| why do men just want sex
Posted: 6/25/2005 7:53:01 AM | is there any real men left in this world, men who like feminine company, that are looking for a lady, for friendship or dating whatever you want to call it, without thinking , is she going to give me sex tonight, i agree that sometimes two people can click that fast but is there any single men that are honestly looking for a relationship, without thinking first will i get laid tonight, i know i sound crude but i want to know, why is there so much deception. can i get some real replys please? it sure would be nice    | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 6/25/2005 12:42:38 PM | | i agree with u every man some here that i have encountered act like that what I suppose to give tem sex. It is not my problem they can't get any so why do i have to be the one get cuss out b/c i said i don't do that | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 6/25/2005 1:32:01 PM |  lets let them know how we feel girl, we are not pieces of flesh we are humans with feelings below our waist, | |
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Posted: 6/28/2005 12:16:08 AM | they're out there...
take a look and see WHERE you're meeting these men, first of all. the internet is nothing more than a bar. also consider that men are naturally physical by nature. put it out there upfront that's not what you're interested in. sure, some will try anyway, but most will run if they know you will not "put out". | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 6/28/2005 9:15:33 AM | Is there something wrong with wanting sex? I want the whole package personnally: love, sex, companionship ect. ect. Don't be so quick to give up the goods and you'll weed out the dogs pretty quick. There are good guys out there . Be patient | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 6/29/2005 7:40:41 PM | Didn't you ever see "When Harry met Sally?"
Sheesh!
LOL!
To answer the thread question:
Because it's in our genetic programming. Like anything else genetic, it's stronger in some and weaker in others.
To answer your question:
"Real men" come by many definitions and the one you described sounds a lot closer to Neil Sadaka than Clint Eastwood. | |
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Posted: 6/29/2005 10:42:12 PM | I wonder if we get the impression that all men just want sex because we women talk about it all the time. Most of the posts in here are about sex.......and the replies in the posts go from flirting, to provocative, to downright graphic at times. And I am not excluding myself from that. Maybe we should show these guys that even though we can be great lovers....we have a lot more to offer than just that. I don't want to be someones "f**k buddy.......I want more involvement than that.
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Posted: 7/1/2005 5:06:17 PM | To tell you the truth--I myself have allways had a long term relationship!--but what about the women who cheats?--thats why I recently divorce--could not understand either-I'm a very loving man and the sex department is excellent--so i've been told several times!-she could not get over her abusing ex for some reason--so I told her to have at it and get out of my life!--sorry about the greif people! Mark | |
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Posted: 7/4/2005 4:13:02 PM | Well it comes down to this there are 2 kinds of women those you marry and those you date.
The ones you marry are hard to find. Lets face both men and women want someone out of there league and why some of us are here. So when a women comes along thinking she is great when I know I have had better it is something to do till I find the right one. If you lower your standards then you find what your looking for! | |
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Posted: 7/4/2005 5:08:56 PM | Well, that brings up the question as well, why do some women just want sex? I just broke up with a girl that I dated for over a year, because she couldn't handle the couple hours away that i was. Not becaue of the pain or distance or anything, but because she wanted the sex i gave her, since she couldn't get it from me; she got it from any random joe. I think that there are both stereotypes, and some fit in, and some don't.
I enjoy sex, yes, but It isn't the basis of most of my relationships, unless expressed exclusivly at the beginning. I enjoy what comes after sex more than I do. The cuddling, romanatics, the fact that I had someone laying next to me had alot more to do with it than the pleasure. It's never about my pleasure anyways, it's always about my partners, and I always make sure she is happy before I am. There are too many things that transpire even during casual sex to deny it foothold in emotions. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2005 9:45:04 AM | | I can't speak for all men but I am looking for more than just sex. I think most men want a relationship. Yes, sex is a part of being intimate in a relationship. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2005 9:35:39 AM | X_Soldat:
To blame your urges on biology is a cop-out. It suggests that men are so weak that they simply can NOT (with millions of years of evolution) over come their 'genetic programing'. Now, I know in Victorian times we were made to lay back and think of England, but women are actually the more sexual of the two creatures. Men just flaunt it. While men are rolling over and snoring after their 15 minute deed, most women stay awake still in need. (that was not meant to rhyme, please forgive me). So, if you still insist that you simply cannot overcome your biological urges, then maybe it's time for women to rule the world considering we have more control. (ah hell it was worth a try) Anyway, the point is, we want sex too, we just don't walk around with our skirts hiked up ready for some action. The end. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2005 6:29:00 PM | | That's way I'm on here. I just want to find someone who's looking for just sex.. I have so many places to go to. And I won't go alone. And some things just aren't fun to do by yourself.. | |
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Posted: 7/14/2005 8:13:08 PM | | muse can i start your presidential campaigne, we are the smarter and sexier of the sexes . | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/15/2005 6:43:01 AM | whats up with the bullshit.. most of these women are looking for a real man, don't beleive me, read their profiles.. it appears that sexual guys are not real men,
what if the men would state in their profiles that they are looking for a real woman..
it appears that if you like sex , you're not a real man...
and i bet there are tons of guys on here looking for an honest relationship with or without sex, that includes myself... so to counter the attack on us guys on here, is there any real women on here... if there is, don't be bashfull, step right up and let us guys know who you are so that we can by pass the unreal game players..
