POF is the worst dating website I have e ver been associagted with. I found my love on tyhis website but it won't let us connect in order that we can chat. For chatting this website stinks. It won't let us connect. I am so frustrated with it that I am considering no longer using it and definitely will not recommend it to any of my friends. It has been a tremendous disappointment to both myself and my lady friend. It will not receive any recommendations from me Good grief you found your LOVE but cant figure out how to direct her to yahoo messenger to chat huh?