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 melissa22

Joined: 6/12/2005
Msg: 1
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/27/2005 6:08:45 PM
Why do some guys like 4play and not having sex?
 mikelgreco

Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 2
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/27/2005 6:24:12 PM
Hello sexy girl and welcome to the forums...

On Topic: I thought that you girls complain when we(men) don't spend any time at 4 play and go right to sex???

So which is it???

I say if you go to foreplay...you need to finish!

-Mikel/site moderator
 WildOrchid68

Joined: 2/10/2005
Msg: 3
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/27/2005 6:26:03 PM
OMG!! I wasn't aware such a creature existed! He must be destroyed immediately...lol
 Untamed_Teddybear

Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 4
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/27/2005 6:26:55 PM
personally prefer both. i mean there;s nothing like a quickie when you both just want to F!!K, but other times it's a real thrill to take time exploreing each other in various ways and really getting worked up, but even then I like to finish what got started the old fashioned way & have intercourse (most of the time...)
 mikelgreco

Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 5
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/27/2005 6:32:40 PM
Easy WILD

maybe the dude was tired...cut him some slack. LOL

-mikel
 kitkat45

Joined: 6/18/2005
Msg: 6
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/27/2005 6:33:12 PM
I concur! lol
 melissa22

Joined: 6/12/2005
Msg: 7
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/27/2005 6:33:17 PM
I meant they just want to do 4 play and not sex.
 kitkat45

Joined: 6/18/2005
Msg: 8
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/27/2005 6:33:45 PM
Should be destroyed immediatley! lol
 SuperD

Joined: 5/21/2005
Msg: 9
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/27/2005 8:21:00 PM
maybe he's just teasin ya, so you will cum back for more?
 angel4fun

Joined: 2/13/2005
Msg: 10
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Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/27/2005 8:21:56 PM
Never had that happen b-4 and hope it never happens!
 w82b

Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 11
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/27/2005 9:06:16 PM
I'm into multiple orgasms in multiple ways if she is willing and capable. I don't feel I've performed properly if she doesn't get off both ways.

Some women aren't able to have one, let alone multiples, but I like trying.
 cudahudson

Joined: 3/27/2005
Msg: 12
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/27/2005 9:22:17 PM
A man that will eat then run from the table...He ain't male, can't be.. UnAmerican commie...
 freemewithlove

Joined: 3/9/2005
Msg: 13
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Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/27/2005 9:35:52 PM
I'll take whatever is being offered,
 hot4teacher

Joined: 6/15/2005
Msg: 14
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/27/2005 9:40:15 PM
maybe he's gay....maybe we need to hunt him down and destroy him so if he eventually does breed, there won't be anymore like him...TEASING is nice but only if it eventually leads to fufilling sex.
 Quid

Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 6/27/2005 9:44:12 PM
Some guys are afraid of committing and feel that a good F!!k is the final commitment. At the same time they feel that they are not validated without getting a woman to cum. They are insecure and just the opposite of the guy who is a user. They are often needy without the outward appearence of being so. They are great lovers because they are sensitive - but they need special handling because they are not complete in themselves.
I am luck to have grown out of that... yet I still love to make love to a woman in a way that is selfless.
 79dude

Joined: 6/8/2004
Msg: 16
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/27/2005 9:53:58 PM
this cant be real...
 YadaYadaYada

Joined: 10/7/2004
Msg: 17
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/27/2005 10:16:27 PM
If there is some 4play going on.....he slips his finger between your legs...smells it or feels as if you might be loose....a lot of men will take the easy but just as stimulating way out....head


I have some male friends that are like that....and yes its totally real.....noone really wants to screw something that smells like its gone bad...

dirty girls are good.....as long as theyre bathed and arent open like the grand canyon....

(not saying youre umm...unfresh....just giving an example of why)
 wireddd

Joined: 5/25/2005
Msg: 18
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/28/2005 12:39:01 AM
good one melissa people shes makin this up!!!!!she just wants some attention,cmon melissa
 mickiesthe1

Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 19
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/28/2005 1:18:25 AM
hi, i think that if a man wants just foreplay, swhy complain, at least the interest is there, and he might be just wanting the relationship to really sizzle before he goes to home plate, enjoy it, hell its just as much fun
 passionfly

Joined: 6/19/2005
Msg: 20
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Posted: 6/28/2005 1:46:20 AM
hows this for a theory as long as were all scientists in here lol

He thinks if he has sex with a women its actually cheating but foreplay isnt and he still gets to orgasm (as well as she can too). I've known guys that thought this lol

btw, if you tease a girl yur not gay your just not committed to going further. big difference.

Another possibility is he can't get it up at that particular moment and is embarrased by that fact. Men aren't machines ya know. We get tired after work or lots strenuous physical chores or labor or exercise. After I ran a small marathon, you could jolt me with 20,000 amps of electricty and I probably couldn't move a muscle lol
 mickiesthe1

Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 21
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/28/2005 5:47:58 AM
hi mike, i read your profile, gom ahead cut me from your forum , but as i stated, make up your mind where you stand, one reply was start it finish it, another, cut the guy some slack, you mix message yourself. if a guy and girl just want to have fun, why not foreplay, if things get hot, guess what, the first round of foreplay makes the second round even hotter and it usually gets finished, lol im a brat and know it,
 mickiesthe1

Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 22
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/28/2005 5:51:19 AM
hey freemewithlove, you got it, just do what feels good, sometimes you can have just as much fun just with foreplay, it can lead to only you and your partner want it to,
 TheDevilsAdvocate

Joined: 2/27/2005
Msg: 23
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/28/2005 5:57:29 AM

Melissa: Why do some guys like 4play and not having sex?

Mik: I say if you go to foreplay...you need to finish!

wildorchid68: OMG!! I wasn't aware such a creature existed! He must be destroyed immediately...lol

Mik: Easy WILD, maybe the dude was tired...cut him some slack. LOL


There was no mixed message - he was merely commenting on something someone else said.

Read ALL the posts before you comment negatively, hun. It saves time and energy.

Maria XOXO

OT: Either way is good, as long as you both get off
 WeekendHuntressKatelynn21

Joined: 3/25/2005
Msg: 24
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/28/2005 6:02:53 AM
One without the other?
Wow.. Hmmm...
I dunno..
I have never had one without the other..
I wish I could contribute...
I didn't know what the topic was..
so I thought I would check it out..

But alas... I have nothing..
unless you wanna hear bad experiences..
I have a few of those...
LMAO
It's funny because it is sad...

Katelynn
 xoxox

Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 25
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/28/2005 6:03:06 AM
He might just like to build up a case of severe anticipation. He might not want to have intercourse because of religious beliefs or the exchange of bodily fluids. He might be extra private about his privates. He might be clinicaly insane. He might have something catching and not want to give it to anyone else. He might not know there is anything beyond foreplay. He might have made his mum a promise. he might know when to quit. He might think by stopping short of penetration he can keep you from falling in love with him, or him you. It could be that he is a spy and it would blow his cover. Maybe he was traumatized by a particular sex act and can't bring himself to do it again. He might just like making you guess. Or he could just be Canadian.
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