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Posted: 4/2/2009 10:22:27 PM | | I find myself here, at the computer, night after night, wondering if there is someone out there for me. I think I'm a pretty normal gal, like lots of fun stuff... yet here I am... single. Up until about 2 years ago I was a chronic long term dater. I was in 3 relationships that lasted over 3 years each and here I am... 30, single, and not even close to having a date. All of my x's are not married with kids or engaged... I feel like I've lost my mojo. I haven't even been on a date in over a year... how do I move on? Everyone else has. | |
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Posted: 4/3/2009 1:57:11 AM | | Babe, you haven't lost anything. There are times in life where all we can really do is press on and look to the future, you are at one of those times now. So what if you're 30 and single? 30 is the new 20! You are still young, you have plenty of time ahead of you to build a career/relationship/family. Many people these days don't have those things until they are almost 40. So buck up beautiful and forge ahead, before you know it things will be better. | |
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Posted: 4/3/2009 10:09:24 AM | And I thought starving children dying of malnutrition in third world countries had it rough? good Lord.
Thats your major problem right there, you cannot for some reason be alone, you cannot stand being alone, there is nothing wrong with being alone, try re discovering your self, do the things that make you happy, find hobbies, new friends, take classes, dancing, sports, martial arts, dragon boating what ever, sitting home night after night surfing online dating sites isnt the answer.
Online dating is supposed to be a alternative a bonus so to speak not your main source of meeting someone?
If you do the things that make you happy, you become happier , they say like attracts Like, and misery loves company.
You havent lost your mojo, youre just in a funk, get your ass off the computer and start doing things Coastie or youre going to end up a bitter old lady who wont trust men and has 12 cats all name Fluffy, Muffy and buffy. | |
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Posted: 4/3/2009 10:42:48 AM |
they say like attracts Like, and misery loves company
We have a winner, folks!! ^ ^
I agree, like attracts like! | |
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Posted: 4/3/2009 10:59:48 AM | Well for one, you might change your main profile pic. seriously...I was having a "Pat" moment..thot you might have a been a guy because the wacked out color scheme and ball cap combo.
Don't try so hard maybe? Seems to me, when we're positive and happy with our own life THEN we attract others. | |
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Posted: 4/3/2009 11:01:32 AM | | why do you have "activity partner" listed if you are desiring dates? | |
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Posted: 4/3/2009 11:05:38 AM | get yourself a hobby so you arent sitting at the computer night after night!!
eeash..
you need a life girl!! | |
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