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 Rick4ufun

Joined: 3/27/2009
Msg: 1
Why fat's dont havy any chance?
Posted: 4/14/2009 4:49:42 PM
I have few extra pounds, not to much, anyways, i was think and conclude!!

Girl's dont like fat guys!!! Dont matter if we are cool, if we gentlemans or whatever!!

they dont wanna be whit fat guys!!!
 Little Lady

Joined: 4/2/2005
Msg: 2
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Why fat's dont havy any chance?
Posted: 4/14/2009 4:52:06 PM
Have you checked out the success stories at the top of your page?

You may be interested that more of the larger people on the site end up married, then the smaller people.

Give it time and patients, which I'm sure every person is deserving of.

Best wishes, & smiles,
LL
 Rick4ufun

Joined: 3/27/2009
Msg: 3
Why fat's dont havy any chance?
Posted: 4/14/2009 4:53:54 PM
wow...i think the problem it's me...hehehhe
 Pug Girl

Joined: 2/17/2009
Msg: 4
Why fat's dont havy any chance?
Posted: 4/14/2009 5:01:03 PM
Well on your profile you say you are not single/not looking. So why are you attributing anything to your weight? I think you should also consider putting your profile up for review and getting some pointers. It is riddled with spelling and grammatical errors (perhaps that is due to english being your second language?). And just as there are men who appreciate the larger women, there are women who appreciate a larger man. Using your weight as an excuse is really just a crutch that prevents you from working on other areas of your life.
 Rick4ufun

Joined: 3/27/2009
Msg: 5
Why fat's dont havy any chance?
Posted: 4/14/2009 5:09:18 PM
if u check my Ethnicity, i'm latino, that's why u found lot of grammatical errors, sorry about that, english it's my second language, i'm at school to learning more.!! About my status not single/not looking, i think is for two person's to be whit, they have be friends first, real friend's, if they have compatibility, they gonna see if they can advanced to the next stage!! One more time, sorry for my grammatical errors !!! I will learning more, ok?!?! Thnxs to reply!! God Bless u!!
 Little Lady

Joined: 4/2/2005
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Why fat's dont havy any chance?
Posted: 4/14/2009 6:08:53 PM
Rick,

Then you should have that you are single, and looking for friends. It would make more sense that way. Not Single/Not Looking is there to let people know you are in a relationship that you do not want others interfering with.

Also may I suggest cutting and pasting your profile into a spell check program. If you do not have one on your computer most email accounts have them available. Just cut and paste it into an email from another account, then spell check it.

See that we got you thinking more positive already. Trust me a little time and patients can help each grow, and earn new friends.

All my best,
LL
 Light Storm

Joined: 5/23/2006
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Posted: 4/14/2009 7:49:12 PM

Have you checked out the success stories at the top of your page?

You may be interested that more of the larger people on the site end up married, then the smaller people.

Give it time and patients, which I'm sure every person is deserving of.

Best wishes, & smiles,
LL


LoL... I thought I was the only one that noticed that
 guitaristinsc

Joined: 1/11/2009
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Posted: 5/1/2009 11:01:34 AM
Becase they canst nott spel and has rilly badz grammers.
 ray811981

Joined: 4/27/2005
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Posted: 8/5/2009 12:11:00 AM
hey man i have to agree with you, i have been here for like over a year now and nothing at all . i am gentle man and respectfu; to women it sucks i hear you man
 chaddricktaylor

Joined: 4/24/2007
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Posted: 8/6/2009 9:17:29 PM
I have to agree also. I have met a couple of females off this site and it seems that when I try to be the nice guy, they lose interest. I have come to the conclusion that if you are a fate guy (like myself) and you try to be nice, you are better off staying at home by yourself, because women they really deep down in their hearts do not want a nice guy. The things is, if a guy that is in shape is nice to a girl, she may not really like him, but since he is in shape, she will be less reluctant to give him up, at least until she has another guy to be with. Now with a fat guy, most women already look at it as if they are doing us a favor by even being seen with us; so when we decide to be more nice to them that is necessary, whatever attraction that may have been there is gone and the woman won't give us the time of day. The best thing I can tell you is to do like me and try your best to lose weight and maybe one day you can treat women the same way that they've treated you.

I will give you a warning though; there might be plenty of women that will read this and swear up and down that they really do want a nice guy, but don't listen to them. I look at it as kind of like going to buy a car; if the car salesman knows that you really want a specific car, then he/she is not going to budge on the price, but if that car salesmen feels that you have the same car at a different dealership that you might buy, then he/she will negotiate with you. Well when it comes to us fat men, most women know that we are undesirable to them, so that's why they tell lies, they make false requirements because they know that we will do it just for the opportunity or the chance of being with them. And once they get what they want, whether it be a free meal, or in most cases, women just like the attention of someone and having the power of knowing that someone likes them and not liking that person back.

In conclusion, go to the gym, starve yourself and do whatever you have to do, get yourself in shape (just like I am trying to do) and you will have options and for some reason, women are attracted to a guy that has options and that will potentially cheat on them.
 Edisonrestorer64

Joined: 8/4/2009
Msg: 11
Why fat's dont havy any chance?
Posted: 8/10/2009 7:01:26 PM
I consider my self fat Ulgly and Unwanted every time I look at differnt things o9n the net i am allways so disliked o well guess Ill be alone all my life o well Ill have to deal with it With one excption I am 96-99% match for some ladies but they do not have initerest i guess so what do I really to live for I hate my body but o well
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