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Posted: 1/11/2009 4:56:22 AM | | ok I met this guy on here we chatted for 2wks. then finally met . we clicked and before I knew it we were a couple he was extremely interested and very doting towards me 3 mos. went by and one day he didn't pick up the phone when I called .2 days went by ,then he called me I asked If everything was ok first and then why I didn't hear from him because it was very unusual for me not to. his reply was that his phone wasn't charged and he was not feeling well.{He was depressed} I told him I would give him some time if he needed it he said thank you. Three weeks went by with a few emails and short phone calls between us ... One morning I logged on and saw a message from him stating he was still depressed and didnt know how to fix it he didn't know how long this would last and he didn't think it was fair to keep me waiting for him. that He needed to just start over with his life. we have emailed eachother since a few times again just small talk. I sent him a long email confessing my feelings for him and got no reply from it . I dont believe he was looking for another he isn't like that but could he really be depressed or just letting me down as easy as he could with out having to confront me or could he be confussed about us? I don't understand please help. so I can move on either way . | |
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Posted: 1/11/2009 5:28:21 AM | Hate to say it, but sounds like it's time to move on. You've reached out, extended yourself about as much as you can. If this is the only reaction you've received, then it's time to announce you're just moving on & good luck.
Life's too short to tolerate inconsideration and indecision.
Best of luck to you ... | |
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Posted: 1/12/2009 7:06:14 AM | | I think you are right about the moving on part...and I actually sent him a message today stating that I took a chance with him and put my self out there in hopes that things could be different but lifes to short and I cant wait for something thats not being reciprocated . I have alot to give and the right person eventually will come along I hope! LOL thanks for your in put write time. have a great day! | |
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