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Posted: 1/27/2009 6:31:52 PM | | I am having trouble understanding why it is so hard to find a friend with benefits. I actually am pretty fun to be around. I would like to go out and have fun with someone and not spend ALL the time in bed. Do love bedtime plz dont get me wrong. | |
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Posted: 9/8/2009 3:02:07 AM | I imagine it's because, "friends with benefits" usually has something attached with it.
Per se, an anecdote...
You are involved in that kind of relationship. Then all of a sudden she meets, or you meet the person of their dreams. They/or you marry and live happily ever after.
The issue: The ability to maintain such a fine balance of character, an even keel, if you wish...Is so intense to be able to live in that state. Additionally, friends with benefits indicates you're friends. And it also indicates that you are users of one another for sexual gratification. Sexual gratification isn't part of any true friendship.
So i think the term of what you're seeking is, associates with bonuses.
Dude, just don't try it. Be true. There's an infinite amount of beautiful women with intellect, spirit, and everything else you could want in a woman. Search for her. Find her. Then take the road less traveled. Be faithful...
This may not have helped, but I do hope it clears things up for you....
Take care... | |
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Posted: 10/19/2009 2:17:10 PM | When I hear the words "friends with benitfits" I dont think of dont things like going to the movies or out to eat with someone.I think of nothing but a sexual relationship.PURELY sexual.I think that is what alot of people see that term as.
If you think of friends with benifits as having activities other than sex,I call that friendship.
Just my thoughts on the matter for what their worth. | |
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Posted: 10/19/2009 4:45:57 PM | to be honest, i've never read that anywhere, but if i did , i would think of them just wanting a free meal ticket. but the joke would be on them.. i don't buy friends dinner.
they can buy thier own...LOL. | |
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Posted: 10/20/2009 4:18:52 PM | friends with benefits is sounding pretty darned good! I want all the benefits though!  | |
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Posted: 10/20/2009 4:55:30 PM | you talked me into it,,,,,where do you wanna start? oh wait,,,,,,let me have some money first.lol | |
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