| How can a younger guy, pick up an older women.
Posted: 1/11/2009 8:53:24 AM | | Hey, ok this may sound a little funny comin from a 21 year old, but i have a thing about women that are older then me, i find them irrestible... n e ways, ive been trying for a long time to go out with older women, and i am constantly rejected. is there anyway for me to actually get a date with someone who is 10 yrs older then me? | |
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| How can a younger guy, pick up an older women.
Posted: 1/11/2009 8:56:07 AM | | It can be hard. If you are looking on here, pay attention to age restrictions. Mine are fairly open, spanning fro 20-50. It all depends on the person on whether I have interest. Are you looking to hook up or actually date them? | |
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| How can a younger guy, pick up an older women.
Posted: 1/11/2009 9:08:56 AM | before you try to meet an older woman be sure you do your homework. read about current events and watch the news. cultivate a larger vocabulary and work on your maturity level. you want to come off as intelligent and mature to capture their interest. they want you to bring more than a hard long lasting salami to the dinner table. | |
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| How can a younger guy, pick up an older women.
Posted: 1/11/2009 9:17:47 AM | become a millionare by having a dot.com company
also, dress the part, unless they have a fetish, they arent gonna wanna date someone that looks like they are in highschool
as the user above me stated, they'll want more than just well... read above | |
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| How can a younger guy, pick up an older women.
Posted: 1/11/2009 9:20:36 AM | In adding to most of the above suggestions, normally women appreciate men that don't use text writing on a computer. It only shows laziness or total immaturity.
At this age, blue jeans and tee shirt guys aren't necessarily what women are looking for either. Perhaps putting on a nice shirt and pants for your photographs and have well groomed hair. Multiple photographs are good for showing a head for your main picture and then use the full length for another.
The right bait catches the right fish, the wrong bait will catch the wrong fish. | |
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| How can a younger guy, pick up an older women.
Posted: 1/11/2009 9:20:50 AM | | Depends....my first choice would be with a hand cart, that is actually more leaning a woman then picking her up. Of course if you own a fork lift that is your best option vis-a- vis safety. I used to do high angle rescue but I sold my equipment: if I still had it I could use a...hold on... Oh never mind you meant figuratively pick up a woman....I thought it was a literal question. | |
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| How can a younger guy, pick up an older women.
Posted: 1/11/2009 9:48:39 AM | is there anyway for me to actually get a date with someone who is 10 yrs older then me?
Act 5 years older and be very convincing when you manage to work your impression that they are 5 years younger than they are into your conversation. Giving the a 30 year old woman the idea that you think she's hot and 25 years old ought to help, unless your attempt to get that across is so transparent that it has no credibility.
I wouldn't get to concerned about it, though. When you're my age, you'll still want to date a 30 year old woman, so you have plenty of time to date one. | |
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| How can a younger guy, pick up an older women.
Posted: 1/11/2009 10:36:03 AM | My ex happened to be 9 years younger than me.
We had known each other for a while and it never dawned on me to ask his age.I assumed he was my age or maybe a year or two older.It wasn't his looks,it was his level of maturity.
By the time we had been dating for a few months that the subject of birthdays came up,we we both equally surprised that there was such an age difference.Neither of us were neccessarilly looking to purposely date out of a closer age range,but then at the time, neither one of us were looking to date at all.
At first discovery,it was a bit of a shock to the both of us.
After discussion,we found it to eventually be a non issue.
Age had nothing to do with the demise of our relationship.
Personally,I prefer to keep company with those who've had similar life experiences ,and I find it awkward at best when a potential paramour has such different,and less experience in the world that there's an obvious generation gap occuring.
Some older women like that kind of thing though.
The exchange of experience so to speak.
For me,I much prefer they come along with some real world experience.
There's nothing I want to have to "teach" a potential mate.
If you want to play with the grownups,behave in such a manner as you see the objects of your interest do.
Are the older women you're drawn to clean cut?Well dressed?Well spoken?
Well then,mirror what you see and admire about that.
Are they trying to recapture their youth?Obviously botoxed and siliconed Pam Anderson wanna be's?
If so,a polished but more edgy fashion statement may work for you.
I think what some of the above posters mentioned is paramount as well.Write and speak on a more mature level,show you have something more to bring to the table than what the one gentleman above stated.
On the reverse of this(just for comparison)there's nothing attractive about a man in his 40's using the vernacular of the current high school slang,wearing an "Affliction"t shirt,declaring "Hit me up"in an attempt to attract an intelligent woman of similar age...
