| Concerning makin love..
Posted: 3/16/2009 6:06:31 PM | Do you still do it the way you used too? Or are you more consertive in your middle ages.....There's really no reason to explainning this thread it's quite clear isn't it? Are you just as kinky as you ever were? or loose or are you done...Well Done? I'm speaking of men and women not one or the other...Thank You. P.S. It looks like a few of us are ready for the cementary doesn't anyone do the bump anymore? | |
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| Concerning makin love..
Posted: 3/16/2009 6:17:15 PM | mmm that's for me to know and you to (never) find out, Byrd, ma man...
Check out the sex forums - they get up to all sorts of stuff.
Mind you, most of it is probably their wishful imaginations. But still...kinky isn't the word for some of it. Freaky is probably more appropriate..
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| Concerning makin love..
Posted: 3/16/2009 6:21:38 PM | I suppose the difference now is that I don't have many unrealized fantasies, so there isn't that driving need to push the envelope. I'm still "adventuruous" and know those "kinky" things that I enjoy, and there are fewer things to "try", just to have experienced them. Still, with a partner, I'm willing to do almost anything, if it brings her to a higher level of excitement or pleasure.
So, I suppose I'm "less" kinky than once I was, but not by much. | |
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| Concerning makin love..
Posted: 3/16/2009 6:24:13 PM | | Well nothing personal but your not my type either I don't just hop in the sack with any gal..I wasn't looking to be freaky or anything like it..I'm pretty crippled up myself and sex is a distant star to me..But go ahead and call me a pervert I was one long ago.. | |
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| Concerning makin love..
Posted: 3/16/2009 6:44:00 PM |
Well nothing personal but your not my type either I don't just hop in the sack with any gal..I wasn't looking to be freaky or anything like it..I'm pretty crippled up myself and sex is a distant star to me..But go ahead and call me a pervert I was one long ago
Ok..you're a pervert..
Well you asked me!
Oh Byrd, I was only joshing. It gets so tediously PC around here..I'm sorry you're all crippled up and I hope you feel better real soon... | |
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| Concerning makin love..
Posted: 3/16/2009 6:49:06 PM | It 's probably an individual situation.
For adventure, people have to be tight...well involved and caring for each other. If its casual, i cant imagine people being too creative.
I speak to a lot of people in my travels, and those in committed realtionships seem to have the best intimacy and with the most adventure. | |
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Posted: 3/16/2009 7:01:36 PM | | You are definitely a pervert. That said, I am better than ever. Does that answer your question? | |
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*Don*
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Joined: 1/30/2009
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| Concerning makin love..
Posted: 3/16/2009 7:08:00 PM | I'm still the same old kinky horndog that I was when I was younger. Just that now, once I've accomplished one of my more acrobatic manoeuvers, I have to rest for a while.
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| Concerning makin love..
Posted: 3/16/2009 8:07:11 PM | | I guess that's a no for number 9 asleep at the wheel huh? I'm a big man 350 pounds 6'6 and besides my recent injuries I can still go although slow..My old friend says I remind her of the seaturtles in the Glopopous Islands it takes about 12 hours but there's pure pleasure on their mug..I guess I'm somewhat of a dirty old man having been in love and lost someone sex hasn't been in my life for quite sometime..I wonder if I'll ever do it again.. not like this anyway I'd be in traction. | |
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Posted: 3/16/2009 8:21:12 PM | Personally I think alot of women my age range are just coming into our own, once we are freed of all the bs that was shoveled at us from the time we were in training bras.
Being sexy isnt dirty, being sensuous isnt a bad thing. Knowing how to please a man and keep him wanting more is actually a really really nice talent to have. The kids are grown and now we have "ME" time, time to explore at our leisure the things we want to know more about.
Not having to worry about becoming pregnant gives us another type of freedom. Most just need the courage to accept who they are now and allow themselves to bloom vs looking behind (not literally but hey it might be the case) at who they used to be.
There is a difference about being confident in who you are and what you bring to the table (bed) and being loose and trying to gain validation thru numerous sex partners. | |
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| Concerning makin love..
Posted: 3/16/2009 9:31:25 PM | | I do regularly take my pill, but other than the making sure that I don't miss that I agree with sapphireeyes. I have experienced more fireworks than I ever thought were possible. I realize part of it has to do with my partner. I was quite surprised how much better sex could be with the right person. | |
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| Concerning makin love..
Posted: 3/16/2009 10:01:40 PM | You know what they say about age and fine wine?
That's all I am saying about that. ; ) | |
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Posted: 3/16/2009 11:31:49 PM | | My new way of making love is to imagine it. I am not sure what might happen if I ever got in bed with a woman again. I would probably spend some time just laying there in amazement, stunned that it was happening. If she lasted through that without getting dressed, I would probably go with something simple to stall for time, hoping to remember what else to do. From there it's anybody's guess. | |
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Posted: 3/17/2009 6:08:28 AM | Im far more adventurous and uninhibited than i used to be when i was in my 20's and 30's.............
It "all" started once i hit 40.......was like *shazzam*......LOL 
I had a HUGE surge in my sex drive and it's showing no sign of slowing down......  | |
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Posted: 3/17/2009 8:45:52 AM | Yeah .... like I remember.
Ok I kind of remember but - for me no REAL girlfriend equals no sex.
I did the umm ..... dating for a bit - that was nothing but sex just for the heck of it ..... not really that nice at all.
I just stopped.
That would be five years now - no sex.
Hopefully someday I will cross paths with a REAL two way match again. At that point everything about sex would be special. She can set the "kink" level. Just being together will be very nice. | |
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Posted: 3/17/2009 9:47:50 AM | | I'll be 52 this year and I'm better than ever, actually like a porn star compared to my 20's.... and my plumbing works incredibly great, I can go for hours, and I have never used v....I also need to thank older Women for the inspiration wow.... | |
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*Don*
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Joined: 1/30/2009
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| Concerning makin love..
Posted: 3/17/2009 10:07:09 AM | Things do change as we get older. I've noticed that I've taken a lot of the hooks and shackle attachments off the ceiling in the bedroom. As I got older, it was just too hard to get up there to make full use of them. And the mirror came down long ago. Ceiling mirrors and plus 45 bedrooms don't mix well.
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| Concerning makin love..
Posted: 3/17/2009 11:34:50 AM | I was doing pretty good in the sex department until the marriage broke. Some of the best I had with the Old X that being going on 14 years ago. Oh there has been a fling here and there but If I could get into a fulltime relationship with just that special one I think I'd be better than ever!!
Yep there would be a thing or to I'd like to wiggle, giggle or lick a little differently now that wasn't tried oh way back then... | |
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Posted: 3/17/2009 11:37:50 AM | | Yep it's been well over 5 for me too don't feel so bad now...I have had offers though and turned them down but the closest one was a woman my buddy who said she would do it if I got on top and I said I'd do it if she got on top no one did it that day....We just laid there side by side one hopeing the other would get on top.. | |
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| Concerning makin love..
Posted: 3/17/2009 12:19:05 PM | | Well sugar I feel bad for you but why didnt you take turns being on top, or try side by side or well if nothing else god did give you fingers and hands for a reason. | |
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