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kce33
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/15/2005 10:54:40 AM | men want sex solution.. everybody write and call your congresmen to pass laws legalizing call girls and whore houses...see if we can get our half assed lawyer government to do something for the citizens instead of making criminals famous...
the cost is probley about the same wether you by it or keep it... this would give all the guys that aren't real men cause they like an want sex all the sex they can handle... this way the real women aginst sex don't have to worry about sex.. we can just use them for dates or companionships and for having fun..and for the women that aren't real cause they love sex, look at the job opertunities..what a pleasant way to make a high figure income and you always look great..
its win win for everybody: | |
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Posted: 7/16/2005 5:43:06 AM | While there is the nearly insatiable need to pass on your genetic code to ensure the success of your lineage, perhaps the need for sex for many men is a need for acceptance. Perhaps it is just a search for that physical high that can only be achieved through a union, and not an auto-erotic experience.
Personally, I've never given it much thought; I'd always just grudgingly accepted it as a given that men were walking hormones that would do or say anything to get into a woman or girl's pants. I can't claim innocence to this because I get aroused at the drop of a hat... If it's a sexy hat. :p I don't blame biological urges for this, though, I don't really blame anything, I simply accept it. I can't explain why men want sex so much, but I can say that you might be turning a blind eye to members of the female gender. All may be yellow to a jaundiced eye, but I would rather believe that this is situational. I see women call other women "slut" or "skank" with acid in their tone, and I know I don't need to explain why. You can say all you want that the ratio of women who act that way is outweighed by the ratio of men that act that way, but until a study is made of the percentage of "sluts" of either gender is made and numbers and ratios recorded, it is always going to sound biased to those who aren't chomping at the bit to agree with you. I'm not looking for an argument here, because I'm sure there are many things that can be said to invalidate what I say for some, so if you disagree with me then please feel free to do so unopposed.
I'll admit that I want sex, but more than that I want a life long relationship and family. I don't really want to be faulted for wanting sex, though I'm sure if you've already made up your mind and generalized all men, you will anyway. Does it concern me if you do? Yes, but only because, as a human being, I seek acceptance from my peers.
On a side note, to address your generalized 15 minute deed comment; when I say I want sex, I mean I really want it. 15 minutes wouldn't even begin to satiate me. Unfortunately I tend to wear my partners out and, of course, that's not really a good thing. I'm left wanting more and she's completely exhausted and not wanting any for another day, maybe two or three. In the interim I start to wonder if I'm no longer attractive to her, or maybe she might be getting tired of me, etc. Of course that's a whole 'nother subject which probably doesn't belong here. :p
To blame your urges on biology is a cop-out. It suggests that men are so weak that they simply can NOT (with millions of years of evolution) over come their 'genetic programing'. Now, I know in Victorian times we were made to lay back and think of England, but women are actually the more sexual of the two creatures. Men just flaunt it. While men are rolling over and snoring after their 15 minute deed, most women stay awake still in need. (that was not meant to rhyme, please forgive me). So, if you still insist that you simply cannot overcome your biological urges, then maybe it's time for women to rule the world considering we have more control. (ah hell it was worth a try) Anyway, the point is, we want sex too, we just don't walk around with our skirts hiked up ready for some action. The end. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/17/2005 11:35:05 AM | Who knows; I guess that we men are just a bunch of pigs~!!! heheheeee. Maybe it's in our jeans, I mean genes; or maybe it's something in the Daytona Beach water~!!! I think that the less we have it, the more we think about it. (and I've been doing alot of thinking about it lately~!! POUT). I think that it's a 50/50 deal. Women think about sex alot but they just don't talk openly about it or go around grabbing their crotch like Michael Jackson~!!! Sex is pretty cool. I wouldn't mind getting a little once in awhile~!!! LOL. But the only ones that will talk to me at the boardwalk are the seagulls~!!! POUTING AGAIN
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Posted: 7/17/2005 12:14:25 PM | Run baby run if he wants only sex! won't last longer...he's a player...run run fast... | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/17/2005 2:35:55 PM | | With me I don't really care about sex that much as long as im happy with the girl that im with because that is whats important. | |
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Posted: 7/17/2005 4:51:00 PM | sex is a big part of a healthy relationship,if the attraction isnt there than the feeling isnt mutual;wanting nothing but sex is a problem,but having the attraction for eachother is romantic and sensual ,any man that would stay in a relationship without sex is no man and any woman that thinks a man is a pig for having those feelings towards her is no woman.Im not saying that you have to put out on demand,but if a man has to ask for it your not a good match for that man,I like sex to be a mutual thing,dont want someone laying there waiting for me to finish,just a lady that has a sex drive that matches mine. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/17/2005 9:08:58 PM | | Natural selection. Male's sexual drive is one of the main mechanisms that kept us as species alive. Imagine the necessity of this drive with a 19 year menial human life span a few thousand years back. Granted, the need has been diminished tremendously with the coming of industrial age and scientific revolution. However, as A. Einstein have said, our technology does greatly surpass out humanity. Evolution is a process requiring millions of years to manifest. It will be thosands of years before our genetical selves catch up with our reality. And even though we are now technologically "enlightened", mentally we are hardly more than medieval animals of the nether ages. | |
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| why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/18/2005 7:48:39 AM | And women don't want sex? [Or have it on their minds?]
Come in, yes of course, we are more concerned about what he will think of us...if we do sleep with him, this is probably why 50 % of women forego sleeping with a guy on the first date. But.....lets be honest....don't we also think.....'damn, I wonder what he's like in bed'?
I do......If I am at all interested, if I am not interested, of course its not on my mind at all. | |
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