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 pazoozoo
Joined: 8/28/2006
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Sexting has been all over the news lately. Mostly, the stories are about teenagers sending naked or near naked pics of themselves to one another, but I know for a fact adults are doing it too.

Have you "sexted"? If so, why and are you sorry now that you did it?
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 3/25/2009 9:35:45 AM
What happens in private.......stays in private.

Just my opinion......
 Lovelytonou
Joined: 8/18/2007
Msg: 3
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Posted: 3/25/2009 9:57:34 AM
No, never did and never will.
Yeah, just put it out there in cyber space and the open world of technology. Access unlimited.....Yeah, right. People just don't think sometimes.
 rickxyz
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 4
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Posted: 3/25/2009 10:44:08 AM
Never heard of it, sounds pretty kooky...just make sure you don't sext your mom...
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 5
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Posted: 3/25/2009 12:44:12 PM
That is like a good quality STD, they can spread like a wildfire and from there on you cannot contain it. And like the STDs they may haunt you for the rest of your life.
 I Cornelius
Joined: 1/4/2009
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Posted: 3/25/2009 1:00:23 PM
I barely can handle seeing myself naked in a MIRROR, why on earth would I want to take a picture to capture the moment?

(I am just kidding, of course. I can spend hours simply staring at my own reflection...)
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Posted: 3/25/2009 1:20:26 PM
I've never understood the sexting trend. I rather keep what happens in private just that, private.
 ProcolHarem
Joined: 8/29/2008
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Posted: 3/25/2009 1:27:02 PM
I heard a story where a girl accidentally sent a naked pic of herself to her dad that was meant for her bf.
That wasn't the explaination the dad was hoping for.
 ~rain~
Joined: 6/9/2007
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Posted: 3/25/2009 1:45:31 PM
I have heard of this too..People are actually getting criminally charged for it! I think that is a tad harsh!

umm..I used my my camera phone to take a pic of me in a tub full of bubbles once..(I think the pic is on facebook somewhere) laffs...eek! should I delete it? NAH!!!!


Now "texting" if there could be criminal charges laid for that content, I would be going away for a very long time!
 pazoozoo
Joined: 8/28/2006
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Posted: 3/25/2009 1:50:45 PM
I started thinking about this because a teenaged girl committed suicide over a pic she sent to her bf. After they broke up, he sent it to friends in revenge and someone posted it on the internet.

Teens have brains that are still developing, so I can understand why they do stupid things. I have adult male friends who have adult women send them the same type of pics. I just don't understand the mindset.

Are women so darned desperate to have a romantic encounter they feel they need to do that sort of thing? We are not talking the Uuuuglies here. Most of these women, at least the pics I've been shown, are very attractive.

Before anyone gets upset, it isn't just women who do it. I have also seen some of the pics my gfs get from their male friends. It all sounds so ignorant.
 allInkedup
Joined: 3/20/2009
Msg: 11
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Posted: 3/25/2009 1:51:46 PM
geigh........................................................................
 Rushâ„¢
Joined: 2/17/2009
Msg: 12
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Posted: 3/25/2009 2:25:22 PM

I started thinking about this because a teenaged girl committed suicide over a pic she sent to her bf. After they broke up, he sent it to friends in revenge and someone posted it on the internet.


Yet another good reason, why I would never send out nude, or half nude photos, over a cam phone.
 rosebuds57
Joined: 1/21/2007
Msg: 13
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Posted: 3/25/2009 2:59:28 PM
Sexting and sending nude pictures over a phone can be, in some instances, a criminal act. Pandering is a felony, and if they pictures of a minor this can become a real nightmare. Teens don't have the maturity to realize what they are doing can be risky, but grown ups should. Sexting, IMO, is opening up a pandora's box.
 *~*Royal Majesty*~*
Joined: 8/5/2008
Msg: 14
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Posted: 3/25/2009 3:34:05 PM
If a person is as stupid & naive to think that thier "private photos" are for certain eyes only, it's apparent that they do NOT know/or were not taught the meaning of Common Sense.

