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Posted: 3/18/2009 6:06:40 PM | | I met a woman on here. I went to her house 3 times and things were going great, she was all over me. The last time I left her house she acted like she didn't want me to leave. Then she never called me back or texted or anything. A couple days go by and we talk and she said she lost her job. I brought flowers to her house and left them at her door. I thought she needed to feel better. I didn't even get a thanks. No email. Nothing. So shes online all day at work on here and I think that's why she lost her job. But really I think I was used for a good time. nice a** 32 her profile reads and yes it was nice. Now alot of you guys might be thinking hey, great "a good time " but how many times a week is she doing this ? So I emailed her tonight and said she isn't a very good person to not even say thank you, she said, I think you need help. Well what do you think ? | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 6:17:46 PM | | I think you've been spending too much wasted emotional energy and time on a trollup..... I wouldn't have even taken the time to let her know that she got to ya by writing this......... | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 6:31:28 PM | You went out w/ a woman that says she has a nice a$$ in her profile and u expected what????
I am really curious about your profile......
why do u state "You must have been on this site at least 6 months for me to contact you"?????? | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 6:31:36 PM | This should be a lesson to you most women do not let a stranger know where they live on the first date.
As to not saying thank you well she has no manners and she is a tramp so what did you expect. | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 6:58:50 PM | So you were intrigued by Ms. Nice A$$’s a$$, and decided to see if it was all that nice before getting to know what kind of person she really was. Seems like her a$$ might have been the only nice thing about her.
Maybe next time you won’t be so eager to check out the basement before finding out what’s going on in the attic first. 
I am really curious about your profile......
why do u state "You must have been on this site at least 6 months for me to contact you"??????
No kidding, especially since he’s only been here for two weeks.
Is it just me, or is there a whole lotta WTF? in the forum air today? | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 7:08:01 PM | It could also have been that things were going well, and you left right when it was
getting good, and she was hurt or offended. Then you send flowers and a bunch of
calls and texts. Then you send a critical letter telling her she is not a good person.
Do you kind of see why she might think you need help? | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 7:11:09 PM | You are how old playing the "your a meany" e-mail game?
Do you and your buddies have plans to toilet papering her house and making prank calls all evening too?
<div class="quote">Is it just me, or is there a whole lotta WTF? in the forum air today?
Nope it's not just you! At least he's not talking about cowboys!
Yes you need help! | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 7:19:40 PM | | It is a matter of moral ethics, someone you know loses her job and you send "hope things get better gift" nothing wrong with that, I think a thank you would suffice. As for your comment, I think you are out of line. | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 7:48:12 PM | Definately alot of WTF going on tonight!!
Just blocked my first forum user!!
Should I start a thread whining about it? | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 7:55:18 PM | Are these the same morals and ethics that had you at her house on the first 3 dates?
Or the one posting about her profile and her use of the word a$$ on it?
Then would it be your morals and ethics that drove you to sent to nanny nanny bo bo e-mail about her not being very nice?
When "I" do something nice for someone it is really for me. Be it to look good for doing it or to make myself feel better for doing something at all!
Sound like you did it to get back in there and it didn't work! So skip the morals and the ethics and take a look at your busted "EGO"....
To bad she doesn't think as much of you as you do! | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 7:57:19 PM | | Regardless of whether she's a slut or a nice piece of tail, whatever... You're out of line showing up to her house uninvited, no matter how "noble" your motives. | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 8:00:20 PM |
It is a matter of moral ethics, someone you know loses her job and you send "hope things get better gift" nothing wrong with that, I think a thank you would suffice.
Okay, OP, all kidding aside. Sure, a thank you would have been nice.
But here’s the thing, and you may want to check your own moral compass before getting yourself in a snit about her lack of appreciation.
You say that you gave her flowers because you “thought she needed to feel better”. Ask yourself this: what was the real motive behind that surprise visit with gift-in-hand? I have a sneaking suspicion that your intent was a bit less selfless than you would have us believe, and here’s why:
When you do something nice for a person, you do it selflessly because you want to, not because you’re expecting something in return. If it’s acknowledged, great, but if not, that’s okay too because that was NOT your objective.
In this case, however, you hadn’t heard from her in a couple of days and wanted to see her again, thinking that a nice bouquet of flowers would at least open the door for more communication. She would see what a sweet, thoughtful guy you were and you’d be back together with the nice a$$.
So your little "thoughtful" gesture backfired on you and you’re upset, which proves that your intent was more about your needs then it was about trying to make somebody feel better.
Next time you want to do something nice for a person, do it because the act itself is what's rewarding, not because you're hoping for a certain outcome. Otherwise, you'll almost always be disappointed because you can't control how--or if--the other person is going to respond. | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 9:34:06 PM |
she said, I think you need help
Kind of hard to disagree with that. Since the last time you talked and she said she lost her job the next time you talk it is to accuse her of using you. Make up whatever you want between the time you spoke with her and the time you emailed her. None of it happened to anyone but you. You made the whole thing up and convinced yourself to the point where you wanted to put her in her place.
