| What little treasures...
Posted: 2/25/2009 1:32:25 AM | | jazz and rock your world, make you want to stay in that relationship, how do these little treasures honor your world? What little treasures do you give back that jazz you just because you can? What would be the key ingredients for you when you are choosing a mate; partner; friendship in life and what would you not tolerate from another when looking at any of the above types of relationships? | |
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| What little treasures...
Posted: 2/25/2009 1:37:37 AM | The little jewel I love in my relationships is LAUGHTER.. I cannot live without a healthy dose of it by the day, hour, and minute.
The one thing I will not deal with, or put up with is NEGATIVITY. I have met my share of men who have nothing but bad things to say about their ex's, her parents, her kids she brought into the marriage, etc.,
Simply cannot put up with it. | |
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| What little treasures...
Posted: 2/25/2009 2:01:48 AM | One little treasure. That I've already posted elsewhere, but bears repeating in a different topic...
A boyfriend I lived with, long ago, used to sometimes come and meet me when I got off work. It was only a a couple of blocks, and a very safe area. He just wanted those few minutes' time with me. And for me to have that, too.
That rocked my world, big-time.
I guess, key ingredient for someone I'd consider now... yeah, it would be that they'd think of that sort of thing. That they'd want every moment possible with me, once we were established. | |
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| What little treasures...
Posted: 2/25/2009 4:56:04 AM | | Just let me be me, that's all I ask. That's the greatest treasure! I want to know that he's not going to run if I show my emotions, if I cry or have a bad hair day once in a while. And I will concur with the other posters who mentioned laughter. I love it when a guy really cracks me up. | |
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| What little treasures...
Posted: 2/25/2009 5:06:12 AM | Two way desire.
Two way affection.
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I am not talking about sex. | |
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| What little treasures...
Posted: 2/25/2009 5:06:42 AM | Laughter, great sex and a sick sense of humor is all I ask.
I wouldn't be able to tolerate my partner if everything is based on lies and deceit though.
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| What little treasures...
Posted: 2/25/2009 5:37:47 AM | If not run on the treadmill next to me at the gym, on the bike next to me.
Angrily using profanity when a political infomercial comes on with the same fifty year-old promises being used.
Cheering for your team at CSU vs. CU even if i'm for the Rams and you're for the Buffs.
Not always agreeing with what I say or me agreeing with what she says. Let's argue a little damnit!
If not serving your country abroad along with me, serving your countrymen and women in a soup kitchen at home while i'm over there.
Just being that one great friend in life I can turn to rather than a beer when a battlebuddy falls; and when facing the same terrible times being that alternative to the negative side of temporary depression that she can turn to. | |
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| What little treasures...
Posted: 2/25/2009 5:43:26 AM |
Two way desire.
Two way affection.
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I am not talking about sex.
Yep. Make mine a double.
'Cept I'll include sex in that lol.
It really means I wanna be a priority - not an option. | |
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| What little treasures...
Posted: 2/25/2009 6:53:49 AM | Treasures :
We are together working towards the same goal ...
Neither of us lie about anything or cheat ...
laughter and humor ...
When not working we spend some time with family and friends together and time alone together ofcourse ... plus find a little time to enjoy our own space ...
Not tolerate:
A drunk or a drugg user like meth ...
Someone that wont try to enjoy life
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I talk a lot about my past on these forums and more than I do in my everyday life ... When I mention my past to a guy I dont want his pitty , just his understanding ... I dont need pitty and I dont want it ... Pitty is like jelousy , envy and hate its worthless ...
AnglFLyn | |
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| What little treasures...
Posted: 2/25/2009 7:01:44 AM | People in my life who will tell me I fck'd up , tell me how I fck'd up, and then hug my tight and help me fix it!
People in my life who are 100% honest, will tell me how it is! and then hug me and tell me it is all going to be ok!
People in my life who can see the lighter side of any situation, who can make me smile even if they are a million miles away!.....
Someone in my life who can rock my world in every way possible!! Those are the little treasures that I would like. | |
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| What little treasures...
Posted: 2/25/2009 8:29:03 AM | Acceptance of who I am and desire to love me anyway 
Tis the gift I have to give....now I need to find a recipient of that gift ..... | |
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| What little treasures...
Posted: 2/25/2009 8:38:32 AM | I'm looking for a sugar momma, any takers? And to answer your question, the most important treasure somone can give me is gold, bars prefered.  lol | |
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Posted: 2/25/2009 8:41:38 AM | I gots 5 bucks and a prefered parking ticket for chuck E cheese!
will that do???? | |
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Posted: 2/25/2009 8:43:10 AM | Support that I enjoy playing music with friends, sometimes even at dumpy bars. I had a heart breaking separation many years ago with a person I was very much in love with over this, she hated it, so I broke it off 3 months after getting our first place together, and she begged and pleaded for me not to go, it still hurts to think about it, but that's how important my music is to me.
I give back the same respect for life’s little pleasures, if she enjoys something I support it 100% and let her have that all to herself, not get involved, because we all need our own thing and it's not always something to be shared, even with our SO. | |
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Posted: 2/25/2009 9:00:08 AM | we laugh at the same weird disgusting and stupid things all the time
i can be myself 100% and say whatever i think whenever i think it with out being afraid of what hell say or think | |
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Posted: 2/25/2009 9:25:44 AM | | Just being wanted not needed.I dont need to be with this person Im with them cause I want to be same should go for him | |
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Posted: 2/25/2009 9:55:11 AM | If I want to do something special for a lover or a friend -- I cook.
There is nothing like a good dinner to say "Thanks for being you".
And in anticipation of the question -- No, I don't make Hamburger Helper for them -- I usually make Brazole, pasta, home baked bread etc. | |
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Posted: 2/25/2009 10:22:29 AM | Someone that wants me, doesn't *need* me. I suppose I'm an- A-TYPICAL -male in the sense that I don't have a huge drive to feel *needed* by anyone.
Someone that's down to earth, humble, knows what the real world is all about.
Someone who knows that being "in-love" is always important even though it doesn't pay the bills.
Someone creative.
Someone established for herself.
Someone with a similar sense of humor.
Someone smart, witty, somewhat cultured, intelligent - (never a snob or prude though)
Someone who enjoys simple things, nature, just going for long walks or drives to nowhere.
Someone who likes to cuddle in front of the *idiot box* (the TV).
Someone who has similar tastes in music.
Someone who's libido is as hungry as my own.
Someone that can laugh when I *high five* her after we have really amazing sex.
Mike | |
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| What little treasures...
Posted: 2/25/2009 10:25:21 AM | "I gots 5 bucks and a prefered parking ticket for chuck E cheese"
I think I just fell in love!!! | |
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| What little treasures...
Posted: 2/25/2009 10:28:54 AM | mm ya, best thread of the year award!
(course it's early, get yours in) | |
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Posted: 2/25/2009 10:39:34 AM | | The jewel I'm looking for is acceptance and outrageous love. What I'm more than capable of is giving back the same. I'm an extremely talented and creative match in life and in bed. I'm looking for the same. | |
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| What little treasures...
Posted: 2/25/2009 10:56:14 AM | | Definately friendship and one that loved my goals ans aspirations. Confidence, beauty, loves to talk, and the little treasures, likes to walk around hand-in-hand puddle jumping after rainstorms, or just relaxing together on a couch, reading 2 books and taking every half an hour or so for a quick kiss and a hug. How perfect would that be..... | |
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