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 goodapple

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Why is it??????
Posted: 4/7/2009 5:24:12 AM
Open letter to YOU whom it concerns,
I received an obnoxious and self pitying message from a member last night, who questioned WHY...
I would be on this sight SOOOO long, and in his words "continue 'dating' the wrong types who "will never treat me right"! What a TURKEY!!!! Then, he said, "just because I am ugly, no one gives me a chance" or something like that....

I only want to address publicly that First off, if someone is polite to you, but shows no interest, move on!! Don't make ignorant statements which you quite literally know nada about! You DO NOT know me AT ALL! You even listed "christian" on your bio!
You are not my "type", for many many reasons and trust me, LOOKS have nothing to do with that!!!

For the record, I have blocked YOUR future of messaging me, but you need to know that when you see yourself as UGLY, and UNWORTHY, and send self loathing messages like you did to me, Others will see only that you have no real sense of self worth or value!
Beauty is what comes from within, and everyone by my age knows this! Don't try to make ME feel bad about myself, as I am on this sight because; regardless of how long it takes, I WILL find the right person! That sometimes takes a while, and NO for the record, I am NOT continually dating "the wrong types"! On the Contrary!
I am just very particular, as everyone should be....
Why is it??????
Posted: 9/10/2009 6:18:46 PM
Sorry to hear that. I am not talking about you here but over two years ago after being single for 5 years and not even so much as holding a girls hand I went on a quest. I am single again and what I have noticed is some of the same faces on the dating sites now as two years ago.

I call them serial daters and don't hold out much hope for meeting anyone here in my area.

Mike
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