or they will be all removed.

    After the Event Image threads are to be opened only after the Event has occurred and not prior, and are designed only for pictures of the Event - nothing else.

    HOW YOU CAN UPLOAD YOUR PICS

    • Only the Host that posted the Event thread can now automatically start an Event Photo Thread by doing the following.


    • Only the original poster of the 1st message can start the Event Picture Thread while being logged in with the same exact username (CAPS sensitive)


    • You may assign another user the uploading rights to the thread. Just to be clear, if reassignment is given, this is to be done by the Host within the first message of the thread. Other members cannot start Event Threads.


    • If other members have pictures that they wish to upload, please make a special request to the moderators to enable upload rights to the thread.


    • In the initial message advertising your party, below all the images of people signed up for your Event, you'll see a clickable link:


    • Create a new thread to upload images taken of this party


    • Click on it and you should now be able to upload images to your new thread. Just to be clear, you have to start the new thread before you can upload the pictures. Once you click “Post”, you can find your photo thread in your local State/Province forum, not in the Singles Events sub forum.



    • Give your Event Picture thread the same title as your Event Thread for ease in locating.

    • Picture threads are to be started after an Event has been completed. Pictures other than the party itself will be considered off topic and be deleted.


    • While being accountable for the upload of pictures, it is imperative that you also respect any member's wish to not have their picture posted. While it is sometimes difficult to obtain everyone's consent, should a member ask you to remove a picture after an Event and their wish is not granted - the thread OP will have their forum rights revoked - this is an issue of privacy and should be respected - period, no arguments on this note.


    ACCOUNTABILITY

    As the Host, you are expected to be accountable for what party images are uploaded. Obviously No nudity is permitted, however the site also draws a line at too racy, lewd, sexually suggestive, obscene or plainly in poor taste PICTURES.

    Show some discretion and common sense. Pictures are not to include any forum banned individuals if possible. As a Host you are held accountable on how to hold your Event and also held accountable for how you represent your Event after the fact.

    Inappropriate behaviour may result in your account being suspended.


    AFTER YOUR EVENT DISCUSSION

    You'll notice that after your Event has taken place, the actual Event thread is locked. This is done to keep the current Events at the top of the list. People are welcome to discuss the Event and post any relevant comments under the photo thread topic. Constructive comments are welcome, bashing is not - ensure you understand the difference. Please help us streamline the topics by keeping it limited to just the one thread. If you do not have an Event Picture thread, the Host may start an Events Comment thread, with a similarly appropriate subject line.

    Host FAQ – Frequently Asked Questions



    Who can be a Host?
    Anyone, there are no designated Hosts or "teams" or committees for any Country, or any of its regions/cities/communities.

    Is Hosting hard work?
    It should not be unless you choose to make it hard work

    Should I ask if anyone is interested in an Event on the Local Forums?
    You can , but only <5% of users use the forums, so do not worry if there is lack of response it is not indicative of interest.

    Do I have to use labels at an Event?
    No, but it may help in identification of Fish Members & their guests. Guests can print out their own here, you do not need to supply them
    Does the Event venue have to be exclusive?
    No, and it is good advertising for the site for it to be mixing with members of the public as it encourages new members to join

    What is the minimum number of people that must attend an Event?
    Just 1, although 2 would be better so you have someone to talk to Events that have minimums are in fact - against the party rules

    If I own/work at or have connections to a venue can I Host an Event there?
    No, you cannot and No, you cannot get a friend to Host it either

    Can a venue charge for an Event?
    Only if they usually charge the general public as a rule

    The mass mail how many do I get of these?
    One! No Exceptions, and do not forget to make sure the longitude/latitude is set (does not say zero) before you send it. Enter the venue postcode in the box at the bottom of the Event post (Marked zip code) with no spaces and press the update party date and zip code button. Please note the original poster of the Event Thread must perform this action, co-Hosts do not have this ability

    I can only use the mass mail as a reminder to those signed up?
    You can use the mass mail when you like, but Bigfish will send a reminder mail to the people that are signed up to the Event automatically

    Who should take photos?
    Anyone with a camera at the Event

    What happens if I find I cannot Host after all?
    Either cancel the Event or get your co-Host (that is what they are there for) to take over, you will need to advise Event Moderator that it needs unscheduling & removing if you are cancelling the members meeting up

    Should the Host be on the door to greet everyone or sign them in?
    No, they are just a guest at the Event like everyone else, there to socialize and meet people, there is no need to sign people in.

