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 justaguy6302
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i tried to search for this but didnt find anything. i am seeing a girl and till this point it has been pretty tame till friday night. we got into some heavy petting and kissing. during this i slid my hand under her top and was surprised to find that her nipples were very soft and even after touching them, nothing. they stayed the same no matter what. is this possible? do some women's nipples not get hard when turned on? she acted like she was turned on but i was getting mixed signals.
 Forumhobbit
Joined: 10/27/2008
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 4:38:59 AM

do some women's nipples not get hard when turned on?


yup - 'tis true. Not EVERY woman's nipples will get hard if she's turned on. Could be a number of factors. If she's really warm, if her nipples aren't sensitive, etc.

Try letting one out to the cold air.. or give it a little pinch. That should wake it up and have it spring to life!
 justaguy6302
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 4:45:24 AM
i did pinch them slightly, nothing.
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 4:58:12 AM
if your looking for one sure fire way to tell exactly when all women are turned on... -good luck on that futile joyride...
its much easier to watch all her body language (breathing pattern, kissing receptiveness, pupil dilation)
-when all else fails, try asking her???
-if she is showing no signs of turn-on (or you have to ask yourself) -its probibly cuz she's not excited, (or she doesn't want it to go any further)
a womans nipples are activated by a number of reasons, they can be extremely sensitive -or not at all. if she definately welcomes your advances -try nibbling, sucking or lightly licking them -some women swear it makes her clit tingle or explode -when a guy can give her correct nipple stimulation, some women can even cum just from nipple play -some aren't able to cum without it as well, (she will let you know exactly how much of a turn on it is for her -be gentle with them (dont twist or bite hard unless she asks) -wait for her to tell you if she enjoys rough nipple play)
also its common for women have a favorite nipple thats more sensitive than the other -so if your teasing the wrong one -you may be getting nowhere.
 GWSmith
Joined: 12/18/2008
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 5:06:01 AM
No not every woman's nipples get hard when they are turned on. Some people can be ragingly must have sex right now horny and not have an outward signs of it until they are ready too. I speak from experience with that since I have done it once or twice and I had a lover who would be thinking the nastiest things she could do as soon as we were alone right in front of her mother and acted perfectly normal until I took her home.
 xinix
Joined: 1/14/2007
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 5:08:23 AM
it can be the case, because a woman's nipples will remain soft if they are in a warm place. they harden when in a cooler place. often in a pool or the sea. i think it be the same with a man's nipples. if a woman's nipples are naturally pert, then maybe they will be hard. it is maer likely the clitoris will swell, but seldom will the nipples harden.
 no_1_bby
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 8:43:03 AM
When I first read your post OP I was thinking.. omg, how old is this guy? Checked your profile and really... at your age this is something you should know. Either that or you are watching a lot of porn and assume that what you see there is REAL. It's not. Most of those vids are shot where the a/c is cranked up so high all the nipples are hard all the time.

As for your question... no. Not all nipples get hard when their *owner* is aroused. Don't judge a lady's state of arousal by her nipples alone.
 NESunshine
Joined: 7/11/2008
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 9:34:47 AM
Some do, some don't. Depends on the breast! There's no set checklist for what to look for to determine arousal short of sticking your hand into her panties.
 justaguy6302
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 9:43:59 AM
Some do, some don't. Depends on the breast! There's no set checklist for what to look for to determine arousal short of sticking your hand into her panties.

LMAO....good suggestion
 Meowwrr
Joined: 6/1/2005
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 9:50:00 AM
cold weather does that too...LOL
 c_deacon
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 10:12:42 AM
Just go to the fridge and take out an ice cube and slowly rub it over and around her nipples, and if they do not get hard, take two aspirins and call me in the morning........

Many women will be different when it comes to hard nipples and what will effect them, just as it is with men and what will get them hard and when that happens. If it really is an important part of your mental well being to have her nipples hard, then find the ways to make it so.

I would use cold to get that process started, and trust me, there are many things one can do with ice cubes that will not only make her nipples hard, they will make many other parts of her tingle as well.

Just my opinion.......
 big22blue
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 1:52:55 PM
a wet **** is the only true place to check
 no_1_bby
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 1:57:10 PM
a wet **** is the only true place to check


Reality check. Rape victims lubricate and it's often used against them.. as in.. she was into it, she got all wet. Granted we are NOT discussing that kind of situation.. I just wanted to point out that this is NOT a sure fire method either.

ETA.. Also.. there have been times when I've been more than aroused and not been wet at all.
 BigDaddyJinx
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 2:16:56 PM
OP -- Hard nipples or wet snatches don't mean a thing...

Really.

If she rips your clothes off and rides you like she's breakin' a bronco...then you know she's into you and plenty turned on.

Anything else is guesswork.
 REDDRAGON.
Joined: 10/9/2008
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 2:36:16 PM

i did pinch them slightly, nothing.


sounds like a faulty erogenous zone valve stem.


pinch and repeat .

leave over night and try in the morning if all else fails bring it back and ask for a new one.
 ZenBeth
Joined: 2/23/2009
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 3:16:07 PM
Not all women will have highly sensitive nipple nerves. Some women who have had breast reduction or breast augmentation often have nipples that are much less sensitive. And some women who are runners can develop nipple issue if they are not wearing a good sports bra.

~Beth~
 widowsdesire
Joined: 4/7/2009
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 4:18:53 PM
I can only speak for myself. When I get aroused my nipples get hard, and my breasts swell. I have small breasts and my breasts are extremely sensitive. I also get very wet with arousal.

If the lady said she was aroused, I would take her word for it. What would be her motive to lie?
 spicynicegirl
Joined: 8/10/2008
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 4:45:31 PM
Big Daddy for president of POF!!!!

Seriously though just read what he wrote. Also you know when the weather is cold...................oh never mind............LOL.
 Shell225
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 5:00:26 PM
Some women have 'inverted' nipples..............

google it....................
 forums_only_thx
Joined: 2/2/2009
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 5:18:38 PM
From personal experience, when aroused mine tend to go from soft to hard to soft to hard to soft to hard to soft, etc.
If I'm wearing a shirt and bra and I'm warm, generally they'll be soft no matter how turned on I am.
Pinching does not make my nipples go hard.
Licking and sucking only occaisionally makes my nipples go hard.
All women's nipples will respond to different stimulation.
If it happens again, wait until a neutral time when you guys aren't fooling around and ask her about it.
 HappySimcoeGurl
Joined: 7/26/2008
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 5:24:29 PM
and what does this have to do with the price of peanut butter? lol
 Blondecharmthe3rd
Joined: 8/7/2008
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Posted: 4/13/2009 5:30:49 PM
Mine are hit and miss.... sometimes yes, sometimes no.

They are sensitive enough, I can orgasm with the right nipple play so its not about being turned on. I don't think anyway.
 windloverr
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 6:29:18 PM

...a woman's nipples will remain soft if they are in a warm place. they harden when in a cooler place.
Ahhhhhhhhhh...thank goodness for the freezer section of the grocery store in Spring!
 Just_Another_Gurl
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 7:42:39 PM
Shell is right on the money with her post....inverted nipples will not get hard nine times out of ten. Someone l know had this issue, she couldn't even nurse her baby because she could not get her nipples hard for the baby to latch so yeah....what BDJ said....
 infoseekngeek
Joined: 3/24/2009
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does a woman's nipples always get hard when turned on?
Posted: 4/13/2009 7:55:44 PM
Not always. And I once knew a woman whose nipples were always hard and pointy no matter what, and she was embarrassed by it.
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