| What makes a good lover?
Posted: 6/28/2005 8:38:54 AM | This is the age old question that many of us think we are qualified to answer. You hear guys talking about how they can get any woman off. Not likely!!!! Only in their dreams maybe.
There is no answer. We are all different. There is no universal way to please everyone.
Ask yourself this question; does your partner curl your toes? If yes, then he/she is a great lover. It's amazing how many people in the world feel they are the cat's a$$ when it comes to great sex.
A few basic rules still apply:
1. I'm not an authority on this but I believe a man's willingness to perform orally is a requirement, and his penis probably should be more than 3 inches. Ladies as long as I don't hear and echo between your legs it's all good.
2. Pay attention to your lover's reactions and body language.(unless you are an idiot you can tell when you are doing it right.)
2. Communicate with each other.(dont' be afraid to ask for what you want.)
The rest is up to you. | |
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| What makes a good lover?
Posted: 6/28/2005 8:50:59 AM | I think this one's been done before - Might want to do a search before you post a "new" thread, hun.
Just a heads up.
Maria XOX | |
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| What makes a good lover?
Posted: 6/28/2005 9:03:24 AM | did a search and nothing came back or I wouldn't have started it. Only thing that returned in my search was my post that I started. I mean no disrespect but I made sure to read the rules. Maybe it was an old thread that was deleted I dont' know but you can check
what I searched was "what makes a good lover"
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| What makes a good lover?
Posted: 6/28/2005 9:24:18 AM | I don't know who is universally a good lover , but I know who is a good lover for me.
He cares about me as a human being....and he KNOWS me....I can see it in his eyes, I can hear it in his voice.
Every movement of my lips/hands brings a response from him......I KNOW that I'm driving him wild. And his touch sends shivers through me.
He is confidant.....he doesn't keep asking me if he's doing it right....he KNOWS from my responses what I'm loving, and what I"m not. He knows when to ask,when to communicate but he does it without seeming unsure of himself, and without breaking the mood.
He knows that making love isn't some serious rated competition......He can laugh comfortably in bed and it's a positive part of the whole experience. Something stupid WILL eventually happen to one of us in bed....and he has to be able to laugh along with me and take it in stride.
He can tell me what he wants and needs without akwardness or embarrassment...he shares his fantasies with me, and wants to hear mine.
My perfect lover is vocal, I hear his pleasure in his voice....and he talks to me....but it's erotic instead of nasty.... seductive instead of crass. | |
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| What makes a good lover?
Posted: 6/28/2005 10:27:43 AM | good lover to me consist of
having a good time before doing anything sexual,,,most women like to connect before we start
playing talkin and laughing during sex is a major turn on for me,,,,its the openess and connection taht works for me,,,mental stimulation
as she ssaid required size and skill is mandatory......
paying attention to waht i want and need,,,if i gotta do it myself wth are you there
and talkin playing and joking afterwards
a friend of mine told me even the worse p*(&(& he had was good...tahts not the case with us,,,lol | |
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| What makes a good lover?
Posted: 6/28/2005 12:06:40 PM | | A person who isn't afraid to show emotions! I'm not a freakin psychic, so don't treat me like one! | |
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| What makes a good lover?
Posted: 6/28/2005 1:59:47 PM | Moist towellettes and a credit card that isn't maxed out, plus an ample supply of alcohol based internal lubricant.....  | |
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| What makes a good lover?
Posted: 6/29/2005 8:29:02 AM | Someone that wants to bring you to places you never thought possible - and enjoys coming along for the ride.
The best ones are the ones that are so in tune with you, that they almost become you.
Very rare...but they do exist. | |
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| What makes a good lover?
Posted: 6/29/2005 10:53:58 AM | i agree with that it makes u show your emotions and if u r in love u would not careabout anything on a sexual subject.  | |
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| What makes a good lover?
Posted: 6/29/2005 11:45:20 AM | I don't believe that any one person can be a good lover, I think it is a question of who makes great lover's'...
I think when 2 people are compatible emotionally, and physically the sex is explosive and can not be attributed to any one person in that relationship. Especially when you have a mutual respect, you become more concerned about pleasing the other person - and when you have 2 people battling it out over who can send the other over the edge in ecstacy, its insanely amazing .
I also think if you are open to talking about your partners likes and dislikes it's impossible to have a bad 'session' | |
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| What makes a good lover?
Posted: 7/8/2005 4:10:28 PM | | genetics. if she enjoys me and cums without problems. bad lovers dont cum due to bad genetics | |
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| What makes a good lover?
Posted: 7/8/2005 4:31:51 PM | A man who can comfortably say
"I want to give you what you need...what is that?"
Then I say
"I need this or that...can you do that?"
Then he says
"Yeah...I want to do that for you...I want you to be happy."
And I say
"See, that's why I'm the luckiest woman alive..."
And he says
"Awwww shucks...hehehehe"
Then we reverse it and I do it for him...now that, is love. To me!
That is the world's greatest lover.
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| What makes a good lover?
Posted: 7/13/2005 8:31:26 PM | the freakier the better for me
and a guy who calls me only when he wants sex... | |
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| What makes a good lover?
Posted: 7/13/2005 8:45:04 PM | to blastkist
"I want to give you what you need...what is that?"
"Yeah...I want to do that for you...I want you to be happy."
"Awwww shucks...hehehehe"
"I just want you to feel good and be happy like I said"
And I would say all these things very comfortably | |
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| What makes a good lover?
Posted: 7/13/2005 11:35:56 PM | | soemone who will do what I want without having to tell him..... he just knows. | |
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