Exactly what did she do wrong other then not beating down your door? | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 10:03:12 PM | OP Now that all is said and done maybe just move on.
Am I the only one to think that a kind gesture is just that? Where are the book of codes that dictate how, when and why we do things a specific way?
You had sex. Liked this woman. She lost her job. You dropped off flowers and a note. Did I miss something here where there is some ritual we are supposed to follow?
I agree that you should not have jumped on her. She didn't say thank you. We don't know why. Could have been the stress of losing her job. But, what's done is done.
All aside, you did a nice thing with kind thoughts in mind. She didn't respond the way you had liked. 'Tis better to find out now than down the road later on. | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 11:50:35 PM | Maybe next time you won’t be so eager to check out the basement before finding out what’s going on in the attic first.
LOL!
One more good reason to take the time to really get to know someone....... | |
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Posted: 3/19/2009 12:46:05 AM | Give flowers to a woman who appreciates it. Let this headcase play her dumbass games. Be glad that she dumped you quickly.  | |
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Posted: 3/19/2009 2:35:34 AM | Possibly she's simply a moody, greedy, needy biotch who uses guys for whatever she needs.
Point to be noting though is that she told you in her profile she had a "nice ass" that should read to you : "I'm a piece of meat and it's all ass".
What woman sells herself with that sort of line on the internet? Hookers.
So there you go. You got what she advertised. | |
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Posted: 3/19/2009 3:40:17 AM | I think it was a nice gesture to drop flowers off at her house upon hearing she lost her job. I also think a thank you was in order.
I do agree with everyone else that anyone who says they have a nice azz in their profile is probably not looking to get serious with anyone.
Sounds like she probably had a new guy in her life. He'll probably be gone next week, try again then. | |
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Posted: 3/19/2009 6:20:35 AM | Ok so I NEVER write on these forums but in this case I am compelled to. None of you know the man that posted the first message and you obviously have nothing better to do with your lives than cut up one of the decent men on this site.
Come on people be real, she is a whore and he fell for the same thing that 98% of the men in the world fall for....some tiny b*tch that walks all over men.
What crime did he commit by posting on here to ask if others have been treated the same? NOTHING other than coming across you losers. WOW I can't believe that you people can be so judgmental. Maybe we should look into all of your dating histories to see how perfect you people are because I can tell you now that 98% of the men and women on here are out for sex, they lie and they are bored with life. I particularly LOVE the married people on here pretending they are single.
So maybe you should crawl back under the rocks you came out of and leave this decent man alone. I am aware it is easy to pick on someone with a heart, but grow up yourselves and remember when you point at someone, 4 fingers are pointing back at you.
And yes, I AM aware you will all lash out at me now and I don't care. I won't be back on the forums EVER as I HAVE a life. | |
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Posted: 3/19/2009 6:51:35 AM | | I think it was a caring, thoughtful gesture on your part to get her flowers. Now I would suggest that you leave the whole thing alone. Maybe get to know a person a little better next time before you get physically intimate. Like somebody else said, check out the attic before you get to the basement. | |
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Posted: 3/19/2009 6:53:27 AM |
It is a matter of moral ethics, someone you know loses her job and you send "hope things get better gift" nothing wrong with that, I think a thank you would suffice. As for your comment, I think you are out of line.
Why torture yourself? She doesn't want to talk to you. You showed concern for her when she was done, she didn't show any class in getting back to you to thank you as you said.
Move on. She's not worth another thought. | |
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Posted: 3/19/2009 7:35:47 AM | You went out w/ a woman that says she has a nice a$$ in her profile and u expected what???? Can't a guy dream?
The wanton sex you put this woman through is what cost her her job. Your masculine powers left her unable to concentrate at work. She sat in her chair, babbling incoherently under the spell of that man-god that is you. Now she see that partaking of your overpowering essence will ruin her for any other worldly function, and so she can only crawl away from the bonfire of passion lest she be utterly consumed. Hey, it happens.. | |
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Posted: 3/19/2009 7:46:45 AM | | So the next time so inconciderate prick cuts you off on the road, I'm sure you won't give him the finger he deserves, you be the man that you are and just smile. Lol, because I'm sure when you find someone who deserves to be told off you do it, but as for me you think I shouldn't have sent the email right ? Well if it's so easy to just let people be, why can't you just walk away from this post but instead keep coming back to argue, what a mistake posting to ask advice knowing that people like you exist. Myself I wont even be back to see your reply, you can stay in your own little world alone. | |
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Posted: 3/19/2009 7:48:24 AM | | this applies to puss master | |
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