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Posted: 2/19/2009 4:25:54 AM | My ex girlfriend recently left me for another guy.
I havent spoken to her in about two months but I heard things she said to some friends of mine. She said she needed a real man in her life and that men that drink turn her on and that it is how a reala man should be. Now I consider myself decent and I have my flaws just liek everybody and I only drink socially,but all she does with her new guy is she goes to her house,drinks watch footballb,have sex and rinse and repeat everyday.Now my question is what is so manly about how he is? | |
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Posted: 2/19/2009 4:34:19 AM |
Absolutely nothing. He is going to be the man that abuses her. Is she really young and naive? When she grows up she will realize this is no real "man", just a boy.
Good luck to you! | |
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Posted: 2/19/2009 4:39:59 AM | | I am actually moving on with my life but waiting for her to come back,I cant believe she left me for this.She s 22 years old going on 23 soon | |
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Posted: 2/19/2009 4:46:22 AM | | Don't waste your life and time waiting on someone to 'come back to you'. She's young, you're young. She has to explore, so do you. Don't sit and pine for someone who has insulted you through friends and left you for some other bloke. Put the pieces of that relationship away, and move on. It's healthier. Take care! | |
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Posted: 2/19/2009 4:49:11 AM | | It's simple OP. You're not her type and she's not really yours. Find someone now who doesn't think a drunken-football-watching-ass-scratching-belching-ape defines what a real man is. | |
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Posted: 2/19/2009 4:54:54 AM | | Buddy...Wake up and smell the flowers....Do you really want a girl like that?...I say she did you a favor...Move on and you'll see, this was a blessing in discise...Good Luckk... | |
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Posted: 2/19/2009 8:00:20 AM | Some women are not looking for a decent or good guy. Some women are looking for
damaged goods. These women tend to be damaged goods themselves. If this is that,
you're better off forgetting about it entirely, and shutting her down if she comes
back later.
If she does come back, it'll mean you're the back-up guy, and you don't want to be
that guy. | |
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Posted: 2/19/2009 8:43:02 AM |
If she does come back, it'll mean you're the back-up guy, and you don't want to be that guy. .
Exactly!!! Forget about her. She will end up doing lots of damage to you mentally if you let her come back to you. We have all had our hearts broken and its not nice and it might take time to move on but you will get there and be better and stronger for it.
She sounds very immature and if thats what she thinks a 'real man' is then I worry about her haha. A real man takes his responsibilities seriously and looks after his friends and family. Not sit about drinking beer scratching his balls. YACK! | |
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Posted: 2/19/2009 8:55:04 AM | | you deserve so much better....there are others out there that will appreciate you. don't give up and keep looking. she'll come into your life when you least expect it to happen | |
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Posted: 2/19/2009 9:00:35 AM | Sounds to me like she thinks he is some kind of real man because she has some warped sense of what a real man is.
I wonder what the other men in her life are/were like? Does her dad sit around drinkin beer all the time watchin sport? If so that would explain a lot.
You dont wanna hang around waiting for her to come back. Youre better than that. You say youre moving on with your life but if youre waiting for her then youre not really moving on.
Sounds to me like she is after a bad boy type. They may have a lot of success, short term but I doubt many of them have happy loving relationships in the end!! Except maybe the ones who only have the image but not the lifestyle. hehe | |
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Posted: 2/19/2009 9:06:16 AM | I have read many times that people that choose SO's like that are because they were raised in an environment where they didn't feel important...or some sort of abuse took place and this is the only way they were shown 'love'. They don't respect or love themselves and don't feel that they deserve any better, hence the 'bad boy'.
I'm not saying his is true in every care and I don't know her, this is just my take from seeing friends go through the same thing or from reading. Try to move a long OP...not worth your time and she will end up 'jackin you up' emotionally and mentally. | |
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Posted: 2/19/2009 9:14:34 AM |
I am actually moving on with my life but waiting for her to come back,
~OP~ I realize that you are young and probably feel as if you are "moving on," however, with the above statement, I'd have to think you aren't. Moving on is what we do when we are done. Like "stick a fork in me" DONE. If you are waiting for her, you'd best stop with your version of moving on because you're likely going to hurt someone (and yourself) in your quest of moving/waiting. That's never a good thing. JMO  | |
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