| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 10/11/2004 1:59:53 PM | | ITS SOMETHING I HAVE NEVER TRIED WANTED TO KNOW ALOT ABOUT IT,IS IT A BIG THING???? | |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 10/11/2004 2:18:26 PM | | oh, baby, are you definitely missing out. can be tons of fun. just make sure you're with someone you trust, and someone who trusts you. and make sure boundaries are set, such as a 'keyword' so both sides know when to stop if things are getting out of hand. | |
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rjn40
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Joined: 2/15/2004
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 10/11/2004 3:21:29 PM | if you feel like you are missing out then maybe you are. Try it, but make sure you know the person you are with. It can be alot of fun and something that you wont forget for a long time..if at all. | |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 10/11/2004 3:24:03 PM | | ain't that the truth. lol *remembers the fun times and thinks about picking up the phone* | |
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rjn40
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Joined: 2/15/2004
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 10/11/2004 3:31:00 PM | hmmm, last time I picked up the phone for THAT kinda of visit, I was gone from home for four days....
might be phone call time again here too.....lol | |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 5/17/2005 10:54:21 PM | I had a girlfriend who was also intrigued by the idea and we experimented with light bondage. She preferred the silk scarves over handcuffs and we took turns. It was fantastic! Recently I met a woman who is into Japanese Bondage and although I'm a bit intimidated by it, I am excited about learning more and getting into it. I spoke with a Dom in New Orleans who told me about a few references that I thought I'd share with folks...
Japanese Bondage An interesting and detailed "How-to Manual"
The Rose and Its' Thorns Another Intro
Screw the Rose, Give Me the Thorns! A more advanced manual
I haven't seen the last two yet...let me know what you think if you know of these. | |
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Tarika
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Joined: 8/30/2006
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 3/16/2007 6:36:48 PM | Looks interesting but the women I've been with had bad experiences with men and wouldn't play...
Kev | |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 3/16/2007 7:11:24 PM |
what is Japanese Bondage? Japanese people doing BDSM.
What the person you heard the from was probably thinking of is Shibari (aka Japanese Rope Bondage). It's artful, dangerous if done poorly, amazing if done correctly, and easy to find illustrations and descriptions of via google now that you have a good keyword to use.
I'm a huge fan of BDSM, and though ropework is not my speciality, I'm quite compitent with it. | |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 3/16/2007 8:07:31 PM | I think it's quite sane to be wary of someone who's a fan of bondage and sadism/masochism.
That is what BDSM stands for, after all.
Sadism is taking sexual pleasure from someone's pain.
Masochism is taking sexual pleasure from one's own pain.
They're not exactly keystone attributes of a well-adjusted person.
I don't know about you, but taking it out of those lovely vague acronyms seems to shine the light a bit more on it, and man does it look ugly.
As for bondage: It's certainly not for me, but at so long as humiliation isn't involved I can't see too much wrong with it. | |
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Posted: 3/17/2007 10:08:43 AM | | Japanese bondage is pretty erotic... If done right not only to restrain the bottom but as the same time done to stimulate the bottom. Now if i could only find one to teach me Shibari ide be a happy man... | |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 3/17/2007 10:10:43 AM |
Check out Chanta Rose. She's the bomb! I like her only with women, though.
Oh god a scene with Chanta Rose... I could die a happy man after that... she is such a nasty Top... | |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 3/17/2007 10:24:54 AM | greengrayblack
I think it's quite sane to be wary of someone who's a fan of bondage and sadism/masochism.
That is what BDSM stands for, after all.
Sadism is taking sexual pleasure from someone's pain.
Masochism is taking sexual pleasure from one's own pain.
They're not exactly keystone attributes of a well-adjusted person.
ok that is all I needed to read to put me off even googling it.... not for me
to tie ones hands up with lace or ribbon is one thing.... but that is going to far for me | |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 3/17/2007 11:50:15 AM | | YES, you are missing out. It is fun, exciting and interesting. Shibari (Japanese ropework) is fun and interesting in it's own way. The knots used can be very intricate and it looks nice too. The one thing you have to have if you are going to be with someone in that way is TRUST! Have fun with it... | |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 3/17/2007 11:54:39 AM | Not all bondage is about ROPES, Chains, pain or anything related to the aforementioned BDSM scence!
Some term it light bondage, where in a very sensual manner a partner can give themselves wholly. This can be done using silk ties, scarves, fluff covered handcuffs, nylons, tights, clothing etc..and with the right amount of trust between the parties involved it can be an euphoric experience! Don't assume it has to be about the hardcore, scene, it can be just as sensual and eroitc, as rose pedals and a candle lit room! I would even suggets for first timers, have a safety word if you feel uncomfortable at any point about the on going scenario, but I guarantee if you're frame of mind is right, you won't need it!  Oh and don't be afraid to add a sensual touch with oils, candles, romance, allow yourself to be taken and pleasured without the ability to respond with touch, will drive the one tied up over the edge! | |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 3/17/2007 11:58:01 AM | ITS SOMETHING I HAVE NEVER TRIED WANTED TO KNOW ALOT ABOUT IT,IS IT A BIG THING????
No thanks I'll be goddamned if the first time I try it ,that My partner runs out of the room in the middle of an earthquake with the building collapsing leaving Me handcuffed to the bed. | |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 3/18/2007 3:44:30 PM | They're not exactly keystone attributes of a well-adjusted person. Where did you get your degree in psyciatry? Oh right, you didn't.
That's OK. You don't need a degree to be right, let me just take a look at your support for your claim.
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Hrm. It seems you've put up abosulutely no support for your claim at all.
Oh well, let's see how it's useful to the topic
Topic: "Is bondage fun?"
Response: "People into pain are mal-adjusted"
OK. Doesn't really offer anything on the topic either.
In short your post would be useless even if it were credible, but there's absolutely no reason to see it as credible. Sometimes I wonder why people bother posting when they have no idea what they are typing.
On a personal note, I don't think anyone wearing that "suit" you have on in your picture should be casting disparaging remarks on the taste / adjustment of others... or did you put that on your profile on a dare? | |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT????
Posted: 3/18/2007 4:03:03 PM |
"They're not exactly keystone attributes of a well-adjusted person."
Where did you get your degree in psyciatry? Oh right, you didn't.
It's probably not a keystone attribute of a well-adjusted person.
Being 5 feet tall isn't a keystone attribute of a normal person, either.
There's not much you can do about it, though. | |
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