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 devil__angel

Joined: 6/23/2005
Msg: 1
How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/27/2005 9:24:24 PM
Ok folks, I need your opinion.....How soon is too soon to give up the goods?
 PattyMan2001

Joined: 6/5/2005
Msg: 2
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How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/27/2005 9:26:05 PM
Its never too soon....LOL




Seriously though, theres no real set time on it, its just when you feel comfortable enough.
 devil__angel

Joined: 6/23/2005
Msg: 3
How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/27/2005 9:27:22 PM
LOL....but the first 5 min is out of the question...lol....KIDDING! Down Boys!
 LaylaRose

Joined: 6/13/2005
Msg: 4
How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/27/2005 9:29:02 PM
'The Goods' should be given early and often as you so desire. Don't play games. If you like sex and you want sex and you want to have sex with the guy you are with.....Then HAVE SEX....protect yourself, use a condom (even for a blow job) and have as much sex as the kitty can handle.
 Quid

Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 5
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How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/27/2005 10:02:01 PM
I agree... be honest - be open.
It is only playing to tease and wait.... esp if you really like what you are doing.

Love often - Love always... just be kind.

Protect yourself and others.
 T,D and H

Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 6
How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/27/2005 11:00:27 PM
No such thing!

Oh wait, are you talking about Prince Charming and "soulmates" and all that bunk? I really wouldn't know.
 mule6900

Joined: 6/10/2005
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How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/28/2005 12:01:45 AM
It depends, You are the one who has to feel if there is something there or not. You can't go by what others think. It's like everyone says "everyone has an opinion and an ***hole and both stink" it's what you feel comfortable with. Thanks
 grubeci

Joined: 10/30/2003
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How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/28/2005 12:53:51 AM
right away...you can cover up sluttiness with a good relationship afterwards. ?) I'm not sure..I'm new.
 devil__angel

Joined: 6/23/2005
Msg: 9
How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/28/2005 5:06:12 AM
LOL...thats too funny
 7times

Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 10
How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/28/2005 5:08:34 AM
just tease the shit out of him and if he has a problem with that he isn't worth it
 mark130273

Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 11
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How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/28/2005 5:09:03 AM
depends on what you want from the relationship............if it quicky hello and see you when ever.then 5 mins is ok...

but if its more maybe a couple of dates ????

who really knows???

lol
 xoxox

Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 12
How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/28/2005 6:06:48 AM
Never do it before you meet, since he won't be there.
 andimwritingstuff

Joined: 2/18/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 6/28/2005 6:45:00 AM
xoxox^^^^^
you crack me up!

OT: There is no such thing as the right time, when it feels good, do it!
 brad37767

Joined: 6/6/2004
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Posted: 6/28/2005 6:54:34 AM
Being that im here looking for a serious relationship... if she gives up the goods on the first date then I wont be seeing her for anything but sex after... no long term... Maybe it is my age and im old fashion... but I would have to wonder how many other times she has done that.... It is being able to have respect for that person.
 CountryBoy75

Joined: 6/23/2005
Msg: 15
How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/28/2005 6:54:55 AM
There isnt a such thing as too soon!! You should get to know someone a bit first, to see if you are going to click but if you are just in it for the sex and the other person knows that , then what is the problem? You are an adult at 18, and you make decissions, not always the right ones !! Go for it.....
 ky_jello

Joined: 5/17/2005
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Posted: 6/28/2005 7:12:30 AM
hell...i figger if i'm comfortable enough to let him see me jiggle....i know him well enough.
 Passionate Artist

Joined: 6/22/2005
Msg: 17
How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/28/2005 8:59:48 AM
Really!!

Do you really want to know your lovers total history before you sleep with him/her? What's the formula for that, maybe and application or a questionaire. People by nature are liars. Most of us will tell you what you want to hear so we can bed you.

Please save " I'm not like that" bullsh*t. Just telling people that you are not the type to lie is a lie itself.

Want Proof?
Think of a time in your life when you first found the "person of your dreams". Wasn't she or he everything you wanted in a person. In the end, obviously not, or none of us would be here looking. Ever notice the more you know a person the more you never really knew them in the first place. How many times have you heard or said, "you are not the person I fell in love with". Of course they were, but we tend to be on our best behavior when we are first with someone ( are you really gonna pick your nose and wipe it underneath their couch).

The sooner we are more real about what and who we are and stop trying to impress, the better off we will be as a whole.
 UlaLume

Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 18
How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/28/2005 9:02:44 AM
Do what you want to do when you want to/are comfortable enough to do it. There's no actual timeframe on these things.
 devil__angel

Joined: 6/23/2005
Msg: 19
How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/28/2005 9:26:00 AM
That didn't really answer my question...but very true :)
 Al Paulchino

Joined: 5/25/2005
Msg: 20
How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/28/2005 9:32:49 AM
Too soon....hmmmm.....
I've got it!
To soon is after 1 or 2 strokes, or even before penetration.....
 sljr

Joined: 5/10/2005
Msg: 21
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How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/28/2005 9:32:51 AM
From my prospective (male) if she gives it up in the first 2 dates or earlyer then she is just a "**** toy". So if you want a long term realationship wait a few dates. It gonna be worth it hun.
 xoxox

Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 22
How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/28/2005 9:33:38 AM
Why would there be a second date if the first one went bust?
 ky_jello

Joined: 5/17/2005
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How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/28/2005 10:12:27 AM
From my prospective (male) if she gives it up in the first 2 dates or earlyer then she is just a "**** toy". So if you want a long term realationship wait a few dates. It gonna be worth it hun.

you've GOT to be kidding me! can you feel my eyeroll? i know this goes back to the ol' double standard....but what the hell are you....taking us in the first 2 dates if you know you're just gonna forget our phone numbers when miss claims to still be a virgin comes along? much obliged to be just a "fu_k toy" if that's the kind of man you are. of course...if the real world were fair....you'd be wearing your post around your neck as a warning.....
 Passionate Artist

Joined: 6/22/2005
Msg: 24
How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/28/2005 10:33:58 AM

Too soon....hmmmm.....
I've got it!
To soon is after 1 or 2 strokes, or even before penetration.....


This is the answer!!!

 Mr O

Joined: 3/26/2005
Msg: 25
How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/28/2005 10:59:20 AM
how about in the car on the way to pick her up!!!

thats too soon!
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