| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 1/24/2009 5:48:18 PM | | hi everybody, i have a situation that a friend presented to me last night and in our discussion i really couldn't come up with an answer for her. she has been sleeping with this guy for a while, apparently this sleeping together is fantastic, but he never kisses her. she says everytime she has tried he pushes her away, but he has no problem getting intimate with her..she also commented that afterwards he'll stay the night but won't sleep in the same bed with her...the only thing i could tell her was that really she should leave him and not let him come back anymore but she has expressed that even though she knows he is wrong for her, she has deep feelings for him... | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 1/24/2009 6:01:16 PM | | i don't know much about this person that she is sleeping with, she wasnt very descriptive in why he is wrong she is just baffled as to why he wont kiss her, | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 1/24/2009 6:03:20 PM | | I think I read about the same scenario in "He's Just Not That Into You". It doesn't sound like your friend's fu@k buddy is all that into her either. Except when he wants to be. | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 1/24/2009 6:11:08 PM | | no he won't kiss her at all. not when their out somewhere together, not when their not atit...he just wont kiss her, she says he pulls away from it, i asked her about the breath thing, and she says she always has tic tacs going as she thought the same thing at first..lol..its one to get ya thinking | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 1/24/2009 6:19:09 PM | | he saw pretty woman too many times and believes kissing is more intimate than sex. personally kissing is what does it for me and without it I would never have interest in sex. as for her having feelings for him that is likely why he wont kiss her, he wants a living toy with no strings that he can take out and use when he wants and not think about when he is done. | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 1/24/2009 6:34:36 PM | This is just a long shot, but I have heard of it. Perhaps the guy wears full dentures and he is worried if they kiss, she will try to French it and his dentures will come loose, or she will feel the dentures.
They make dentures so well now, you can't always tell by looking. | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 1/24/2009 6:51:39 PM | | He does not want to kiss her because to him what they are doing is not intimacy it is an itch to be scratched. She obviously scratched the itch. But is not considered girlfriend material. Pretty lousy. | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 1/24/2009 7:05:03 PM | I'll give you this mans view,, I have been in the same situation,, I hate to admit it.. But true.. Personally I think kissing is more intimate than sex.. Therefore I have had a FB, we did kiss, but not very often. My reasoning is,, to really kiss I have to be emotionally involved, and without that connection, I feel like I'm faking it,, and I am, therefore just having sex with a FB, just physical for me,, with very little emotion,, other than sexual pleasure for both of us,,
What I have learned from that over the years,, I need and want both,, that emotional connection with a woman,, then leading to kissing,, then sex,, so much more fulfilling..
Edit,, If the kissing stops,, most likely that means,, her or she is just not in to the other person anymore | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 1/24/2009 7:12:51 PM | tell your friend to kick him to the curb as soon as possible...because she will end up with a broken heart...talk about a total narcistic jerk | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 1/24/2009 8:49:50 PM |
This is just a long shot, but I have heard of it. Perhaps the guy wears full dentures and he is worried if they kiss, she will try to French it and his dentures will come loose, or she will feel the dentures.
LOL! The visuals I've got now--hope I can sleep later!
OP if he doesn't kiss her, how is she getting turned on enough to have sex? Unless he is kissing her elsewhere....then maybe that might work. But no kissing at all just seems...weird. Maybe he is a prostitute? Kidding.
This is why I don't discuss sexual things with friends. The things you might learn could make one lose sleep!
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 1/24/2009 9:15:18 PM |
...what the heck are jimmy legs...
I assume you are asking this because you do not have a computer connected to the internet that you could have done a Google search with? | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 1/24/2009 10:01:30 PM | Umm sounds like she is just a person he likes to have sex w/. She isn't someone he sees as either a gf or an fwb. He's not being intimate w/ her, he is getting off w/ her. There is a difference. Some guys like having a sure thing, but they only see it as two people fulfilling an urge, not any other type of relationship. More of a long term booty-call.
Unless she takes the time to talk to him she can never be sure. If this isn't the situation she wants, she needs to leave. He has been clear he doesn't see her as a romantic possibility. | |
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| he'll sleep with you, but won't kiss you
Posted: 1/24/2009 10:48:00 PM | Maybe he's not the type to kiss and tell.
could it possibly be a breath problem? what a loser!
Well, let's not judge her too harshly. | |
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