    Do I need to find a team of Hosts?
    No this is totally unnecessary, all attendees should be friendly and greet each other ideally. You and one co-Host in case of emergency and you not being able to attend is all that is needed. If you have people helping you on the night because you choose to hand out labels or greet etc, that is fine but they are not a co-Host. The co-Host is for one reason only to take over in case you cannot attend and they are then responsible for the Event.

    Should I choose a Pub or Nightclub venue?
    If you want to Host in a pub or nightclub yes, but you can Host almost anywhere doing almost anything.

    What should I expect to pay out to Host an Event?
    Nothing, Zero, Zilch, Zip!

    Event FAQ – Frequently Asked Questions



    Can I use HTML coding on my Event thread?
    Yes, but only HTML font tags for:
  • size

  • colour

  • bolding

  • underlining

  • scrolling

  • centering


  • HTML hot-link tags for maps, transportation links, practical links for the Event.

    HTML Image tags for Host pics can be linked to their POF profile pics, direct links to pics on private web space* (do not link to your WebPages, only to the image file directly and ONLY if relevant to the Event)

    No outside linked emoticons, gifs, etc.

    This keeps the playing field level, keeps the spam down, and the Event pages from taking to long to load - the idea is to allow some tags to dress up an Event post, NOT to go overboard with spam gifs, or animations that hijack the site coding, or fonts that make the post impossible to read.

    Simplicity and fast page loading is one of the things that made POF popular, eye noise on a web page doesn't facilitate marketing, i.e.: trying to promote a POF Event.

    Use common sense, keep it attractive, eye-catching, but simple.

  • Limiting the allowed tags keeps the learning curve at a shallow slope

  • Another person may have to take over the Event thread

  • Not all mods are UBB/HTML experts

  • Continuity and consistency


  • Why are posts being deleted from my thread?
    Sometimes the posts are off-topic chat, but more likely due to excessive emoticons. To avoid this, paste this into your Opening Thread -


    Note - When Posting please be aware of the Acceptable Use & Posting Rules, specifically:

    F) No irritating posting Styles, including use of all Caps and excessive
    Punctuation/Blank Lines/Smilies..



    What do I do after the Event?
    Create a Comments & Pictures thread, there is a link on your Event thread, click the coloured words "Upload Images" to create it. It is a good idea to post the thread URL onto the Event thread and ask people to make comments there rather than the meet thread after the Event has happened.

    How do the green links work?
    Once your meet is scheduled and approved it will appear in the green links in date order, if two meets are on the same date then the first one posted takes precedence.

    What pictures can I upload?
    Pictures of the Event itself, and do not upload pictures of members that you know are forum barred. If you do upload unwittingly you will be advised by a moderator and the images will be removed. Do not upload lewd or racy images either.


    Attendee FAQ – Frequently Asked Questions



    Can I come alone?
    Yes you can

    How many guests can I bring?
    As many as you like

    Do I have to wear a label?
    Only if you want to wear one and you can print your own here (see above)

    Can a venue charge for a POF Event?
    Only if they usually charge the general public as a rule

    Can a Host stop me attending a Event?
    No, but the venue can stop you entering their premises if you are barred from it

    If I don’t want my picture up or I want one of me removed can I have this done?
    Yes, and if the Host will not comply report them by contacting the Event Moderator or the Forum Moderator

    I had a forum ban and none of my pictures are up on the image thread, why?
    Because pictures of forum barred members are not allowed to be shown, nor a forum barred members allowed to be discussed on the Event or comments thread

    What if I attended an Event where it broke the rules?
    Report this to the Event Moderator

    If I don’t sign up by a certain time does it mean I cannot attend?
    No you can attend any POF Event advertised, the obvious exemption to this is where you have to pay the venue in advance for an all ticketed Event.

    What can I expect at a POF Event?
    You get out what you put in, if you attend mingle & chat then people will mingle and chat back, the same as any other party just slightly more friendly

    Should the Host tell me about hotels/taxis/transport etc?
    They have no obligation to do this, Google is your friend (if the information is not in the thread OP)

    * * * Enjoy Your Event * * *


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