| | This man treated me bad.Page 1 of 1 | | Well, I met someone on here alright. And I thought he was great. Unfortunately, he didn't deregister once we started a relationship, and I now realise that he is seeing and having intimate encounters with other women - something that I dont' want in a relationship. | |
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daze13
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| This man treated me bad. Posted: 1/20/2009 5:30:44 AM | | there should be NAME & SHAME page on here to warn people of Scammers and Multi Profile ID'rs.....If we can right a bad testimonial why cant we name them IN these forums too.....there is 1 guy on here that id love to do that with......he has some serious mental problems and to think that I could at least WARN the ladies on here about him would make me feel a lot better.....and would possibly make POF delete his account.....so ladies if you DO want to know ....well send me a message as I'm sure he has left many of you broken hearted, confused and mad.....he lives in england so no need to ask if your guy was from anywhere else........KARMA! | |
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| This man treated me bad. Posted: 5/21/2009 8:17:08 AM | totally agree with u. but it works with women as well. 2 years ago,there was a dundee woman ...sorry, NUTTER!! from this site, who took a hammer to the poor guys in their own flats. she soon disappeared wen i identified her by cutting and pasting her pic on this forum. | |
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| This man treated me bad. Posted: 5/22/2009 10:40:13 AM | Kind of reminds me when one female member here had her 17yr old daughter stalk me, only for the fact that I wasn't interested in her mother . | |
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| This man treated me bad. Posted: 5/24/2009 4:59:02 PM | | well send me a message and tell me who he is i had a bad experiance to and started dating someone and he was unreall he put me and my family through hell so being carefull. But there is alot on here just cause u are female ur into phone sex or just there to p;ease the i think not is this a dating site for normal folk or something else i wonder | |
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| This man treated me bad. Posted: 5/29/2009 7:27:41 PM | | Uhm.. why would he de-register? I am usually pretty conservative but I am pretty bad about not taking ads off of date sites even when I am having a steady relationship with a gal. It isn't that I am still playing around, it is I just forget that I was listed on the site to begin with. If my steady would have asked, my profile would be inactive as soon as I could get on a computer. | |
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| This man treated me bad. Posted: 6/1/2009 12:40:23 AM | | I just found out the man I have been dating ( and in a supposed ) relationship is currently on POF. At any rate he isnt from England ! I just quit my job and sold all of my furniture to be with this man. Now Im sitting here thinking wow .... if I had onlyknown. He says he is single... that was news to me. I do think a wall of shame should be on here so others can be warned of sick individuals. Now sure what I will do now. I am in a horrible situation. | |
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| This man treated me bad. Posted: 6/2/2009 10:18:09 AM | In the two weeks I have been on pof...I have realized one thing...don't get caught up with anyone...the most are on here for one reason...to entertain themselves...and or each other...it is a game to some to see if they can get woman to talk the talk with them...the more the better..age doesn.t have anything to do with it either...have fun..don't get too involved unless you actually start dating...dating in person...not online...check out how many favs they are on...it will tell you something if you let it...just have fun... by the way...I am sorry you were treated badly...my 1st expierence was with a countryman....that took my concern as sarcasm...what a beautiful outside he had but nothing inside...it will only happen once...took control and give only what I allow now...just having a good time and making friends not anything more...Barefootncrazy | |
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| This man treated me bad. Posted: 6/3/2009 11:21:25 AM | Oh well. Men are born to disappoint thats all they never do these days it seems. Get the fuc* over it. Your going to have more bad relationships and more guys treatin u badly in the future. Get a thick skin and just find someone else. Unless your that desperate to come on to a dating site and already expecting to find the "one" because chances are thats going to happen that quickly unless your some super model without any flaws | |
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| This man treated me bad. Posted: 6/9/2009 4:11:08 AM | | Manforrent, you know little about how this went, so your comment is completely without merit. This man said he loved me and wanted to be with me. This was not an overnight situation, by any means. If HE had been honest, the move would never have occured, nor would a lot of other things. However, I will hand to you that I do have some share in blame. However, I am an educated woman, and was financially secure. This was NOT a fantasy man that I met on a dating website. As a matter of fact , I didnt meet him on a dating website. Imagine that ! I blame him only for his not giving me the opportunity to make decisions based on the truth. Had he have done so, I would NEVER have been with him. But it would be best to read carefully before you reply, as I have NEVER ever met a man from a dating website before. But thanks for your intelligent reply as I can appreciate any comments. Its interesting to see how the MEN respond to things like this. You can get a good idea of how someone thinks, when seeing how they respond to others situations. Regardless of if here were rich poor eyecandy or whatever, what drew me to him in the beginning has NO bearing on the fact that he was dishonest and will be dishonest to other women on here as well. It seems you missed the point . Point is .... NOT a one night stand ....secondly, this person was not an honest man, to me or others ( on the dating sites) , thirdly, he and all others like him or those who show support should be sitting alone looking and looking for dates, because they deserve to be alone forever. But I do know there are some women who are desparate ( and believe me Im not) and would go out with someone if they KNEW he were in a relationship. There are some who would like the dinner and one night of sex. Believe me some women dont even care that someone is in a relationship. Woman can be cheaters too. I was speaking as to my personal situation. I must have struck a chord with you. Angry ? Defensive? Sounds like it . Hmmmm. | |
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| This man treated me bad. Posted: 6/9/2009 4:13:38 AM | | Why sexyangel, I am a beautiful woman and I have to admit I do have some flaws. However your choice of langauge isnt very ladylike. But thanks for the reply. | |
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| This man treated me bad. Posted: 6/9/2009 4:21:21 AM | | PS ALL women deserve to be told the truth and treated with respect. When feelings are hurt people need to vent sometimes. I dont think most people sweat the small stuff. Im sure the woman who posted this is beautiful as well. Being cold hardly helps. | |
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| This man treated me bad. Posted: 7/19/2009 8:23:34 AM | | manforrent I find your comments idiotic and a waste of your time. No ONE is bigger than life. And we did not meet on a dating website. Its just a vehicle HE uses to meet others. And I DO place the blame where it belongs. On the liar and one who was not an honest person and watched me do all this and didnt have the courage or wasnt enough of a real MAN to back out long ago too. I own my fault in this and he should own his. I take blame for nothing more than not leaving sooner. | |
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| This man treated me bad. Posted: 7/27/2009 9:44:54 AM | | I am going through a break up now from a man that I Was with in the past and hurt me deeply twice and I posted a testimonial about him and I got a response for manforrent and my impression of him is he himself is bitter and has nothing positive to say about weman at all. maybe he needs to look at himself in the mirror and wonder why he is still on here looking for someone. | |
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| This man treated me bad. Posted: 7/31/2009 9:47:10 AM | | Great Manforrent, then stop wasting your time reading them ! Now thats funnyyyy! | |
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| This man treated me bad. Posted: 7/31/2009 2:32:21 PM | Ladies there are some decent people on here. I was ready to give up after the two losers I met. I wont name names but they are still lurking the site. I guess you can say I got lucky because I met a really great guy and we have been seeing each other since.
There are alot of guys here who are here because away from their computer screens they are nothing. All I can say is dont let those ***holes, or jerks keep you from finding someone special. | |
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