| How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/20/2009 12:14:18 PM | This may sound strange to some, but I have met a lot of females, the ones less afraid to be open with their sexual desires, express the desire to their boyfriend or husband to see them with another guy. This may sound sick to many (especially homophobic on insecure men) but it is just the reverse of men fantasizing about their woman with another woman.
There are men that would never do this of course, others that would like it but would not want their woman to see them in that light (emasculated), and others that kinda feel liberated cuz they get to explore their fantasy with another guy, even if mostly straight. So two questions:
A) How many of you women have fantasized about your man this way?
B) How many men would do this with/for your woman (assuming she'd do the same for you with another woman)? | |
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| How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/20/2009 12:20:55 PM | I have seen 2 men together in porn, and found it hot....but no I don't think of a man I am interested in seeing him touch someone else....I have the MMF fantacy but only if they are both concentrated on me...and I would never actually do that ....but its fun to think about.
And I would never be with another woman because someone wanted me to...I think women are beautiful but not into them sexually and I won't comprimise my values for someone's fantacy and I don't think a man should either. | |
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| How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/20/2009 12:48:12 PM | OMG.....that reminds me of the joke about three explorers lost in a jungle. They happen upon this tribe of natives who were none to friendly looking. The chief walks up to the first guy and says to him "You chose death or glubnik?" The dude turns to his buddies and goes "What the he11 is glubnik?" Of course no one knows, and, figuring it couldn't be worse than death says to the chief "I'll take glubnik." The chief turns to his tribe and shouts "HIM CHOSE GLUBNIK" to which he recieves a great and mighty cheer. The tribe proceeds to grab the man, bend him over a log, and, one by one gives him the pounding of a lifetime while his two buddies look on in abject horror. The chief walks up to the second guy and asks him the same question..."You chose death or glubnik?" The second guy, not wanting to die, hangs his head and whispers "glubnik." Again, the same treatment. The chief walks up to the final explorer and asks the dreaded "You chose death or glubnik" to which the third guy says "Fvck you....I chose DEATH!!!" The chief turns to his tribe and shouts "HIM CHOSE DEATH." Again, there is a mighty cheer from the tribe followed by the chief saying "But first, little glubnik!" 
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| How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/20/2009 2:32:16 PM | Lobsterteeth
Hmmmmmm......
So, would you be willing to do that for your open minded gal pal Mr OP?
Inquiring minds want to know
you obviously didn't take the time to look at the OP's profile,...... he's gay.
OP... I don't think that too many of the folks who would be willing to do this would put it out here for all the POF pond to see... probably something they'd choose to keep to themselves.
To each their own I say... as long as no one gets hurt. | |
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| How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/20/2009 2:39:57 PM | Very few women I've known have said that seeing 2 men together is a fantasy of theirs. More have been 100% straight but a few would try being with another woman.
As for me, I have VERY few limits sexually... but this is one of them. I have no desire to try anything with another guy, and couldnt even fake it for an SO. I just love womens bodies too much!  | |
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| How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/20/2009 3:50:57 PM | No way in hell. I am no homophobe, but guy on guy stuff even intimate contact I find very repulsive. If my woman was into MMF I don't reckon I could come close to going along with it, the idea of another naked guy in my personal space would shut me down sexually, and probably him lol! Yes, part of it is the demasculation issue. And part of it is I find it dirty and unappealing. I've known few women where this M on male thing did something for them other than make them gag.
Being in a FFM encounter would probably be a turn on for me, it's a fantasy I suppose and yeah it is a double standard. It's also a pretty common double standard. However, I don't let my sex life with my GF be affected by some innnate and probalby childish fantasy. Not her bag = not my bag. Nuff said...
"Heard about the new lesbian marraige certificate? It's called a licker license!" | |
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| How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/20/2009 4:19:30 PM | Hmmm...
Well this must be a whole new breed of men and women, because I have heard it from people when drunk or when they know you well. Maybe it is like the other poster said, no one here with a pic and profile would admit it. Especially when men say they wouldn't want to see their woman with another woman. I know that is very common so it is hard for me to know how forthcoming everyone is being. I can only go by what I've heard and seen I guess, which probably carries a bit more weight in the end.
By the way, when I said with another man, I didn't say anal sex, just even oral, etc. Even straight men often get oral sex from other men, because men know how to do it well, just like women know how to please women. I'm not saying everyone will want to, but all the adamant protests seem a little extreme from real life situations. And to say that a woman with another woman is totally cool and hot and that a man with another man is revolting, is just the margin of how dishonest many are and how far society has to go yet. When a man is horny (especially drunk) the things I've seen the straight ones do to get off would apparently shock many.
There's a joke: What's the difference between a gay guy and a straight guy? A gay guy says, "man, that was fun last night" and the straight man says, "man, I sure was drunk last night, what happened?"