And some people think electronics/technology makes them "smarter". Ha!

 Jim978
Joined: 7/15/2008
Msg: 15
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Posted: 3/25/2009 3:44:27 PM

Sexting and sending nude pictures over a phone can be, in some instances, a criminal act. Pandering is a felony, and if they pictures of a minor this can become a real nightmare. Teens don't have the maturity to realize what they are doing can be risky, but grown ups should. Sexting, IMO, is opening up a pandora's box.


We just had a case here fairly locally where a 14 year old girl stuffed her celly in her underoos, snapped a pic and sent it to her b/f. By the end of the school day it was already known to have been forwarded to over 150 other classmates. The school contacted the parents of every child in the system asking them to scan their children's cell phones for images and delete them to try to slow the spreading of the pic down. Because of the girl's age the police were involved and there was discussion of charging anyone who continued to forward the pic with distribution of child porn.

Luckily, taking that sort of pic wouldn't work for me. My cell has a camera but no flash. I'd have to stuff a floor lamp in my undies to get proper lighting. The required logistics just sort fo kill off the mood...
 bklynrebel
Joined: 11/30/2008
Msg: 16
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Posted: 3/25/2009 4:17:17 PM
The world has gone mad.
 Okietokie88
Joined: 12/8/2008
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Posted: 3/25/2009 7:47:12 PM
I mean sexual innuendo is as far as anything should go to me,I just think it's strange to send someone something they could potentially masturbate to.Ew masturbating on a cell,now the world has TRULY gone mad.Hmm well to each his or her own....I guess if you ever have to use anyone elses cell you should black light it.
 mercedes8
Joined: 7/24/2008
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Posted: 3/25/2009 7:53:09 PM
OMG!!!! Jim978, ur last comment made me fall off my chair in laughter!!!! LMAO!!!!
 GreenEyeItalianGuy
Joined: 3/14/2009
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Posted: 3/25/2009 11:44:57 PM
honestly ive never sent a text message let alone a nude text. idk how well that would work while driving though. takes alot of coordination
 spicynicegirl
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 20
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Posted: 3/26/2009 12:09:06 AM
No never done it but then again it would help if I had a mobile.....................
 FourUms
Joined: 3/17/2009
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Posted: 3/26/2009 12:24:10 AM
Alright, I'll fess up. I've done it. Only after she did first, and I didn't include my face along with anything that showed naughty bits. Surprisingly, she did. I never considered sharing them with anyone. I hadn't even met her at the time, but eventually did. We had some great times together. She was much younger than me, so I figured it was just part of how things work now. I still don't think I'm far from wrong on that.


 GreenEyeItalianGuy
Joined: 3/14/2009
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Posted: 3/26/2009 1:24:13 AM
what must be going through ones mind when taking a picture of their ween? do you like position it a certain way? i think boobs are easier to take a pic of then a ween
 the.best.guy.ever
Joined: 11/11/2008
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Posted: 3/26/2009 1:18:06 PM
When I heard of this on the news the other day, I was at first shocked, then I realized... it's just the next step in kids (and society) falling down the slippery slope of immorality. Adults, I can understand and hope they know just what the hell they are doing (not that it makes it ok to someone like me) but kids, teens doing this stuff just screams F'd up family values/parenting. Of course I don't have the slightest clue what kind of discipline (or lack of obviously) goes on in their homes so I can't say much in that regard.

Yet another aspect of degenerate behavior in society I go "Bleh" to I suppose. Harsh? You betcha!
 Elle72
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 24
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Posted: 3/26/2009 1:51:14 PM
This happens when there's nothing else in a person worth to be seen...
 The rock man
Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 25
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Posted: 3/26/2009 10:15:17 PM
I sure have. Then I have them put the pic as my call photo. That way my business comes up when I call... Then when we are talking and they ask me to repeat myself I can always tell them to get the d**k out of their ear!
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