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| anyone looking for a friend, male female, just friendship?
Posted: 8/15/2005 3:10:29 PM | Hello! making friends is fun. Most straight guys shy away from a gay guys like me. I guess they are afraid of something happening......(their part) But, if the straight guy would give me a chance, they'd find very possibly i'd make one heck of a friend. Most of my best friends from my past-were straight and we had a ball! We'd drink, go camping, fishing, play poker, etc.
But, guys don't smoke or drink or do those other things any more. Most straight guys now a days, spend as much time in front of a mirror as women do. Most are vain and arrogant and most straight guys come across as MORE GAY than normal-boring gay guys like myself.
My best friend Daryl was a straight as they came. But, every night we'd drink and roam the neighborhood laughing, and talking and during the day, we'd go to parks and fish, rainy days we'd play games and poker. At parties we'd tease his wife, and all her friends, etc. All us guys just hung out and were ourselves. I miss those days. What the hell has happened to the people now-a-days? Where are the people who just want friendships? Why is everything about the Orgasm? Why Is it, with people-if they wouldn't consider having sex with you...then, why can't that at least talk to you and maybe possibly become a friend? Is sex, the only thing people are looking for?
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| anyone looking for a friend, male female, just friendship?
Posted: 9/21/2005 10:41:06 PM |
continued mandatory time spent together creates a bond with those of a similiar mindset as yourself which is hard to dupilicate through forums and online interaction.
If more people would show up to the group POF get-togethers, I'm sure lasting friendships would be more prominent. I have made a lot of new friends by attending the POF outings. Check out the threads about future get togethers....one we're trying to plan is a Halloween party, posted by Babysis (she is now BabysisAgain, actually).  | |
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| anyone looking for a friend, male female, just friendship?
Posted: 9/22/2005 4:34:49 AM | I know that I am here specifically to make friends. I work from home and I'm single, so I don't get out much. I do have a close circle of very good friends, but because of my situation I don't have the opportunity to socialize much and meet new people. I figured this would be a good opportunity.
I have chatted with a few folks on here and, though I haven't met anyone in person just yet, I welcome the opportunity. I'll be looking for get-togethers.
As far as male/female friendships; they do exist. I have some very good female friends with whom I have no romantic history--a couple of them are married, but I am friends with their husbands, as well. | |
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| anyone looking for a friend, male female, just friendship?
Posted: 9/28/2005 12:11:39 AM | I am also. It would be nice to find local people to socialize with who aren't tied down in relationships. Most people I know are married or dating, so it limits available activities. Bars are atrocious environments to meet interesting people. Adding copious amounts of liquor reduces intellectual interaction to nil. Nothing's more unappealing than a boozed-up stranger hanging over you. I'm not one to approach strangers either. Shyness limits me.
Online profiles allow a protective layer, where one can screen for compatibilities through controlled interaction. | |
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| anyone looking for a friend, male female, just friendship?
Posted: 9/29/2005 1:04:42 AM | You can never have enough friends. I welcome it. I am straight, but I do have gay friends. It doesn't bother me when I recieve a email from a guy. It does bother me when they know I'm straight and want to try to convert me. Not gonna happen. As friendship goes. I enjoy meeting a wide variety of people.
Here I'll start: little about me
Got screwed over by my exwife
Just starting to date after a year alone
Straight
Pilot
Golf
Fishing
Can't cook worth anything, but love paula dean.
Enjoy a good drink
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| anyone looking for a friend, male female, just friendship?
Posted: 10/4/2005 4:16:09 PM | Id be glad to make friends of both sexes on here, and the forums are actually pretty cool for that. Thing is, if I met an online buddy from POF in real life he'd have to PROMISE me not to tell anyone we met on a dating site!!!* 
UV
*...cause people would assume I was bi or gay, wouldnt they? | |
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| anyone looking for a friend, male female, just friendship?