Maturity goes a long long way despite chronological age.
Alas,I digress... | |
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| How can a younger guy, pick up an older women.
Posted: 1/11/2009 10:41:25 AM | | At this time in life - many older women are getting sick of younger men asking them out - we seem to be the flavour of the month in recent years! Boys who want to gain experience or experiment are off putting! It's hard to distinguish the serious 'boys' from the 'users'! | |
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| How can a younger guy, pick up an older women.
Posted: 1/11/2009 12:18:40 PM | i have alot more fun around people older then myself rather then people my own age... Yeah, but do we have more fun around you? As many of the posters suggested you need to be able to function on a mature level. Past 30, we have different concerns, worries, and attitudes. We may not be into the same recreation as you. 20's to me was keg parties, 30's c ocktail parties, and 40's have been birthday parties - wtf?? God, I need a life... Point is - you need to have something in common with an older woman besides a few inches.
I find younger fun to hang out with for a while, but seriously, they are often in a different head space and they can be tiring... I need a nap already. | |
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| How can a younger guy, pick up an older women.
Posted: 1/11/2009 1:43:28 PM | I don't get a charge from younger guys finding me attractive enough to ask me out...
I am flattered, but it's not my thing.
Some women love it and go for it.
I always say this: I don't mind giving directions, I just don't want to have to teach you to drive.
'Nuf said...good luck | |
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| How can a younger guy, pick up an older women.
Posted: 1/11/2009 1:48:25 PM |
become a millionare by having a dot.com comany
also, dress the part, unless they have a fetish, they arent gonna wanna date someone that looks like they are in highschool
Wow. That's rather off-putting. I don't look at a man's bank account before deciding to date them.
Dress the part, yes. Knowing how to dress and how to carry one's self in public is important.
Being able to carry on a conversation that does not involve the size of your penis or her breasts is extremely important. I need a man who will talk to me.. about a lot of things. There's more to a relationship than sex.
Be confident in yourself. Be humble, polite, a gentleman in all situations. Be respectful and considerate, especially if she has children (which many older women will have)... the children will always come first.
Figure out what it is that you are offering.
When you approach a woman and she says she's not interested, thank her for her time and leave. Do not lower yourself to a 3rd grade level and insult her. Be mature.
You may have to work hard to prove to her that you are interested in more than a quick lay. Not putting any pressure on her for anything sexual.. let her lead... or listen when she says something she wants, and I don't just mean in a monetary sense.
I love it when my guy does things for me around the house... not that I'm nto capable of doing it myself, but it's awfully damned nice when he does it. We go out shopping and he picks the cart and pushes, carries the packages, open doors, loads/unloads my truck... hell.. he's even gotten to the point where he's putting the groceries away in my house now.
Most of all be yourself. When you pretend to be something you aren't, you are lying to her and yourself.
Have goals and ambition in life... regardless of what they may be... and work towards them, actively.
There's so much to say and so many other threads that have this information on them.. do a thread search and read. | |
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| How can a younger guy, pick up an older women.
Posted: 1/11/2009 2:30:23 PM | | In my case, I like younger men, I always say ...young and vigourous... but my issue is...that, one day, the younger man will get tired of an older woman who is starting to slow down and I don't want to be dumped. Therefore, I stick to men approximately my age. | |
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| How can a younger guy, pick up an older women.
Posted: 1/11/2009 4:44:58 PM |
Wow. That's rather off-putting. I don't look at a man's bank account before deciding to date them.
And neither do I but my point is, for the most part, I don't think mature women are looking to date little boys. So sorry but I think sneakers, tshirts and a job at mcdonalds don't cut it when it comes to the lifestyle most mature women have.
My point is that when anyone reaches a certain age they most likely have established themselves. I think you're fooling yourself if you think people don't want to date others that live similar lifestyles. I know I certainly don't want to be mothering and supporting anyone.
That being said, I do think being established (my point with the dot.com comment) and dressing like a grown up (my comment about dressing the part) do matter.
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| How can a younger guy, pick up an older women.
Posted: 1/11/2009 4:57:20 PM | o/p -you want to go "cougar hunting" -interested in the allure of sex with a mature woman, however dont plan on meeting her kids (your age) or taking her home to meet your parents.
you don't have much of a chance or a say -she is the one on the hunt -she sizes up her prey in an instant, she's not looking for a little boy who needs to be told what to do -she decides what she wants -a younger man who is a bit aggressive and c0cky -offers her a great time -and delivers, unless your a great confident talker, it just aint going to happan. -meow | |
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