| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 6/29/2005 1:14:18 PM | Okay so I figured I'd put this within the global forum cause well more opinions....
Guys directed more at you....
Why do guys find it hard to date or more so be in a relationship with a bigger set lady, but they find it more than easy to have sex with us, or make us their "friends with benefits" or the their booty call etc etc...
To the ladies....
Do any of you have this same problem? | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 6/29/2005 1:21:24 PM | | guys are afraid of what other guys think...secretly they love more cushion for the pushing but feel like they have to date "models"..FECK em.... | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 6/29/2005 1:22:59 PM | Myself, most of my girlfriends are heavier than what most men seem to prefer. By heavier, I'm saying that my girlfriends are generally a size 12-14, which is a thick girl.
I have a reputation around my peers as being a "chubby chaser", which I find to be inaccurate. I like PRETTY women, and the ones that I happen to find pretty also seem to have large breasts and a thick booty ! LOL But i do not "limit" myself to thick girls.
To answer your question: I've had a few hefty booty calls, and that is what they were from the very beginning. If a 'bigger lady' wants to be more than a booty call, don't put out so quickly. I myself have found that women who are uncomfortable with their appearance DO indeed move faster into sexual practice, which in turn will send many men scampering off AFTER the deed or else coming back for the deed ONLY. I do think that men will sleep with a far greater number of women than one they would actually take out in public or around their friends. I'm guilty of that as well, but I'm not one who "sleeps around".
My own theory is this: every man wants a beautiful woman who they can show off in public. But, men (and women, too !) have carnal needs and so they will seek out something to hold them over, ala the Friends with Benefits/F Buddy/Booty Call. Insecure women let themselves get drawn into that more easily than a confident girl, so I personally think that is why it APPEARS that men use bigger ladies only for sexual favors.
Did any of that rambling make sense ??? | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 6/29/2005 1:23:27 PM | I know I know!!!
"Friends with Benefits" aren't "Arm Charms" that the buddies see!
I was about to post a board for men Honestly interested in dating BBW's.
I don't have this problem.. as I choose not to allow it.. I have dated (short and long term) men who are truly into "Bigger" girls.
Some just love us..
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 6/29/2005 1:25:25 PM |
Myself, most of my girlfriends are heavier than what most men seem to prefer. By heavier, I'm saying that my girlfriends are generally a size 12-14, which is a thick girl.
I have a reputation around my peers as being a "chubby chaser", which I find to be inaccurate. I like PRETTY women, and the ones that I happen to find pretty also seem to have large breasts and a thick booty ! LOL But i do not "limit" myself to thick girls
12 - 14 is thick?  considering that the Average size of a Woman in North America is a 14.. I think "thick" should be replaced with Average.
Just my 2 cents on that! | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 6/29/2005 1:27:45 PM | First off I wanna say that I love BBW
My friend once said this.......
BBW are like scooters, you ride it all the time but just make sure your friends don't find out....
Men are such pigs, however I must say that in my experience bigger women are easier than other women.
Now all this is not me, because I happen to love women of all sizes!! | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 6/29/2005 1:28:10 PM | | There are alot of size 28's bringing that average up, though. The average male and female in north america is on the thick side. I'm thick, too ! I'm 6'1" 225, so I'm a long way from an Adonis. And I didn't mention that I like short girls, usually in the 5'1"-5'3" range, so a size 14 at that height is a pretty thick girl. But the DD's make their ass look smaller ! LOL joking ! | |
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foxkr
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Joined: 6/16/2005
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 6/29/2005 1:28:31 PM | | I prefer ladies with a some meat. Bone on bone hurts. Body is a nice feature, have to be attracted. Personality can make a cute lady gorgeous. | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 6/29/2005 1:31:45 PM | reddgrange
Fair enough.. I guess I just happen to be one that brings the "Average" up.. so be it..
DD's huh? I see those daily..  I'll gladly give them to anyone who want's them.. surgically of course.. I'm tired of carrying them around!!
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 6/29/2005 1:32:52 PM | Wow, this got response quickly!! All interesting posts too!!! Giving me a good insight.
~Shells~ I would so support the guys interested in dating BBW!!!!!!!! Awesome idea! | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 6/29/2005 1:47:32 PM |
well big women don't really move that well in bed.... so I prefer a thin one
bestloverever
Umm okay.. to each their own!
OMG... my sides hurt.. that struck me really funny! | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 6/29/2005 1:50:28 PM | | I don't personally have a problem with BBW women, not that I have dated many. My problem is women who lie thier ass off online, position their pictures just "so" to hide what they are obviously insecure about and then expect me to forgive that because their personality is so "sparkling". If you are gonna start it off with a lie I have no respect for them at all. | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 6/29/2005 2:02:52 PM | | Drove 50 miles one way to meet a girl one time to find out she weighed nearly twice what I weight. I ain't knocking it. People like what people like. Just don't lie about stupid shit that we would all find out about anyways. | |
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Joined: 6/29/2005
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 6/29/2005 2:08:47 PM | well i dont limit myself by what other people think.most ''other people'' are
stupid as hel anyway.
i would date or sleep with any women i find attractive regardless of what others think.
the last chick i was with weighed almost as much as me, and it was great. | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 6/29/2005 2:10:36 PM | My thread was deleted .. 
I agree.. why lie? I could tell you I weighed 150 or 340.. either way you're going to see I am lying!
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 6/29/2005 2:17:18 PM | | I can tell MOST of you guys have never had a woman who was 200 in bed and wanted to go all night . I had one but , she wanted a one nighter . | |
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| Dating VS sleeping with Bigger ladies
Posted: 6/29/2005 2:17:23 PM | | I can tell MOST of you guys have never had a woman who was 200 in bed and wanted to go all night . I had one but , she wanted a one nighter . | |
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