Posted: 10/4/2005 4:55:19 PM | | Could also be that the friendships we remember in our past have changed drastically today. A handshake to most people (especially around here) doesn't mean much more than them trying to find out if you're holding something so they can scam it away. Oh, and don't even get me started on what love means anymore. Maybe we're all becoming our parents with the "back in my day" attitude. Personally, I have few friends because like love, I don't go throwing it around to just anybody. As for the becoming like my parents, hang on, I have to go yell at the chicks upstairs to turn down that damn music, then I'll be back. | |
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| anyone looking for a friend, male female, just friendship?
Posted: 7/6/2006 1:31:21 PM | | Friends, you can never have to many. It is always nice to have friends. I am up for making male and female friends even though I have always had more male friends than females. Could be because of the tomboy side in me. I always find it nice to have a friend, one you can talk to, do things with or just go different places with and you dont have to worry about one being jealous or nothing like that as if you were in an actual relationship. After all, most relationships start out as friends. | |
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| anyone looking for a friend, male female, just friendship?
Posted: 7/23/2006 1:28:54 AM | Hi, grplaman;
Could be your part of town. I live in an area where they still are like that, gay men room with and chill with straight men-and women, too.Well, the chilling/hang out part, roomies still tend to be male/male, unless they're from a younger crowd{post college}. | |
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| anyone looking for a friend, male female, just friendship?
Posted: 7/23/2006 1:32:52 AM | I'm always looking for friends, even more now because a bunch of friends will be moving in August....And I'm stillopen to dating, too....I'm a sanguine/extrovert, and I'm tired of having little or no social life...Guess I need to find more activities... | |
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| anyone looking for a friend, male female, just friendship?
Posted: 7/23/2006 4:32:13 AM | Hi there, my name is Bob. I am looking to make new friends. I do have a good relationship with a good woman. I like meeting new people and to chat with them. On a messenger or email. So if all you are looking for is a friend to talk with then I would like to be that friend. Hope to here from you soon. Have a good day.
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| anyone looking for a friend, male female, just friendship?
Posted: 8/12/2006 8:39:21 AM | | I HAD THE SAME QUESTION. IT SEEMS LIKE NOW A DAYS EVEN TO BE FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE YOU HAVE TO PASS SOME KIND OF "ARE YOU FINE OR GOOD LOOKING ENOUGH TEST". PEOPLE ARE VERY SHALLOW. AND IF THEY SAY THEY WANT TO BE FRIENDS THEY WANT TO SLEEP WITH YOU. WHAT HAPPENED TO TRUE FRIENDSHIPS? | |
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| anyone looking for a friend, male female, just friendship?
Posted: 11/21/2006 6:30:13 AM | HI
Everyones looking for friends male or female to hang out with , why did everyone stop writting? I would like A male or female to hang out with or even have A night out to have A bunch of people who want to go out and have a good time.We could have something to eat, dancing, have A drink , who knows figure it out when it happens, put everyones mind together and have A nice time together. Write and tell me what you think.
Im a 33yr. old Female and live in Port St Lucie.Id like to find some excitement in this town.If anyone evens want to go shopping thats always fun around now why not? | |
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| anyone looking for a friend, male female, just friendship?
Posted: 11/23/2006 3:43:08 PM | | I've made many new friends through the POF get togethers. I've even become an organizer of sorts for some of these events. With me, it's not all about relationships and/or sex although either would be nice. *S* But, yes, I love making friends through this site. | |
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| anyone looking for a friend, male female, just friendship?
Posted: 11/24/2006 8:13:35 AM | | I am a friend magnet... I love meeting new friends male ,female, and anyone in between. I think thats become my main journey on this site. Romance is a added pleasure. Bring on the new friends, you can never have enough good people in your life. | |
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| anyone looking for a friend, male female, just friendship?
Posted: 11/24/2006 1:05:42 PM | | Iam lookin for friends of both sexes,met my guy on here,and we both enjoy meeting new people,get togethers,picnics,parks,potlucks,etc,we had a pof party and met some real nice people that way,all ages,male and femaile, we are both secure in our relationship,that we dont have issues of the two of us having friends,we love to throw parties,go fishing,etc,we are in Sarasota,Englewood area,Fla... | |
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