| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/21/2009 4:17:41 PM | Please answer me this Y are Women so afraid of a MAN who's Disabled but highly independent it seems to me that they are they try to avoid you at all cost's but if a man hit's drink's or anything else they run back to them go figure  | |
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| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/21/2009 4:26:10 PM | | Everyone has hang ups, they wonder why they are alone mean wile they cut certain people out of their life because they to not fit the cookie pattern that they have in their mind. | |
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| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/21/2009 4:26:49 PM | | Everyone has hang ups, they wonder why they are alone mean wile they cut certain people out of their life because they do not fit the cookie pattern that they have in their mind. | |
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| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/21/2009 4:35:04 PM | | The fear of the unknown I would guess...if you really think they are AFRAID as you stated. | |
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| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/21/2009 4:39:55 PM | It could be because some women are intimidated. I know that there have been times, honestly, where it's been daunting to me to date someone with any sort of disability, though I have overcome that. I've met some great friends that way, and their disabilities were NOT the reason things did not progress to more than friendship.
Think of it this way: It weeds out those who aren't quite worth your attentions anyway. | |
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| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/21/2009 4:40:29 PM | Yes they are they want some 1 who
s whole I've tried for the past 6 years & all I've got is nowhere | |
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| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/21/2009 4:42:51 PM | | then you are telling me I should move which has crossed my mind LOL | |
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| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/21/2009 4:43:49 PM | | Just keep at it... there are women and men out there that realize that we are more than the shell that houses our soul | |
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| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/21/2009 4:45:17 PM | | lack of better words people are shallow...you can't physically see a drinker when you first meet him/her. | |
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| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/21/2009 4:45:45 PM |
bbkash:Please answer me this Y are Women so afraid of a MAN who's Disabled but highly independent it seems to me that they are they try to avoid you at all cost's but if a man hit's drink's or anything else they run back to them go figure
First off not all women are afraid, turned off, or otherwise averse to men who are disabled. In fact I work with a lot of disabled athletes who are as sensual and attractive as they come. You simply need to get involved in activities where thinking, caring women are also involved.
~Beth~ | |
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| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/21/2009 4:47:29 PM | | Once a DRUNK always u can tell if they drink | |
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| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/21/2009 4:56:48 PM | Dude
You're in the Ohio forum bashing women for being stuck up -- just in case anyone here missed it.
Kindness is a two way street -- something tells me you're hurt and bitter to a point.
Might I suggest working through those issues -- it's ok to ask questions. | |
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| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/21/2009 5:01:42 PM | | I know it's a 2way street I live in Ohio & they are stuckup here just wanted to see if they feel different else where | |
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| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/21/2009 7:32:11 PM | To be really honest with you, its not the man they are afraid of, it's the attitude.
Your profile pretty much revolves around your disability rather than who you are aside from it. We're looking for a person, not a situation that could easily be overcome for the right man!
We will focus on whatever your profile focuses on.
* Accentuate the wonderful person that you are and let the wheelchair be your mode of transportation.
* You show pics of a great Husky. How does he/she fit into your life? I bet he/she is a good friend!
* What do you do for fun? What would you like to do? We won't ask you even if you were SuperMan! You need to tell us why we want to spend time with you!
* You were a trucker, tell us that you have been all over and would love to share the stories. I'm sure you have seen some things that would be good for a chat or two.
* Do you want to do something special with your life. I know you are limited but not completely disabled or you wouldn't be able to fight for the rights of the disabled.
I hope you see what I'm saying! I'm certainly not trying to be cruel! Just trying to help you see things through our eyes so it might help you find a companion!
You are probably a fun and wonderful person but I wouldn't have a clue from your profile. So, tell us why we want to know you. Don't chase us away without that simple clue!
By the way, I'm originally from Ohio and I'm not stuck up! | |
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| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/21/2009 7:38:51 PM | Got brass in pocket, OP?
Perhaps it's the demographic/logistic. Seek other places and larger perimeters, IMO.  | |
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| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/21/2009 7:52:20 PM | Dude I cant even pretend to know how you must feel. All I can offer is the observation I have always had when I meet someone with a disablity. That is this....It seems that when someone has a disablity, the other parts of them seem to compensate by getting really strong. I know a blind person's sense of smell and hearing become stronger then a person who has sight.
I would concentrate on the strengths you have rather then the disablity. | |
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| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/22/2009 12:49:30 AM | LoL, that's BS it's not the attitude.
@OP, keep trucking..that's all I can say. I'll do the same. | |
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| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/22/2009 3:06:53 AM | | I know what my pro says I'm a upfront man that's why I put that down to to weed out the 1's that don't look & I like mystery about it also leaves questions to be asked & trying to be independent it's great to be stronger than I once was it's the way people are toward the way I am | |
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| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/22/2009 3:50:16 AM | Lets face it people. Some people like brunettes others blondes others don't care. Some like exciting ladies others more calm. Some like short , others tall, others fat, skinny, etc and etc. It's not shallow, it's not mean ,, it's just the laws of attraction. Some ladies will just be afraid or not afraid or not interested or very interested. The numbers may not be on your side, but hey they aren't on mine much either. Be well man, and good luck!javascript:smilie(' ') | |
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| Y are Women afraid
Posted: 4/22/2009 4:13:14 AM | | I'd be willing to guess that lack of interest isn't fear. It's just non-interest. | |
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