Before everyone starts defending their manhood, I realize it's just a joke and does not apply to most straight men of course, but I later found out how it came about with some recurring situations I experienced. | |
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| How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/20/2009 4:32:53 PM | If a man wants to be with another man, he isn't with me. If I wanted to be with a woman, I wouldn't be with a man. I don't want to share a guy with anyone period. Why in the world would I want to actually witness him with someone else?
Yup gross. | |
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| How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/20/2009 4:44:40 PM | I just hear it as a fantasy a lot from men and women, even if their partners object and wouldn't go along with it. Everyone on POF must be different from every other place I've talked about it. Oh well, just was posing the question, thanks for the comments.  | |
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| How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/20/2009 4:45:53 PM | What I really find “open minded” (and quite annoying honestly) is the label you are putting on anybody who can’t find this practice a turn on, as “homophobic”, “insecure” and “repressed”.
It surely show how emancipated you are compared to us close minded beings. | |
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| How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/20/2009 4:47:16 PM | I love being shared by two men, its amazing. I love guys who are openminded enough to perform for me if i ask and both of them go to the ends of the earth to pleasure me in whatever way i desire. Something about men not afriad to touch each other, share in the love and enjoy each others body that is such a turn on.
LOL at msg number 9, your hanging round with the wrong guys.
And to all who say a big NO NO to the idea, i would have to say, dont knock it till you tried it.
OMG iv been spoilt, will i ever meet one man at a time who can sexualy satisfy me now ???? Im bi by the way, so ladies welcome too, though i do prefer all the attention of two bi men given the opportunity.
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| How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/20/2009 4:55:16 PM |
And to say that a woman with another woman is totally cool and hot and that a man with another man is revolting, is just the margin of how dishonest many are and how far society has to go yet
Now we see your real intent of your post OP. You are trying to push gay views on others while not-so-subtly slamming some people's(includin my) viewpoints. You asked a question. Some of us responded honestly. Now it seems I must step in the ring with you:
Get this through your head - Some enjoy same sex encounters, some do not. Some do the bi thing - this is more predominant amongst women, hmmm....that tell you anything? You disagree? Bring it on.
I stand by my honest view that I do not find seeing woman on woman as revolting as seeing man on man. I am not alone in this. I REFUSE to be put down because of my own personal opinion preference. I do not slam your preference for sausaue dude, it's your life choice and more power to you. I REFUSE to be called a homophobe. I grew up West Coast and have gay/lesbian friends. Oh wait, maybe I should just say gay so you wont attack my stance of using two different terms regarding two different sexes lifestle huh? Gonna bring in the PC police? How dare you attack anyone's viewpoint if it is thier opinion? Take your drama coercive crap to some place where it's considered in good taste. Doing your little social coersion here shows a lack of good taste and judgment from you. | |
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| How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/20/2009 5:02:15 PM | | Wow, touched on a big nerve with lots of macho manly men-men. Gawd, the hostility is so telling. Oh and btw, I didn't ask MEN if they liked to see MEN with MEN, I said that for women to like it is equivalent to men liking two women, and for a MAN to tell a WOMAN that she has no right to like the same thing in reverse is pure horse shit and narrow-mindedness and repressing women's own sexual fantasies. I am so glad I'm not a woman submitting to the double standards of straight men who live by double standards when it comes to the goose/gander thing. So your point about YOU thinking seeing men is disgusting is moot; read the original post. | |
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| How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/20/2009 5:10:29 PM | I'm a woman who thinks two guys together can be hot.
I've had guy friends who weren't gay make out, and I thought that was hot. And seeing two hot gay guys together, can be hot.
But I'm with the above poster who said if we're talking about someone I'm involved with, I'd rather it be a MMF with most of the attention focused on me | |
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| How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/20/2009 5:13:26 PM | I have to admit that I do get very turned on by watching man-on-man porn (especially if the two men are hot). However, it's never been a fantasy of mine to watch my hubby with another man mainly because I don't like to share my man with anyone else and because I know he'd say "NO FRIGGING WAY"! 
Same goes for me with another woman - I'm not into women and wouldn't just do it to please him. | |
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| How many women fantasize watching their man with another man?
Posted: 3/20/2009 5:15:59 PM | I totally respect that. And for the record, despite what poster #20 said, never did I say that "anybody who can’t find this practice a turn on was “homophobic, insecure and repressed”. However, if I am suffering from Alzheimer's and did and just don't remember, anyone is free to copy and paste where I did.
Again, the hostility and adamant protest is kinda funny. All I did was say what I've heard and seen a lot of and ask what WOMEN felt that and what MEN would do it in exchange for their woman being with another woman. Apparently all these men would never want either I guess. But they can bring on the attacks. Everything I said (and didn't say) in in black and white for anyone to read, but if they need to vent it's okay.  | |
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